After the goal is reached...

Everyone wants to go shopping because we'll be too skinny for all our old clothes!! I would love to be able to wear a bikini without having three inches sagging down the front.

Myself, once I hit my goal, I'm going wedding dress shopping! By then it'll only be a few months before the big day!
 
Huuuuuuge shopping spree and I also want a piercing (belly button)! Don't know if I would actually have the courage to get a tattoo, but one that said something specific about my weight loss and what I have achieved would be awesome.
 
Jennylynn and Christina - I totally know what you guys mean. My nephew has called me fat before, and I am a student teacher and I've heard it from some of my students in past years. It really hurts but you have to keep in mind that 99% of the time they are just being innocent and they don't know they are hurting you.
 
It still sucks doesnt it? Some kids may not know, but most of them SHOULD have the common sense not to be rude to an adult.... My nephews were raised with no respect for anyone anything..........
 
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It still sucks doesnt it? Some kids may not know, but most of them SHOULD have the common sense not to be rude to an adult.... My nephews were raised with no respect for anyone anything..........
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Yeah, it depends on how the kid says it too, which is kind of hard to express on here when you can't explain the tone of voice. But some just let it slip in a curious kind of way, and others do it with an abrasive kind of tone. Still really hurts either way. It also makes you frustrated because you don't want to be mad at a kid, but you do get angry!
 
I'm going to buy a new bikini and board shorts, and I'm going to start wearing all my cute clothes from before that don't fit right now!

Kids can say mean things unintentionally, or they can say things to deliberately hurt others. Either way, I think it's perfectly fine to give a kid a lecture in manners, if the parent obviously hasn't done so. And keep in mind, that kid may be able to eat whatever he wants now, but in 10 or 20 years... heh heh heh ;) .
 
Ugh, it really doesn't stop with the kid-stage, some people my age and even adults are still like that. No respect for others.
 
To hell with the cute clothes Im just gonna walk around Naked all the time and show off my new body.....LOL. Allright maybe not I actually have a playboy bunny string Bikini I bought and my goal is to fit into it.
 
When I loose weight I will be able to do all the things I used to not be able to do.. I could go back to school without worrying a/b kids (and PE teachers using me as a bad example for the class) tormenting me a/b my weight.. and I could try out for cheerleading without ppl laughing at me like it's some kind of joke~ and I could go shopping at the mall finally (Lane Bryant and other plus sized store do not count!) And buy clothes that actually look like a 15 year old would wear! I'd be able to go swimming again! I could never wear a bathing suit without feeling absolutely horrible... And I'd make up for all the days of my young life that I have missed out on! It would mean so much to me... ^_^ ...I wouldnt' have to see psychiatrists a/b my depression anymore! It'd change my whole life!
 
well so much for the bikini plan i mentioned in april. looking at myself now at the goal weight of 125, there's no way my bod is ready for that bikini yet! maybe after i get to 115? we shall see!
 
Don't let yourself get too thin! You looked great in all the pictures you have posted recently. I only wish I looked as good as you!
 
I'm going to go shopping and buy all the things that i couldnt wear before.. like a bikini.. or.. halter neck tops.. nice little flowing girly skirts.. big belts! ahh i cant wait!

And then.. im going to go to America and visit the family and friends that are out there. :D I can't wait!! Its gonna be sooooo coool!
 
definitely can't wait to fit into my small clothes :)

no money for new ones, but lots of old ones to rediscover - yay!
 
I actually thought of this and have decided to give myself little rewords as I go along... :)


Here's how it works:

After 20 pounds lost: An industrial peircing in my Left ear

20 pounds after that: A manicure (cus I'm a sucker for those believe it or not)

20 pounds after that: Another indrustrial but in my right ear

then the last 20 pounds: A new haircut and clothes ( then when I turn 18, a tattoo on my shoulder or lowerback)

:)
 
I'm NOT going shopping :D

When the weight is gone, I'd love to say I'd go to the beach in the summer and jump in the ocean. I probarbly won't though. I'll have all the excess skin hanging down, looking bad :( And I don't want to burdon the other people on the beach, and make them loose their appetite :(

I'm being to harsh on myself here... I really really REALLY want to go to the beach and go swimming in the ocean or something. I can now too, but I just don't like being shirtless because of my belly... Can suck it in pretty nicely though :p

Ahh... the beach :)
 
Shopping for sure....hopefully I won't have a choice, I'll eventually HAVE to shop if my clothes are falling off me.

I would love to get a hot tub and finally have the confidence to USE IT, even if other people are around.
 
bikinis for everybody!!! guys too!!!:D

Seriously, Im 42, but there are some very flattering 2 pieces out there that Id love to get myself. Texas is as always very hot in the summer, so lots of skin is going to get shown. Just a fact of life. So i plan on looking great by the heat of summer here.

I would also like to go on another cruise. I went on one with my sister last Feb, and wouldnt mind me another one!

and an ENTIRE new wardrobe!
 
I will be happy just to fit into my old clothes. I have kept my favorite ones so I shouldnt need to go shopping. It will be like having a whole new wardrobe and I can get rid of my "fat clothes".

I just came back from a weeks vacation and only went to the hot tub 1x because I was too embarrassed to be seen in a swim suit. (No one really cared what I looked like, it is just an emotional hurdle I have not overcome yet) I just want to be able to feel good in a swim suit, Bikini or one piece, and be having fun in the water with the rest of my family.


I think a pedicure is a good idea to do at the 20 lb intervlas, too. :D
 
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i definatly can't wait to go shopping. i've never shopped in a non-plus sized store before and i plan on going crazy with the credit card :D
 
I think when I lose the weight, I am going to buy myself a nice bikini, and go to the beach!!
 
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