Fatty.2 : Revenge of the chub.

Ah no way,Thats a bit shit :(
Why not just give it a little time for him to cool off, your friendship doesn't necessarily have to change, just maybe take a little break from it for a while and it might not feel as awkward anymore.
Good that things seem back on track with the couple though :)
 
Sunflower said:

SoCoSexBomb: Haha, your whole tab?! You scandalous gold digger! I miss you, too..How're you doing darling?
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Uhhhh I am now fighting the intense urge to change my WLF name to SoCoSexBomb. That's how I am. Ohh and I am SO not a gold-digger! He knew upfront 100% that I wasn't goin' home with all'a that. His own stupidity! I let him check to see how my stomach tasted out in his car, so he'll have to live with that generosity.

I'm sorry to hear about yr unrequeited love, even though you're not the one with the unreciprocated feelings :( Boo. Bummer.

Cheer up, Sonny.
I added you on FB, btw! So if you see some creep, its just me! :D
 
Sorry to hear about all that...it's a shame when life throws you a bunch of curl balls all at once! It's also hard when there is friend's emotions involved. *hugs* you're in a tough spot. You seem like the type of person who doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings...it's a shame that your friend didn't keep his feelings to himself, as he knows you're in a relationship already- that's just blatantly putting you in a hard spot!

Take care chica...hope the weekend turns up for ya :)
 
Hey Hana,
Sorry things have become so complicated for you right now :(

Hope it all blows over and everything soon!

Hell even I fell off the wagon last night (first time since I started in October!) and I ate 2 big spoonfuls of chocolate spread out of the jar :blush5: have to say it was really yum though...
 
Don't ever doubt that you are anything but gorgeous. It has now been proved by the fact that everybody around you wants a peice of Hana!!!!!! :D
 
Hello my lovelies <3 What a great bunch of posts to come back to :beating: Can always count on you guys to put a smile on my face.

Last night I had a surprise party for Yank's "One Year in England". It was all English themed with the decorations and food and stuff :) Will attach some photos later.

Got a new posh phone and have a few apps to help me with weight loss. Need to be eating around 1500 calories a day to drop 1.5lbs a week so fingers crossed! I can add my food into the app when I'm out and track my progress. Need to get back to exercising more often. Just don't have ANY time what with dissertation and work :/

Awh well.
Am very hungover today but resisting eating everything in sight. I've had a turkey ham and low-fat cheese sammich and some crisps but that's all and now I'm off to work so wont be able to eat again til 8:30pm. Super :D
 
Aw yehhhh boi, i can't wait to see the photos from Yank's party.

New phone eh? Sweeeet. I love a good ap. Although sometimes, a notebook is just as useful for weight loss stufffff. And this website of course.

Have a good shift.

You ruuuule. xoxoxo
 
sorry about the personal life BS. :( new phones are super fun though! i just got one a couple months ago. app crazy :) lol

seems february has been a crummy month for a lot of people with weight loss. i know for me anyway. we'll blame it on the long, dronned out winter. :)
 
What an awesome party! That sounds like such fun!! :)

I love the app! I might have to think about getting that one myself!!! :)

You're doing a great job girl! Especially on a hang over! :)

Have a fabulous week!
 
Photos wont upload :( Will try again later xx

Not much time to update--I'm doing dissertation work but my calories for the last 2-3 days have been under my limit of 1500 and I got in a 1 hr walk yesterday burning 279 calories :)

On my night shift tonight so will have to try and be good!
 
Sunflower said:

Jay: HUGS! I miss you :D Someone *did* send me a nasty PM! And in a thread in nutrition earlier some user took a photo of me and posted it in the thread and basically told me how hideous I was! Great! I'm not very popular at the moment, clearly. :blush5:
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Well, as if my love life could not have gotten any MORE complicated. A very, very good friend of mine told me that he has feelings for me last night. Yank has been saying for months that he thinks this guy had a thing for me but I've always trusted my instincts and I genuinely thought Yank was being paranoid. So I got invited over to this guys house (We'll call him M) and he cooked me dinner and we got very drunk and hung out--All very friendly and not at all like a date (or so I thought). Then we got onto the topic of who in our little friendship group we find most attractive and I said no-one apart from my darling Yank and M said....well, me, pretty much. And then confessed that he'd been having these feelings for me and that he'd had a thing for me when we met and it went away but has come back.

I was really upset/shocked and pretty much just bailed and met Conor who was really cross/upset by how upset/shocked I was! Then the couple that me and Conor have a thing with came outside (we were outside their street and I texted them for advice) and I got even MORE upset because I feel that so much has changed/is changing right now and I'm finding it weird.

He's been texting me today pretending nothing has happened but I'm sad that our friendship will have to change.

So yeah, bleh. Not weight-loss related today I'm afraid.
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Hey hon, no need to miss me anymore, I'm back around! I CAN'T BELIEVE someone could be that mean, and daft because its not true. I hope one of the mods took the post down?

Re your friend's confession, don't be too hard on him. Sounds like he was really really drunk, take it as flattering - both that he finds you that attractive both physically and as a person, and ALSO that he felt close enough to you to tell you even though as you are with Yank, there's no chance of anything happening. Unless he jumped you of course, then he's STUPIDO as you are already taken! I guess, if his feelings have come back then its kind of human to want to tell you and for you to say, ok, I really really like you but its not going to be anything more than friends because I love Yank - sometimes people need to hear that in order to be able to get over it and move on.
 
Try uploading the photos one at a time and then going back in editing post and adding another one. That worked for me as it didn't seem to want to upload 2 at a time for me yesterday.
 
Hey you! Look forward to seeing your pix :)
Hope you managed to behave yourself on your night shift
hugs
 
I agree with Jjjay completely! Let the poor love sick puppy down gently. But if he was creepy/stalker weird about telling you - you have to be FIRM!

Since I've been with my hubby more or less since I was 15, I've had to turn away lots of interested guys (in my younger, slimmer days anyway) and some can handle still being friends after, and some can't and move on.

And some you just have to get a restraining order on!

I tutored this one guy in college for a while who was an older than average student who started calling me at all hours of the day (sometimes drunk) saying how I had made him fall in love with me, and trying to talk me into cheating on my husband with him. I made it very clear that I would NEVER be unfaithful, so then he got REALLY psycho on me and started talking about my husband having an 'accident' so that I'd be free to hook up with him so that I'd know what it's like to be loved by a 'real' man. I ended the tutoring sessions because he was starting to scare me. He started following me around on campus, and calling me at 2 or 3 in the morning wanting to know where our farm was at so he could go after my husband. He knew the places I'd go shopping at before heading home for the weekends and would be waiting for me at the stores and would follow me around as I shopped. He always wore this strong cologne and smoked this one type of cigarette and I remember hiding in a rack of clothes one time because as I was shopping I could smell him. Sure enough he came wandering by looking for me! I knew when he was ahead in the hallways at college waiting for me because I could smell him, and I would turn and go the other direction. I finally filed a complaint with the college and found out that several girls had restraining orders against him already! They ended up expelling him, and I stopped shopping at all the usual places because I was terrified of running into him. Within a year he had moved away and I never heard from him again thank goodness!!!
 
Gah, he sounds creepy Tigs!! *shudders* Very odd!

M and Yank had a "chat" at his party and cleared the air so all is good now, I think!

Sorry I've been so quiet (well, quiet for me!) recently..Have so much happening. Worked most of yesterday after a few hours sleep after my night and then came home and crashed at 10pm and just woke up now as 10am!!! 12 hours sleep! So, hanging out for an hour or so and then having my first driving lesson! Not had any since I was 17 so am verrrrry nervous. And it's a 2 hour lesson! Eeeeep!

Had a very unhealthy day yesterday--Calories were great but as I was on a night, woke up at 2pm and ran out to work again so missed lunch, and then didn't have anything to eat until 9pm, an hour before I went to sleep. And I must of had about 1000 calories worth of pasta and cheese!! So, still under calories but not a healthy or balanced day.

Breakfast: 1 cup fresh diced pineapple (83)
Lunch: Covent Garden Minestrone Soup (111) ham and low-fat cream cheese sammich (260)
Dinner:
Snacks: 2 frankfurter sausages (196) small glass of wine (120)
Total:
Exercise:
 
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