Always will be a fat man.........but

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ali.smedley said:
I just wanted to stop in and say hello ~ your diary is so entertaining :)
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Entertaining in a depressed fat man kind of way? :D

Thanks for coming in, I really do appreciate anyone who can put up with musings of an imbecile for any length of time. :)
 
Bigguy said:
Entertaining in a depressed fat man kind of way? :D

Thanks for coming in, I really do appreciate anyone who can put up with musings of an imbecile for any length of time. :)
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I wouldn't call you an imbecile - a lot of what you said really resonated with me...maybe we both are imbeciles then :D

I like your reference to your wife's cat - I have one like that as well...pure unadulterated evil, she is going to live forever, I just know it.
 
It would not surprise me to see 2 imbeciles in a community this large.....:)

Does your evil one give you the evil stare?
Frightening sometimes. I can almost hear her it seems.
 
Bigguy said:
It would not surprise me to see 2 imbeciles in a community this large.....:)

Does your evil one give you the evil stare?
Frightening sometimes. I can almost hear her it seems.
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YES!!!!!!!!!!! She gives me this look and I swear she is plotting my demise...I call it the skunk eye. She pretends to be 'nice' to me and then, next thing you know, whap! she scratches/bites you.

Our revenge? We got another cat. He is about a year old and spends ALL of his free time stalking/chasing her around the house. It is WONDERFUL to see.

I figured, that'll show YOU! Hahaha.
 
But drugs are expensive.
Paranoia is free.

And besides, I am not paranoid- she is out to get me. :)
 
ali.smedley said:
YES!!!!!!!!!!! She gives me this look and I swear she is plotting my demise...I call it the skunk eye. She pretends to be 'nice' to me and then, next thing you know, whap! she scratches/bites you.

Our revenge? We got another cat. He is about a year old and spends ALL of his free time stalking/chasing her around the house. It is WONDERFUL to see.

I figured, that'll show YOU! Hahaha.
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I agree completely.

What brings a smile to my face is when the other cat chases her around. He is bigger than her and can push her around and dominate her.
Not wishing bad things on her or anything, but she does wish them on me so.....
 
Bigguy said:
I agree completely.

What brings a smile to my face is when the other cat chases her around. He is bigger than her and can push her around and dominate her.
Not wishing bad things on her or anything, but she does wish them on me so.....
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Haha...mine will be sitting there and the new one will get up on a table and the minute she starts to move...he jumps on her head. It is better than television sometimes. I love it!

I believe to understand evil cats, you must have an evil cat and see the hate in their eyes...
 
I really, honesty need to get on the road again or work from home....

In addition to annoying girl there is now a pile of food in the kitchen. I do not get it here, an office of women who are all terrified of swinsuit season and there are piles or sandwiches from Weber Grill and bags of chips all over in there.
All I am trying to do is refill my water bottle and I am getting harrassed to eat some.
How can a 230lb man be told that he is getting too skinny and needs to eat???

Odd world here.
Crap- I hear annoying girl coming.......
 
Bigguy said:
I really, honesty need to get on the road again or work from home....

In addition to annoying girl there is now a pile of food in the kitchen. I do not get it here, an office of women who are all terrified of swinsuit season and there are piles or sandwiches from Weber Grill and bags of chips all over in there.
All I am trying to do is refill my water bottle and I am getting harrassed to eat some.
How can a 230lb man be told that he is getting too skinny and needs to eat???

Odd world here.
Crap- I hear annoying girl coming.......
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People will tell you that because they cannot handle your changes, it makes them uncomfortable in some vague way they probably do not understand.

I totally agree with the food thing. I work in a small office (10 people total) and they are all thin (I was the heaviest, maybe not anymore) yet they bring in all manner of shit to eat. Cakes, cookies, donuts it is so frustrating. I want to tie them down and make them eat it sometimes...

ok - violent tendencies have passed...
 
I am by far the biggest person in this office. Will be even if I get to my goal.
I just get frustrated sometimes. My mother in law told me to stop- I was getting too 'skinny'. I havn't been skinny in my life- scratch that. I was born a 6lbs 6oz, that is smaller than average.
Short of that- never skinny.

How can the world say I do not need to lose weight??
I am not even overtly muscular and do not 'carry my weight well'.

AARRGG!!!

Frustration over. Need to kill falling.......
 
Bigguy said:
I am by far the biggest person in this office. Will be even if I get to my goal.
I just get frustrated sometimes. My mother in law told me to stop- I was getting too 'skinny'. I havn't been skinny in my life- scratch that. I was born a 6lbs 6oz, that is smaller than average.
Short of that- never skinny.

How can the world say I do not need to lose weight??
I am not even overtly muscular and do not 'carry my weight well'.

AARRGG!!!

Frustration over. Need to kill falling.......
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People base their perceptions of you based on who you are, which is comprised of how you look and how you act. I think that when people start trying to change their appearance, some people become fearful that you will not be the person they think you are. That along with your body, your personality is going to change as well. It is a comfort level thing with those people and there is precious little you can do to change it except wait it out.

It sucks, and I haven't gotten there yet, but I don't see what else you can do except start messing with them in new and interesting ways...
 
Interesting ways eh.....
Interested guy is interested.

You've lost over 70lbs and have not been told you are too small yet?
Amazing. Although men are 'supposed' to be big and women are 'supposed' to be small- that probably is the reason. It is BS but probably the reason.

I am going to try to get pictures up here soon so people can see I am a real person. Just need to figure out how. I am computer literate but not forum literate.
 
Bigguy said:
Interesting ways eh.....
Interested guy is interested.

You've lost over 70lbs and have not been told you are too small yet?
Amazing. Although men are 'supposed' to be big and women are 'supposed' to be small- that probably is the reason. It is BS but probably the reason.

I am going to try to get pictures up here soon so people can see I am a real person. Just need to figure out how. I am computer literate but not forum literate.
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I have a pictures thread - Before and During...Not Done Yet!!!...I started out pretty heavy and still look like I have a ways to go (in my humble opinion) so that may be why I am not getting the comments yet...I am looking forward to them, although I bet it gets old quickly.

As for interesting ways...tell them you have a tapeworm or some sort of exotic disease, start making shit up to mess with them. If they are going to ask, you may as well have some fun with it, you know?
 
Problem is I will get lectured by the know it alls about how I got the tapeworm or Schelling flu. I am usually the only guy in this office- all in my position are based here but are on the road most of the time, myself included.

I love all women- they are better than men in many ways- but this crap is annoying.

I think I will start a simple picture thread. Do you know if that forum is hidden from the public like this one is?
 
I think it is only because I have tried to send links to a friend of mine who is not a memeber and she says that she can't see what I am sending her without her being a member.

I can't promise that to be the case, but I want to say that is the way it goes...I never thought about it, but I would hope so, I look pretty bad in some of my before pics :D
 
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