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My Lifestyle Change - Part 1

Geese Patty!!

You definetly inspire me!! What was your starting weight?? I need all the boosting I can get cause boy the scale or inches seem like they never move for me!!

Hi Speedy. I'm 5'4" tall, 39 year old (female). I was always very thin and was about 105, size 4 in my 20s. I have a small frame (small boned) which I covered up over the years with 55+ pounds.

Last summer I weighed in at 156.5. Not my highest, but it's where I started. I picked away at it until New Years. I finished the year at 149.6. I decided to lose 20 lbs in 2006. Spent 35 weeks in the 140s (26 in 2006, 9 in 2005 - works out to about .3 lb loss per week). Very slow weight loss. 15 weeks so far in the high 130s. Since then have revised my goal to lost 25 lbs, to get down to 125. I am currently at 134 (that will go up and back down 2-3 lbs).

Some people here might not get why I think I need to lose weight at this point. I am still carrying a lot of body fat. My scale says 30% BF (I've lost about 3% BF), and even if the scale is 3-5% high, that's still a little high. When I'm naked, I still see my stomach roll. My cholesterol is high. So I need to lose fat, add muscle, exercise and eat right to get my chol in check.

I bought a pretty journal. I weigh myself every morning, naked and after visiting the bathroom. I write down the date and the weight every day. I also note when my TOM starts. I draw a line under each Sunday. I highlight the low weight of the week and enter that here in the Weight Loss Table.

Why tell all these details? Everyone has little tricks that helps them. We're at our lowest weight in the morning, so simply put it makes me feel good to weigh at that time. If I don't weigh in every day, I start gaining weight again. Entering my low weight each week in the table here also makes me feel good. The highlights and underlines let me flip back through earlier months to see my trend. When I'm feeling down that I am not progressing, I look back over it to see how the numbers have slowly tumbled down (I use the table here for that too - it shows ups and downs, but overall keeps going down). I am a numbers kind of girl, so seeing it factually and quantified helps me.

For example, I spent 14 weeks between 136 and 139. That's a long time to spend at one spot. But I spent 15 weeks at 145-149 and 20 weeks at 140-144. So I tell myself to BE PATIENT and keep on going. Make small changes you can keep for the long haul.
 
Body Fat Table

Classification ~ Women (% fat) ~ Men (% fat)
Essential Fat......... 10-12% .......... 2-4%
Athletes............... 14-20% .......... 6-13%
Fitness................ 21-24% .......... 14-17%
Acceptable........... 25-31% .......... 18-25%
Obese................. 32% plus .......... 25% plus

Knowing your body fat percentage can also help you determine if your weight loss goals are realistic. Remember, weight loss doesn't always mean fat loss.
 
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My Lifestyle Change - Part 2

People tease me sometimes because I either have nothing to say or too much to say.

Thanks Speedy for posting again. I was typing Part 1 to answer you when you posted.

I'll try to keep this part shorter. Ok, that's not really working.

I was unwilling to make many diet changes. Loved my food, my snacks and my cokes. Did not like most low fat or no fat food choices. Ate huge portions.

I started out backwards from some other people here and thought I could exercise my weight off. Started walking in March. Couple time a week, 20-30 minutes. Not very serious at all.

I have to get my heart rate up to get fit to lower cholesterol and avoid meds, so I started increasing the number of days a week I do it (6-7), increasing the time (to 30-45 minutes), increasing the walking speed and interspersing jogging in. It wasn't done all at once. But I have a walking partner and that helps. She lives across the street and we show up every morning - no reminder phone calls, no (almost no!) excuses. I actually went jogging once with her and another girl when I had a hangover. Took vitamins and headache pills on an empty stomach, began jogging. Threw up on the way. Started jogging again.

It is now to the point where I don't like to miss a day. I missed this morning and it stinks. It's not a chore, it's something I enjoy. That didn't happen overnight. I'm lucky though, my friend and I use it as our b*tch session, so it functions as therapy as well.

Slowly eliminated cokes from my house. Used to guzzle them down. Love them more than almost any food. Haven't bought coke in my house for months. Now our whole family drinks water almost all the time. They still drink diet sodas, I don't touch the stuff. I figured out it makes me crave junk food like cookies and chips.

Stopped buying most junk food. Still let the family have it sometimes and I still sometimes fall off the wagon. Someone here recently wrote "Progess, not Perfection" and I really like that phrase.

Actually started buying some low fat foods. Prefer to control portion size instead. Have done a week of calorie counting two times. That really helps you find the weak spots in your eating - reading labels, learning what 1T or 1/2 C really is.

Actually started reaching for carrots or making something healthy when the urge to snack attacks. Not what I wanted, but it was what I needed.

Now in the store I think many things look gross or unappealing that I used to snatch up. At parties I don't start snacking, because I know I likely won't stop. I watch someone eat a hot dog and think what it's made of, then I don't want one. I read labels before stuffing food in my mouth, so I don't eat it, eat less or I admit ahead of time how much I'm eating if I decide to still eat it.

I bought a food scale. If I have chips, I'll weigh them. Eat a serving, then think, was that worth it?

I guess I could go on and on, but these are some things I've gone through. I still have BAD eating days, but I generally don't beat myself up because 1 bad day out of 7 or 1 out of 14 days beats my past, where I ate bad EVERY day.

P.S. I started weight training. Try this site for exercises:

I also post the exercises I do, here in my diary and in the exercise section.

P.P.S. I joined (free) and enter my exercise and weight training there.
 
Sorry to hear you're having a rough day Patty :( This is why I don't want a husband :p

I'm glad you took the time to write your story, it's nice to see how you roll. Your determination to stay consistent is brilliant, you're a 'tougher than nails' kinda girl mentally and it really comes down to being just that when someone wants results in this weight war we wage daily. A guy could learn a lot about how the mental toughness comes into play equally during the first 20 lb loss or the last 20.

I couldn't agree more with you about patience - it is a must.

Cheers Patty :)
 
Yeah, I don't think a husband would be right for you......

I don't need anything except this ashtray. And this paddle game, the ashtray and the paddle game and that's all I need. And this remote control. The ashtray, the paddle game and the remote control, and that's all I need. And these matches. The ashtray, and these matches, and the remote control and the paddle ball. And this lamp. The ashtray, this paddle game and the remote control and the lamp and that's all I need. And that's all I need too. I don't need one other thing, not one - I need this! The paddle game, and the chair, and the remote control, and the matches, for sure. Well what are you looking at? What do you think I am, some kind of a jerk or something? And this! And that's all I need. The ashtray, the remote control, the paddle game, this magazine and the chair.
 
Hey there girly...just wanted to drop in and say hi...looks like I picked a good day to do that...itz amazing how once it becomes routine, we actually like it or look forward to it or just do it...Im still getting there but I hear ya on alot you ahd to say...I to was a big coke person...and slushies but no more...I cant even drink them now...tried a sip of my daughters and it made me feel sick...LOL...I find alot of stuff I just have no interest in eating anymore...I can say no or just have a bite to see that I am not missing out on anything...another trick I use...my youngest is just two so I will share with her...that works alos for me...ahlf the calories or maybe even less...ANyhoo just dropping by to say HI...and I will be droppin in more...
 
Oh Randy, that cracks me up. I loved The Jerk when it came out. Watched it over and over. It came on TV 2-3 months ago.

I answered one of those emails recently that asked 4 of your favorite this, that or the other. One was movies you watched over and over. I put Arthur, most Disney flicks, and When Harry Met Sally. I couldn't decide what else to pick. Maybe Wizard of Oz or Gone With the Wind. Or some old black and white flick.

Twolilangels, you are using lots of good tricks to help you. Good job girl. You know, I still love Coke. Seriously, it makes my mouth water to think about it. About the only time I let myself have it is if I have a Taquito meal at Whataburger (soda comes with it, so I can't just have water :) ) or a taco at Taco Bell. But I'll fill the cup with ice, drink one coke, rinse it out and drink water after that (or do the water first and leave with one coke). Well, at Taco Bell it's Mountain Dew, don't like Pepsi. And sometimes there I just get water with one taco - 150 calories, 96 cents for lunch. I don't beat myself up for going there sometimes, I just watch the rest of the day what I eat and I eat and drink less than I used to when I'm there.

OHD I need to come by your diary. I haven't made the rounds in a while.
 
Four........

I'd love to hear everyone's responses to these questions......

Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. Hopheinz, Harpold, MacDonald & Fitzerald (law firm receptionist, age 16)
2. Great American Hero & Subway (hs and college)
3. Hit or Miss & Butlers (women's clothing & shoes, hs and college)
4. UCS (software company, post college)

Four movies I have watched over and over:
1. Arthur
2. When Harry Met Sally
3.
4. Pretty much all the Disney movies

Four places I have lived:
1. Spring, TX (first 5 yrs, don't remember much)
2. Poughkeepsie, NY (3 yrs, I used to say "you guys")
3. Houston, TX (the rest of the yrs)
4. College Station, TX (5ish yrs)

Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. Lost
2. Survivor - my fav reality show
3. Grey's Anatomy - Dr McDreamy......
4. Guiding Light

Four places I have been on vacation:
1. Europe
2. Hawaii
3. Breckenridge, CO
4. Disney World

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Fried Pickles
2. Onion Rings
3. Shrimp Tacos at Guads or Chuys
4. Key Lime Pie

Four places I would rather be right now:

1. Asleep
2. At my ________ (beach house, ski home, lake house - if I had one)
3. Getting a Starbucks on my way to my mani/pedi/massage
4. Cashing in my multimillion $$ lottery ticket

Four people who will respond: - no pressure...
1. on this forum, i don't know
2.
3.
4.
 
Ok...here goes.

Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. Belks (age 16...Holiday job)
2. Burger King (summer before college)
3. Sunday School teacher (does that count? ...anyway Grades 10-12)
4. School Psychologist - current

Four movies I have watched over and over:
1. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
2. Love Jones
3. Pretty Woman
4. ALL the Disney movies ....for better or worse :p

Four places I have lived:
1. Rock Hill, SC
2. Durham, NC
3. Conway, NC
4. Elizabeth City, NC

Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. Grey's Anatomy
2. Girlfriends
3. Gilmore Girls
4. Six Degrees

Four places I have been on vacation:
1. Dominican Republic
2. Massanutten, Va (skiing)
3. Disney World
4. Charleston, SC (one of my fav places)

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Potato Chips
2. ANYTHING chocolate
3. ANYTHING at The CheeseCake Factory :eek:
4. Did I mention potato chips? :eek:

Four places I would rather be right now: (these sound good to me!!)

1. Asleep
2. At my beach house - if I had one
3. Getting a Starbucks on my way to my mani/pedi/massage
4. Cashing in my multimillion $$ lottery ticket

Four people who will respond: - no pressure...
1. ME :)
2. pequin
3. Mal
4.PD
 
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Here ya go...and ohappy responded faster...*GRUMBLE* LOL

Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. Did in home daycare for 2 years...with 4 kids
2. Worked in a 3 - 5 center for 1.5 years
3. Managed a before and after school care program and preschool programs for like 5 yrs...
4. Right now Residential Cleaning
Four movies I have watched over and over:hhhmmm not a big movie person
1. Girls just wanna have fun
2. Flash Dance
3. Jerry Mcguier (cant spell) Pretty Woman
4. Pretty much all the Disney movies - Love Little Mermaid and our xmas tradition is to watch The Grinch who stole Christmas

Four places I have lived:
1. Ive lived in Surrey...where i am now
2. Spent 10 in Campbell River where i had my oldest
3. and back in Surrey...only 28 and had my first at 16 so havent moved around much..Ive been back here for 11 yrs
4.
Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. All Law and Orders...even repeats...love them
2. Criminal Minds
3. That new show Smith...love it
4. All the CSI"S even repeats love them as well

Four places I have been on vacation:
1. no
2. wh
3. er
4. e....lol...Ive never really been anywhere except when my oldest was abt 5 went on a road trip to West Edmonton mall...first time ever away from her...

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Ceaser Salad
2. Spagetti
3. Lemon Merang Pie
4. Chinese food/rice and mashed potatoes...fried potatoes, I love them

Four places I would rather be right now:

1. Sleep i s a big one for me
2. Somewhere far away where my X could never find me
3. In some hot mans arms being cuddled...ok doesnt have to be hot, just normal and loving and caring
4. On vacation somewhere

Four people who will respond: - no pressure...
1. UM I responded to you
2.Ohappy will for sure
3. Dari if she pokes into your journal...
4.I honestly think anyone who reads your journal will...

Have a great day]
 
LOL @ TLA. I wanna change one of my shows...I am so into that new show, Six Degrees...REALLY good. Going to go take off Celebrity FitClub. Only problem is, I keep forgetting what night its on. LOL I gotta get used to watching TV.
 
yoyoyo! try my best here...

Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. does intern count? HR in hotel
2. Sales asst in optical store
3. Navy
4. Radio coordinator

Four movies I have watched over and over:
1. Music of The Heart
2. Titanic
3. Charlie Angels
4. Patch Adams

Four places I have lived:
1. Singapore (loyal citizen lol)


Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. Diva on a Dime
2. The Apprentice
3. America Top Supermodels
4. Extreme Makeover

Four places I have been on vacation:
1. Seoul, South Korea
2. Mauritius
3. China
4. Malaysia

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Fried Chicken Wings
2. Ice cream mooncake
3. ANYTHING korean
4. Fried wanton

Four places I would rather be right now: (these sound good to me!!)

1. Heaven
2. USA
3. Spa
4. Snowland

Four people who will respond: - no pressure...
1. OHD
2. pequin
3. DQ
4. saramaria

I responded to u.... i am sure many others will flood yr diary soon!:D
btw i had a time of reflection while on this. Thanks for comin out with this.
 
Quiz designed to delve deep into your minds.....

No, it's interesting to see what people write down.

On TV, boy I put some pretty shallow ones. My guilty pleasures. I may have to remove GL, I find I want to eat when I watch that show... I used to catch all the dramas - CSI, Law & Order, etc. Yeah, would watch the repeats too. Gosh they are all over the repeat channels.

But I got TiVo, you know like DVR. It's called different things by different companies. Anyway, I found myself saying for the first time - hey it's the birth of a new phrase caused by advances in technology

"I have to catch up on my TV"

All those AUTOMATICALLY recorded, saved indefinitely shows were beckoning me like a ToDo list. I couldn't delete them UNWATCHED. Finally I had to start dropping shows. Now I watch TV less than I used to, because I pick something to watch that I've recorded, fast forward through the commercials, then turn off the TV. I used to flip channels for hours. When one show ended, I'd find another. I could stay up all night doing that. There are a couple of things I guess I miss about that, like the foody shows, the history channel, animal channel, old movies channels.

Oh yeah, and I like Sex and the City. I never had HBO and so never saw one episode while the show was still going. Now I catch the reruns. I do that, don't watch a popular show, but then get hooked on reruns. Did that with Third Rock from the Sun. That show cracked me up.
 
Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. Cashier in a grocery store (age 15)
2. The Limited, store manager (age 22)
3. IT manager, cantor fitzgerald
4. Software engineer

Four movies I have watched over and over:
1. Casablanca
2. The princess bride
3. Now voyager
4. Fast times at ridgemont high

Four places I have lived:
1, franklin lakes, nj
2. new york city
3. new canaan, ct
4. new hamphire
(It's a good thing i'mmoving to chicago 0- i've had my fill of News)

Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. the west wing
2. anythig on the food network

Four places I have been on vacation:
1. austrailia
2. cuba
3. tahiti
4. napa

Four of my favorite foods:
1. cheese
2. cheese
3. cheese
4. hamburgers

Four places I would rather be right now:
1. not here
Four people who will respond: - no pressure...
1. on this forum, i don't know
2.
3.
4.
 
Four jobs I have had in my life:
1. Sears - sales clerk
2. Freelance designer (current)
3. Wow... I think that's it!
4. No - one more: Babysitter (in my teens)

Four movies I have watched over and over:
1. GOONIES :D:D:D
2. Amelie
3. The Way Home (Korean Movie)
4. Elisabethtown

Four places I have lived:
1. Great Falls, Montanta (born there and stayed all of 1 year)
2. Chandler, Arazona (on the AFBase nearby)
3. Knobnoster, Missouri (near the AF Base)
4. Currenttown I live In ;), Indiana

Four TV shows I love to watch:
1. CSI:
2. Grey's Anatomy
3. House
4. Hm... guess I don't watch too much TV

Four places I have been on vacation:
1. Nebraska
2. Nebraska
3. New Orleans (pre Katrina)
4. Nebraska :p

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Cheesecake!!
2. cheese pizza
3. fried cheese
4. Fettachine Aflredo (yeah - i like cheeeese!)

Four places I would rather be right now:

1. In my lavish mansion overlooking the pacific, post loto winning of course
2. At Cuddleing with a Husband... if I had one :D
3. Taking a prise winning photograph
4. Trying on a size 14 - and it fitting :D:D:D

Four people who will respond: - no pressure...
1. errr... I don't know
 
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