Oh, yeah, I should have mentioned it... we got it sorted out before going to bed, but there were definitely some hurt feelings that couldn't be taken back. It was about 90% my fault because we were doing something that was meant for both of us to enjoy together in our video game, but I really wasn't. I kept it to myself for a while, but then I fell asleep out of tiredness and boredom, and when I got woken up, I said what I was feeling, but much harsher than was necessary. Then he felt bad, and I felt SUPER bad for being so mean to him... we said our sorries to each other but it kind of ruined the whole night.
That's what most of our fights are about, when we do actually fight - I usually keep my full feelings about something inside so that I don't hurt his feelings or come off as a big bitch, but then it all comes out at once in a great big melodramatic episode and makes things worse than they would have been if I'd just spoke my mind in the first place. You'd think I'd learn by now to be more open (though in all fairness, these episodes don't happen nearly as often as they used to, because I'm pretty certain I'm at least getting better at being open).