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Hey everyone. I decided to join this forum because i am completely sick of feeling bad about myself, feeling very unhealthy and missing out on some of life's best activities. I was looking at old pictures of myself and saw a different person.

Since gaining so much weight, I don't dance with my friends. I don't do anything physical. I don't play games, I don't go to clubs, I don't jump around, I even stopped going to parties because I feel so unattractive. I now have sever acid reflux and know the health problems will only get worse. I always feel like the odd man out, like the ugly friend. I know people judge me for how I look instead of who I am, and how could I blame them?

I don't want to be huge when I get married, or when I'm pregnant. I want those memories to be untainted, I want to look like the person I feel like inside.

I'm just really afraid, because a lot of people that lose weight gain it all right back again. It's kind of like if you're overweight, it's for life, and I don't want that to be me. I've spent my entire life overweight so far, and I'm ready to come out of my shell and never go back.

I'm thinking about joining my local weight watchers program for added support.

i just can't keep on living like this.
 
Hi, you made a good decision to try doing something about it and we are all here for support. Look around and read. Jump in and be apart of the community. Its a pretty nice place here.
 
Thats not true! I was really fat as a child and had a binge eating problem all the way through high school but I am now totally average weight (although wanting to loose a few hostel kgs), my weight loss was all down to having support. My mum and I dieted together and if one of us wanted to eat something unhealthy or eat too much the other one would encourage the other not to. My mum has lost over 10kgs and I lost neraly 10kgs too. Im pretty sure its all down to support. Find someone to diet/exercise with you and keep a food diary and show it to them every week, that way before you go to eat something unhealthy you'll be like Uh oh, I have to show my friend that I'm going to eat this. It normally put me off. And good luck! :D
 
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