Winni said:
I do this for five days a week Monday-Friday and it usually takes me around 1 hour and 10-20 mins. Maybe the odd week I will miss a day due to work travel but I try my hardest to go 5 days a week.
My average meals in a day consist of:
Breakfast: 2 slices toast with cheese
Lunch: My lunch varies from one of the following:
Left overs such as stir fry, steak, fettucini alfredo ect.
Perogies (aprx 6)
Turkey Sub
Supper: My meals vary. I did start to cut down on meal sizes.
Snack: I do not snack everyday but if I do it is usually a bowl of cereal or salsa and tacos. I found lately that I have been eating alot of tacos and salsa. for some reason I have this mean craving for salsa on everything!
Iknow my meals could be better but I am not that type of person to switch my meals around. I love my food!
Like roroco said, you definitely have to do different exercises. You should check out for some good ideas - it's a great site for beginners training. And you shouldn't avoid training certain body parts because it could result in injury.
Now onto your diet......
You do not eat very clean; you are lacking in protein and fresh produce. Unfortunately, unless you have a clean diet (w/o tacos), you won't be able to lose body fat effectively and "tighten my butt and my upper thighs as well as the back love handles"
You should be eating 5-7 meals per day, with a serving of protein with each. That would be either grilled chicken breast, lean beef (top round is leanest), egg whites, cottage cheese, canned tuna. This is important for getting your metabolism working at a faster rate. And remember: eating too little is only going to slow your metabolism - you can't be afraid to be eating every 2-3 hours. It will NOT work against you!
A clean diet means no processed foods, no white flour, no sugar, no heavy dairy, etc. The best way to start off your day would be a bowl of oatmeal (NOT packets - they're full of sugar) and some protein. Other good foods to include in your diet are: natural PB, sweet potatoes, fruits & veggies, etc.
As frustrating as this is to hear, you have to change your diet - especially if you want to lose the love handles. Those are one of the toughest areas for women to lose and the only way is through cardio and clean eating.