Baby???... Maybe!!!!!!

H

honeybee2

New member
Okay I am 10 days late. That means that in 4 days I will be 2 weeks late!!!
AAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! :eek:

I refuse to know yet. I am freaking out. I am gonna wait til November 1st to take an at home test. I want my birthday to go baby free. Oh god. I am only 19. Jimmy just finally got a decent job. I'm not ready for this. I mean. isn't this supposed to be a planned out thing???

Maybe it is just all the exercising and strict dieting. I heard that can make u skip aa period. Although I haven't skipped a period since I was10!! Oh somebody say somehting to make me feel better! :(
 
I missed a whole month before...then again, I'm used to being irregular...it happens a lot to me a lot. just remember, if it is a baby...it's life...

*hugs*
 
Lol mate if babies were supposed to be planed 3 of mine wouldn’t be here. I had my son when I was 17 and I can tell you it was a bit of a shock to the system but you cope. My second child was planed but the 3rd and 4th were little surprises. I couldn’t take any birth control and I only have to look at a (you no) and im pregnant. If you are pregnant think of it as a blessing, these little creatures will change your life and I swear you will never see things the same once you have it in your arms, things seem to shine again.
 
Listen Honey...I was 19 when I got preg. for the 1st time too (neither were planned) Anyways, like you, I was TOTALLY freaking out! I had never been on my own, I didn't have a job....I didn't know how to totally take care of myself, let alone a baby! I even found myself thinking "it wouldn't be the worse thing if I miscarried"

Anywho...my baby is now 7 and what a blessing!!! My life must have been AWFULLY boring before she came along. God would not have blessed you with a baby if he didn't think you could do it. In the grand scheme of things, a baby is going to cost you nothing more than some extra money, but you will be SOOO in love with him/her that you are thrilled to hand over every penny! I would do it over again in a heartbeat if given the chance, and you will too :)
 
Thanks everyone. I know that it will be amazing if I do have a baby. But I'm still worried. Oh well, just roll with right?
 
Worrying is normal. If you asre pregnant I have to tell you..First off I never wanted kids.Ever but now I have 4 little girls and they are by far the best things that ever happend to me. They are a blessing from god and I wish you all the luck in the world if you are..Even if your not I still wish you all the luck in the world. Take care and good luck, let us know what you find out.
 
Just relax. Why wait to take the test? It is going to be on your mind until you know for sure and the more you worry, the more time will go by with no period, because the stress will keep it away. So.....relax and take the test. If you are pregnant it is truly a gift from above. Something meant to be.
 
I agree with Turtle momma..... why wait.. you WILL be stressing yourself out more than necesary... And you dont need it!
I was 20 when I got pregnant... And it was with the worst person imaginable! we had no jobs, no place to stay, nothing! But I made it... Without him (left him when I was 5 months preg)! The state helps young single Mothers better than any other insurance out there.
I can not say anything negative about having my daughter. She is 6 now, and the love of my life... I would do anything for my girl...
Guess thats why I'm in Girl Scouts now huh? LOL
AND IF YOU'RE NOT.... That's good too... There are always pluses and minuses to EVERY situation...
Take it easy.. and I suggest do the test............................
 
Long weekend. Last night I got my period at about 10. It was really light, but now it normal. Oh well, I was getting excited. That's the first time I ever thought I could be pregnant.
 
Im sorry honey if thats what you wanted, chances are maybe your period was late because of your diet. I know that my periods were quite weird when I first started dieting. Babies are great but hard work and God will give you one no doubt when he believes your ready for it. ((((HUGS))))
 
Oh Honeybee~ Babies are wonderful... Mostly when you have them at the right time. I am happy you get a second chance to really think about if you want a baby and WHEN..
Your time will come hun... Hopefully you have learned from this scare. I know you originally said you were not ready. If that was your first instinct, then stick with it until you are ready.
Just from now on be careful, until you are ready.... take adeep breath and
ENJOY YOUR BIRTHDAY!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top