Thanks Sarah, I have a jacket & warm gear packed as we also are going to the Swiss alps (5 nights in Switz.) I SO need this holiday & really felt organised & in control for the first time today. There was just too much to do with both our mothers! If I have forgotten something it is just too bad. I have tried to cover EVERY possibility. I don't think I will ever be a person who 'wings it.' I would be kidding myself if I ever thought I could. I can't stop caring either & don't wish otherwise. If the rest of my husband's family decide to pick up some of the load, with their mother, I won't be disappointed. It is going to be a real juggling act with both our mothers being in the same aged care facility. It is such a radical shift & t will take a lot of time to work out. Hopefully a lot of it will settle before we get back. My MIL thinks she doesn't belong in an "old people's home", even though she is 89, almost blind & quite incontinent & has no short-term memory.
My mother, on the other hand, decided while she could think at all rationally that she should be ina home & is off in another place mentally, but is happy ( & incontinent & hardly talks, except to say "yes."
I'll cope I know.
"Semper ubi sub ubi?"- Urban dictionary (love it!) translates that as "always wear underwear." Good advice Mr Vee! I even have thermals packed!

Cheeky bugger! I will take your advice & go pack some undies! I can hardly believe that I am about to hop on a plane & get away from mothers, responsibility......& see the Colosseum, drink Italian wine in Italy, listen to people speaking Italian, (what a beautiful sounding language!) drink Champagne in the Champagne district, hear French spoken fluently etc.....
It feels like a dream really!
I spent a small fortune today on treats for our son & our GK's & lots of healthy food, as they are house-sitting for us. I would love life to be easier for our sons but I can only do what I can & I can't change the world. We have such lovely sons!
Our YS moved to the East coast of Canada for a girl, only to find out second day there that she had a BF. I got a message on FB this morning telling me about it. He thinks he'll come home after Summer. I didn't think it was going to work out. He'll find the right someone one day. He deserves to find love. We all do. I want the ones I love to be as happy & as loved as I know I am.
Still not packed, but have it narrowed down pretty well. Will discard some more things tomorrow. Have the GK's in the morning, doing the bar for a while at the golf club & then having our OS & his GF for a quick dinner & will pack somewhere in there!
Cheers all xo Cate