Broken Heart
- Thread starter Jacobaboba
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The problem with that line is more often than not, you not interested in eating very many of them
The suspense is killing me ... I just hope you're OK.
Glad to hear everything has worked out ok!
Ah, America gets all the good shows before us! I won’t have my dose of Bauer until tonight! (he gets about a bit
)Wait what did I miss? I knew I saw you say you were planning on breaking up with your gf, so that went through. What's up with a trip to Florida?
there was a planned trip to Florida with my family for new years. she'd already bought her ticket in September for like $500 and my mother already paid for her entrance fees for the Disney parks.
we broke up the weekend before thanksgiving, and we talked about it and I said I would be willing to let her still come to Disney because she already requested the time off from work, paid the big chunk of money for the flights and was set and paid for by my family. we agreed that we would be able to handle the situation like adults and be mature about it while down there.
So I need to speak to her regarding posting pictures of her out at bars kissing new guys on the cheek, getting groped and the like. I will admit seeing them pissed me off and made me slightly jealous, and in all fairness she has a right to be mad and like anyone else can retaliate in whatever fashion she chooses...problem I have is, if I see these pics and I am mad then I will likely be mad when going to Florida with her and it will make for a miserable week.
I'll have to email her later with my feelings and rationalizations on this. I wouldn't have posted those things if the roles had been reversed.
we broke up the weekend before thanksgiving, and we talked about it and I said I would be willing to let her still come to Disney because she already requested the time off from work, paid the big chunk of money for the flights and was set and paid for by my family. we agreed that we would be able to handle the situation like adults and be mature about it while down there.
So I need to speak to her regarding posting pictures of her out at bars kissing new guys on the cheek, getting groped and the like. I will admit seeing them pissed me off and made me slightly jealous, and in all fairness she has a right to be mad and like anyone else can retaliate in whatever fashion she chooses...problem I have is, if I see these pics and I am mad then I will likely be mad when going to Florida with her and it will make for a miserable week.
I'll have to email her later with my feelings and rationalizations on this. I wouldn't have posted those things if the roles had been reversed.
You broke up with her. You have to sleep in the bed you made. I see three options--
Return her portion of what she paid
Don't go on the trip
Accept the fact that she's single now and can do as she pleases and you'll just have to suck it up during the Florida trip.
You dumped her; she’s a free agent and can do whatever she wants and you would be out of line to make any comment on her behaviour
The pictures probably have been posted to annoy you but by responding you’ll give her exactly what she wants. The best thing to do would be to say nothing. Even if it hurts inside, don’t let her know it hurts, that way the message will get through sooner that things are over and you’ve moved on.
I imagine that once she’s come to realise that she won’t go with you to Florida. Her plan right now is probably to show you what you’re missing and then kiss and make up on holiday
The pictures probably have been posted to annoy you but by responding you’ll give her exactly what she wants. The best thing to do would be to say nothing. Even if it hurts inside, don’t let her know it hurts, that way the message will get through sooner that things are over and you’ve moved on.
I imagine that once she’s come to realise that she won’t go with you to Florida. Her plan right now is probably to show you what you’re missing and then kiss and make up on holiday
wow way to cut my legs out from under me...whatever happend to ****s before chicks?
Yeah she is allowed to do whatever the **** she pleases...I wasn't arguing about that. She wants to go out and have fun with new guys then thats what she's gonna do. I'm not trying to stop her from doing that. My problem is that she always boasts about how mature she is for her age and I expected that her maturity would hold through this and that she'd try not to make for choppy waters on the trip. She wants to make for a difficult vacation then I am more than willing to bring her ass to the airport early and put her on a plane.
Yeah she is allowed to do whatever the **** she pleases...I wasn't arguing about that. She wants to go out and have fun with new guys then thats what she's gonna do. I'm not trying to stop her from doing that. My problem is that she always boasts about how mature she is for her age and I expected that her maturity would hold through this and that she'd try not to make for choppy waters on the trip. She wants to make for a difficult vacation then I am more than willing to bring her ass to the airport early and put her on a plane.
and I know exactly what I am missing. I'm missing out on a girl who can only have fun if we're out drinking but is too serious for her own good the rest of the time....makes it hard to enjoy the relationship when you are always being criticized.
And yes I am sure you will also come back at me and tell me I am being immature by being upset about the pictures but don't tell me you wouldn't be upset if the same thing was happening to you.
And yes I am sure you will also come back at me and tell me I am being immature by being upset about the pictures but don't tell me you wouldn't be upset if the same thing was happening to you.
Yeah, of course I’d be upset. That doesn’t mean I’d have any right to be. You were dating for a long time and when you split it’s just human nature to still feel jealous for a long time after you split but you just need to suck it up.
Think of it this way; if it were the other way around and she dumped you, what would you do? Be all mature about it or go out with your mates and chat up girls?
I’m not knocking you, you’re doing exactly what I’ve done in the past, but trust me, it’s a really bad path to go down. You cut her loose so you’re just gonna have to button up for a while and let her act like an idiot for a while as she gets over you. Her bad behaviour now is only because she cared about you; you telling her that she’s being insensitive is just going to make her mad and act even worse
Is that meant to be d*cks before chicks?
I don't like d*cks, no matter what BigTom tells you