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Hi Newlife - Hazel

I just read a few of your posts...and I am in awe of your efforts and I am sure you ARE beautiful. I'll be here to encourage you to lose those last 8 kg. I only have a few kgs to go but the mind games we play with ourselves are difficult times aren't they...some days breeze by (usually when I'm busy) but others drag by and that's when you have to talk yourself through the tough times hour by hour. I have deviated quite a few times...a few on purpose because I just felt so lethargic that I had planned meals including the things that I enjoy the most....that got me through a few rough patches.

I'd love to see your before/after pictures. Keep posting here and you'll get heaps of support....just think...8kg is nothing really...be the best you can be...it will be like winning lotto!
 
Hi everyone,
Myshy, YAYYYYYY, great to see that you have had some movement. Good on you for sticking on track.
Hazel, excellent weight loss, keep up the great work. I just thought I'd let you know that your blog doesn't seem to be working.
I'm going really well, feeling great and have so much energy. I just love asyoz's FLYlady website, and have been going berserk on cleaning my house. It is actually starting to look really good. I'm down another .5kg this morning which is great, so I'm now down 5kg's in 9 days. Isn't his diet just amazing.
Have a great day all. Talk to you all soon.
 
hey everybody,
hope your all doing well

BAM Welocme back!! I really miss reading your posts. Stick with it you have done soooo well so far you dont want to undo all your good work. Just think how close you are. Just a few more weeks

Mermaid Sister
Keep looking at those size 11's and that will push you forward. In regard to be being tired, I too get really tired some days, cant keep my eyes open after 8pm then other days I have soooo much energy it's unreal. Cant quite figure it out!!

Brieziel I am with you, contact with the consultant is not a necessity for me but I do find that when I need to ask a question that my emails are not reponded to very quickly.

newlife Congrats on your acheivements - you know you can go all the way, otherwise you wouldnt be in the position you are now. Keep up the awesome work.

keep going everyone.
 
No deviations yesterday!!! no more additional crisp bread..... *yeah*

Hazel, I have seen your wonderful pictures in local newspaper and i need to tell you i am impressed by your determination... continue to work hard on the last kgs.. I am sure you are able to lost that!!
 
Good morning all. Nothing to report here, just dropping into say hi. You guys have become my support for this program THANK YOU.

Still feeling a little tired, so upping my multivitamins to see if that helps. If not I'll go to my doctor and get my thyroid checked.

Have a great Cohen's Day all :)
 
Deviating Queen

HI Everyone,

Bam - how did you go last night? I made my Wonderland Stew - YUM! Then made my breakfast and lunch for today. When I woke this morning , I was proud I had made the effort the night before and it helps put a spring in your step knowing I am on my way to my goal weight.

Hope you went well and we can continue to get throught the next 24 hours -no deviations. Step by Step.


Babyegg =- Well done - no deviations

Mermaid Sister
- Well done to you too!

I find it amazing how not deviating can really lift your spirits - or is it........when I deviate I bang myself around the head so hard - it's simply just not worth deviating ........mentally and physically.

Ok - 4 more hours till I can have lunch. No Problem! :eek:

Cheers
lilsaintly
 
Lilsaintly1

Hey there,

Yeh last night went well, and today has aswell so far no deviations to report.. :)

I think i will do this right now, until the end..

Im focussed again, thankyou all so much.. your posts yesterday truely did help me!!

Bam x
 
good morning everyone,

asyoy i have just been reading your blog and i must say its great.
but you got me excited for a few seconds i thought i was going to see some photos of your progress. please can we ?:D
I can't imagine how they would do deep fried mars bar wouldn't it melt
had a little laugh at your daughter not wanting to get her feet wet.she sounds like my son
and your ring how funny
 
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I havent even lasted a day..

Hi everyone again..

I swear to god im losing the plot!

I have just sabotaged myself again, and now i have the worlds worst tummy ache.. what on earth is wrong with me girls??

Seriously, i need my head checked..

I cry out for advice, then i stuff it all up??..

Im so angry with myself right now, why am i doing this..??

Sad, BAM x
 
Don't worry

Hi Bam,

Don't worry sweet. You've had a bit of a hiccup - just get back on. I know it's not easy - I'm sitting here at work starving......just know that we are all going through the same...

So next meal is a Cohen's meal...

:)
 
Hi everyone again..

I swear to god im losing the plot!

I have just sabotaged myself again, and now i have the worlds worst tummy ache.. what on earth is wrong with me girls??

Seriously, i need my head checked..

I cry out for advice, then i stuff it all up??..

Im so angry with myself right now, why am i doing this..??

Sad, BAM x

Tough love, but I think you just dont want to lose weight "enough" to stop yourself from deviating ("treating" yourself). Sounds to me like you are fairly happy with how your look now, everyone saying you look good, of course being slimmer is better, but it not enough to motivate yourself to take consistent action and tolerate a little hunger or discomfort and/or miss out on some little tasty foods.

Most of us on this forum can testify to years of "almost" dieting. Taking consistent action over time is the only way to get results.

Imagine that if you put one more taste of anything that is not Cohen approved meal that your pet cat/dog/gold fish will drop dead the next second? Would you deviate then? Of course not! What about imagining that if you deviate once more your bottom will magically double in size and everyone will be saying between themselves "BAM the fat a*se has really let herself go" would you deviate then?.

Its all about you choosing what stuff to put in your mouth, it is all about you deciding! What frame of mind and resolve did you have when you started the diet, where did that feeling go? How do you get it back?
 
Lessfatty- Thankyou for your advice.. I know exactly what you mean..

Although i do really want to lose this weight, i know it may not seem like it, but everyone is different and unfortunately alot has gone on in my life these past couple of weeks and i suppose Cohens has been the last thing on my mind. So therefore, i have deviated..

Arr well..
 
Cohens is very much a mental effort, and the rewards are physical.

Therefore you need to get your head in a good space, ready to lose the last bit BAM. Perhaps you could sit down, and write out 10 reasons why you need or want to lose the last 10kg, and 10 reasons why you couldn't be bothered losing the last 10.

In the end it's mental battle that you and you alone have to fight, just as we've all had to do. I'm still doing it, but the harder I fight the fewer and further between the battles get. And after enough battles are won, so is the war!

BE GOOD TO YOU!
 
Lessfatty- Thankyou for your advice.. I know exactly what you mean..

Although i do really want to lose this weight, i know it may not seem like it, but everyone is different and unfortunately alot has gone on in my life these past couple of weeks and i suppose Cohens has been the last thing on my mind. So therefore, i have deviated..

Arr well..

Did someone die? Did someone tie you up and force food down you like a french "Foie Gras" goose?

Welcome to adult life, in adult life lots of shit happens all the time and you will always have problems you need to deal with, however the solution to the problems has nothing to do with putting food in your mouth! If you want big problem/worries then get married and have kids :D

Dont get me wrong; I think that if I had to jog 20KMS a day (rain, hail, snow) to lose weight I wouldnt get around to it as I would have to much other shit happening in my life. It is the last thing on your mind because it is not a prority for you; Its all priorities and focus and getting into a new "groove", what is really important right now.
 
Has anyone noticed?

Anyone else noticed that the people around them are getting fatter???

Well, they're not actually getting fatter, I just have noticed that they are chubby now. Before they looked kind of normal and now they look overweight. I feel smaller than them now, whereas before I felt bigger, so I guess I didn't notice them.

I guess its just a wierd part of the mental change to being thin.
 
Discouraged over weight loss

Hi everyone,
I've only posted a couple times when I first started. Basically I haven't had any real big problems with the diet and I have kept on it only with a couple deviations as cooked shrimp and not allowing for the cooked part by taking off 10-15% of the weight when weighing the food and using some Hoyt garlic powder with cornstarch in it, but other than that I have lived,ate & slept Cohen's since the 20th of October. I have only lost 6 kilos since starting this diet. The past two weeks I have only lost 2 kilo only...and yes I am a scales fanatic which I know Dr. Cohen doesn't want any of us to weigh but only once a month but with all the hard work that you do, you want to see what or if you lost any weight at all.
The point is I am getting down in the dumps and discouraged with this, is this normal to go for like two weeks and have a minimal weight loss like this? I know that my body hangs onto every bit of weight I have when I diet and it is hard for me to lose the weight.

Another thing, is it normal to feel dizzy and faint around 3ish in the afternoon? My consultant told me to make sure that I have a piece of fruit and crispbreads at that time which i am doing now. I saw my doctor on Monday and he said that it might be my blood sugar dropping and that it was a good idea to do what the consultant suggested to do. Other than that he was really happy that I was on the diet and my blood pressure was a good 110/70 when a few months back it was bordering on 130/90 and this is with medication and they were thinking of increasing the medication to remedy the increase in the b/p. Also the asthma symptoms I had prior to starting on this diet have all subsided and I no longer have to use 3 different medications, so I can see alot of positive things healthwise that are occuring but not the weight loss....Other than that I really feel so much better for just losing 6 kilos already.

I want quit but can't help but get discouraged here and just wondering if there is something that I should be doing and I am not.

Everybody is doing so fantastic...I am so proud of everybody for such a great weight loss and sticktooiveness that everyone has .... even BAM...& the others that have deviated :::smiles:::

Jo@Bribie Island who wants to lose the weight....badly...
 
Hi everybody,

I haven't been posting for a long time coz alot of shit happened in my life. Oh well, had finally gotten it all sorted out now so here I am back on the forum again. Glad to see that we actually have our own thread now to play with, its seem so cool.

BAM: Just wanna tell you that I truely understand how you feel, I deviate majority 2 weeks ago, continously for a few days. Gave myself alot of excuses like "oh, its my friends' birthdays and they only come once a year", "i deserve this treat coz i need cheering up", "since I had deviate the day before, it wun hurt to do it again today". Sound familiar? Think these are all the common excuses tat we gave ourselves. Like wat many of the other gals and guys had been saying, its really no point crying over split milk but to do something to get back on the wagon.

One thing that I did to motivate myself to carry on is to go to the shops and try on clothes that are one size smaller than what I am able to wear. This remind me that I may look "good" enough now but I would be able to look better if I keep going. Maybe you can try doing this? Oh maybe can try to play around with ur cooking abit so that you can find your favourite food, strangely after back on the wagon, my craving had been for my favourite cohen food.

Another idea would be to get a bag of stone or watever which are equivalent to your remaining weight? Every day just carry it to remind yourself how much excess weight you are carrying?

You had done so well so far so please dun give up at this point of time. We are all behind you.
 
Hi everyone,
I've only posted a couple times when I first started. Basically I haven't had any real big problems with the diet and I have kept on it only with a couple deviations as cooked shrimp and not allowing for the cooked part by taking off 10-15% of the weight when weighing the food and using some Hoyt garlic powder with cornstarch in it, but other than that I have lived,ate & slept Cohen's since the 20th of October. I have only lost 6 kilos since starting this diet. The past two weeks I have only lost 2 kilo only...and yes I am a scales fanatic which I know Dr. Cohen doesn't want any of us to weigh but only once a month but with all the hard work that you do, you want to see what or if you lost any weight at all.
The point is I am getting down in the dumps and discouraged with this, is this normal to go for like two weeks and have a minimal weight loss like this? I know that my body hangs onto every bit of weight I have when I diet and it is hard for me to lose the weight.

Another thing, is it normal to feel dizzy and faint around 3ish in the afternoon? My consultant told me to make sure that I have a piece of fruit and crispbreads at that time which i am doing now. I saw my doctor on Monday and he said that it might be my blood sugar dropping and that it was a good idea to do what the consultant suggested to do. Other than that he was really happy that I was on the diet and my blood pressure was a good 110/70 when a few months back it was bordering on 130/90 and this is with medication and they were thinking of increasing the medication to remedy the increase in the b/p. Also the asthma symptoms I had prior to starting on this diet have all subsided and I no longer have to use 3 different medications, so I can see alot of positive things healthwise that are occuring but not the weight loss....Other than that I really feel so much better for just losing 6 kilos already.

I want quit but can't help but get discouraged here and just wondering if there is something that I should be doing and I am not.

Everybody is doing so fantastic...I am so proud of everybody for such a great weight loss and sticktooiveness that everyone has .... even BAM...& the others that have deviated :::smiles:::

Jo@Bribie Island who wants to lose the weight....badly...


So in a matter of 21 days 3 weeks you have lost "just" 6KG, your blood presure has normalized and your asthma reduced sic...clearly Cohens it isnt working for you, so just give up!!!

Are my facts right or does that mean you are only losing an average of 2KG per week :eek: whilst you are seeing health improvments! Sounds terrible! .:rolleyes:


Some people just lose 1KG per week as you have been doing for the last 2 weeks. Many ladies on this forum report significant differences in lose during the month, so I think everything is OK. Anyway I am not sure if you should set yourself the goal 1KG per week (avg) and take anything extra as a bonus. I dont think the cooked prawns or the tiny amount of cornstarch has caused a problem. My honest opinion is that you may be expecting too much too soon, I think you have had a great 3 weeks!

Early in the diet I also sometimes felt light headed in the afternoons just before dinner, I am sure it was also low blood sugar levels. For me this stablized slowly over a number of weeks.
 
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Hi All,

Been reading all the dramas that have been going on in everyones lives over the past couple of days. Ive been having a tough time myself the last few days, so can sympathise. Havent been in the mood to write as I find it enough at times just to read. :cool:

My dad took some photos of me week one of the program and another lot week five. Amazing the differences already. :)

Thought Id post them up so as to show people who are new to the program just how wonderful this weight loss system really is. The dramatic changes in such a short period of time are truly incredible.:D

Will do so tomorrow so you can have a squiz at how gorgeous (NOT) I was when I first decided to change my life for EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope everyone has had a lighter day and an even better one tomorrow.:p

Cheers
 
Hi everyone,
I've only posted a couple times when I first started. Basically I haven't had any real big problems with the diet and I have kept on it only with a couple deviations as cooked shrimp and not allowing for the cooked part by taking off 10-15% of the weight when weighing the food and using some Hoyt garlic powder with cornstarch in it, but other than that I have lived,ate & slept Cohen's since the 20th of October. I have only lost 6 kilos since starting this diet. The past two weeks I have only lost 2 kilo only...and yes I am a scales fanatic which I know Dr. Cohen doesn't want any of us to weigh but only once a month but with all the hard work that you do, you want to see what or if you lost any weight at all.
The point is I am getting down in the dumps and discouraged with this, is this normal to go for like two weeks and have a minimal weight loss like this? I know that my body hangs onto every bit of weight I have when I diet and it is hard for me to lose the weight.

Another thing, is it normal to feel dizzy and faint around 3ish in the afternoon? My consultant told me to make sure that I have a piece of fruit and crispbreads at that time which i am doing now. I saw my doctor on Monday and he said that it might be my blood sugar dropping and that it was a good idea to do what the consultant suggested to do. Other than that he was really happy that I was on the diet and my blood pressure was a good 110/70 when a few months back it was bordering on 130/90 and this is with medication and they were thinking of increasing the medication to remedy the increase in the b/p. Also the asthma symptoms I had prior to starting on this diet have all subsided and I no longer have to use 3 different medications, so I can see alot of positive things healthwise that are occuring but not the weight loss....Other than that I really feel so much better for just losing 6 kilos already.

I want quit but can't help but get discouraged here and just wondering if there is something that I should be doing and I am not.

Everybody is doing so fantastic...I am so proud of everybody for such a great weight loss and sticktooiveness that everyone has .... even BAM...& the others that have deviated :::smiles:::

Jo@Bribie Island who wants to lose the weight....badly...

Hi Dear...

I perfectly understand what you are going through now. It's like you put in so much effort and everytime you get on the scales, you close your eyes and hope against all hope that you see a lower figure. You are desperate to see a lower weight and when you don't, it turns to frustration. And when you are frustrated, you vent it on eating the forbidden foods. You can't help it but you are getting discouraged and you see no point in keeping up with this.

I went through all that before and honestly, I just want you to know that you should keep going. Keep persevering. Just keep trying and you will see some results.

You have improved in your health right? You know, what gave me the blow was that when I was 10 months into the program, I lost the weight and expected my blood pressure to be normal but when I went for my medical check up, it was borderline hypertension! I was so devastated and discouraged that I binged and I vented my frusration on forbidden foods.

Looking back, I guess it was natural for me to vent my frustrations out. Especially when I spent a good long ten months on a restrcited diet and I don't see the results? But you just gotta keep going. My weight loss stagnates when I'm having my PMS and during my periods. That's a good 2 weeks that I don't lose any weight. So you just got to be patient and allow your body to adapt to the hormonal changes.

And lastly, lock your weighing machine up. The reason why you and I are feeling discouraged is because we are not losing weight. So the weighing machine is the cause of it all! Lock it up. And perhaps set yourself a longer timeframe before you get on the scales again? 2 weeks? 1 month?

I'm setting myself a 2 weeks ban from the weighing machine. It gets very tempting to look at my weight but I try not to. I'm just scared that my last lap of efforts may "backfire" if it seems that I'm not losing weight and I get discouraged all over again. As I read somewhere, Cohen is really more like a mental exercise so exercise all the mental willpower to pull you through.

Try your best. Don't look back at the past but into what you could do in the future. Cheer up k!
 
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