Ok, so i am 6'2 172lbs and I have been working out for about 2 months with a personal trainer, I have really started to notice great gains, I am starting to see my abs and my arms are getting bigger (my biceps were 11.5 and now they are 12.5)I run 3 miles in the morning My diet is Breakfast 1 ultramet shake (41g protein) 4egg whites and one whole egg and a bowl of oatmeal with a bananna. I have a turkey sandwich for a early lunch and then fish and pasta for lunch then I either go to the boxing gym for training (m,w,t,st) or the weight gym (m,t,f,sun) I have another ultra met shake after my workout then later I eat dinner usally a steak,fish,pasta and veggies. And now for my question regarding bulking. I consider myself skinny I want to be bigger but I am scared of so called bulking because it seems when I gain weight it always goes to my stomach. So what do I do to my diet to gain more muscle weight ? Some people have told me that I should eat 4000 calories a day and eat whateer I want including junk but that does not seem right (but the people that told me this are huge (muscular) I know Im rambling but Im just really confused about bulking I dont want to get fat after all the hard work I have done so far. Thanks in advance for any help. oh ya i usally burn around 3000 calories a day. will post pics if it will help