Wachee
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WARNING: Contains a large quantity of whining!! No need to read unless you are having a hard time sleeping. Other side effects besides drowsiness are irritable bowel, excessive gas, hair loss, uncontrollable urination, and a eye tick.
I haven't made it to work yet. I am taking some classes at OSU and won't get to work till 130ish I think... I am so frustrated by everything at work... I am a really loyal person and would do anything for my boss but I do not think that my loyalties are returned
I told my boss yesterday that I was bad and that when Jessica tells on me that is all true and I don't regret a word I said and would probably will do it again...
What set me off yesterday is that in two different cases that are assigned to me, she had did things to make them more difficult. When I confronted her she denied everything. I asked her, “So you don’t remember John Doe’s case at all, huh?” her “No I don’t” me “So Scott (another attorney) did not come up to you and point out that he was a client and suggested that he may need help?” her “Well there was a Mr. Doe there but I told him to go home.” Me “You didn’t ask him what the problem was or what he needed?” her “No I just told him to go home.” Then blamed it all on my boss “Well she TOLD me to tell him to go home.” If she did it was because she thought he was someone else… And I had emailed her Discovery Answers while I was iced in and she admits that she received them but did not save them to the client’s file and deleted what I sent her. I mean what the F**K?!? I don’t care how mad I may be at her, I wouldn’t take it out on a client or sabotage a case just to try and stick it to her!!! But it is just a lot of petty crap that she does to me, that alone sound stupid but it piles up….
I know I should just shut up and do my work. I actually got it pretty good. She lets me pick my hours and is not to picky on me being on time... So why can't I just let it go???????? I tried answering that and all I can come up with is that I feel that she sabotages me... and I really do believe that but can't prove it. And when I say it, I should like a crazy person... The other two things that drive me crazy are that she never shuts up and she takes many, many smoke breaks. She talks constantly and it is hard to concentrate with her incessant babbling! She is very needy and wants to be validated at every turn. The smoking bugs me because she is constantly going out and smoking. Nobody else takes multiple breaks, I don’t think that she should either. Since I am moving back into the larger office and putting her in the smaller office, it is going to be interesting to see how that works. Cuz I told her to keep out and stay away from me cuz I didn’t not want to hear her stories. Oh and she got mad at me because my boss told me to check her myspace page and print it to make sure that she wasn't posting anything about the office.
What I have been thinking about is just cutting myself off from everybody in the office if I stay and that means those that I get along with also. The reason for that is that I think that they may un-intentionally be feeding my anger by regaling me with all the crap Jessica does when I am not there or behind my boss' back. I let myself get too wrapped up in the going ons… If I don’t quit/get fired maybe I will try just being one of those people that just come in does their time and leaves.
Sorry for the long post…
I haven't made it to work yet. I am taking some classes at OSU and won't get to work till 130ish I think... I am so frustrated by everything at work... I am a really loyal person and would do anything for my boss but I do not think that my loyalties are returned
I told my boss yesterday that I was bad and that when Jessica tells on me that is all true and I don't regret a word I said and would probably will do it again... What set me off yesterday is that in two different cases that are assigned to me, she had did things to make them more difficult. When I confronted her she denied everything. I asked her, “So you don’t remember John Doe’s case at all, huh?” her “No I don’t” me “So Scott (another attorney) did not come up to you and point out that he was a client and suggested that he may need help?” her “Well there was a Mr. Doe there but I told him to go home.” Me “You didn’t ask him what the problem was or what he needed?” her “No I just told him to go home.” Then blamed it all on my boss “Well she TOLD me to tell him to go home.” If she did it was because she thought he was someone else… And I had emailed her Discovery Answers while I was iced in and she admits that she received them but did not save them to the client’s file and deleted what I sent her. I mean what the F**K?!? I don’t care how mad I may be at her, I wouldn’t take it out on a client or sabotage a case just to try and stick it to her!!! But it is just a lot of petty crap that she does to me, that alone sound stupid but it piles up….
I know I should just shut up and do my work. I actually got it pretty good. She lets me pick my hours and is not to picky on me being on time... So why can't I just let it go???????? I tried answering that and all I can come up with is that I feel that she sabotages me... and I really do believe that but can't prove it. And when I say it, I should like a crazy person... The other two things that drive me crazy are that she never shuts up and she takes many, many smoke breaks. She talks constantly and it is hard to concentrate with her incessant babbling! She is very needy and wants to be validated at every turn. The smoking bugs me because she is constantly going out and smoking. Nobody else takes multiple breaks, I don’t think that she should either. Since I am moving back into the larger office and putting her in the smaller office, it is going to be interesting to see how that works. Cuz I told her to keep out and stay away from me cuz I didn’t not want to hear her stories. Oh and she got mad at me because my boss told me to check her myspace page and print it to make sure that she wasn't posting anything about the office.
What I have been thinking about is just cutting myself off from everybody in the office if I stay and that means those that I get along with also. The reason for that is that I think that they may un-intentionally be feeding my anger by regaling me with all the crap Jessica does when I am not there or behind my boss' back. I let myself get too wrapped up in the going ons… If I don’t quit/get fired maybe I will try just being one of those people that just come in does their time and leaves.
Sorry for the long post…
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