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jenn said:
jenn, i also too think what is the exact defination of fat in our context here now, it seems like we have 70% skinny slim girls, 10% fat, 10%perfect (in my context), 9% curvy and 1% obese.
everywhere i go, left and right, i always see girls thinner than me. i always wonder where did they buy their jeans from. the media and magazines are always posting slimming ads, pills and slimming shows, its just putting the "non-bamboo" girls down....................personally i think its just a bad unhealthy environment.
I think so too chocolate but let me say this, you look great and if you are happy with how you look thats what really counts. I'm quite happy with how i look but i want more strength and more muscle, that will make me bigger and I'm okay with that. being healthy and fit is far more attractive than being boney. we are too caught up in looks instead of being healthy- you can be a twig but what good is it if you can't do anything. its not good. just stay healthy and active and don't worry you look awesome. there will always be someone out there that willl have something negative to say so just brush them off and be content that you are a beautiful, healthy, fit woman.
totally agree jenn, i want to be healthy and lively rather than some stick figures, which i never approve of anyway. sure they do look very nice in clothings and probably even nude, but i love my boobs and bums to trade in for some flats. and i like to be able to rub flesh to flesh with my bf(if i ever get one) and not bones to flesh.
i wouldn't want a skinny guy too. doesn't appeal.
so yes, hurray to those beautiful healthy fit woman. but sometimes we do get put down by bamboo girls and feel sad about it. they can never understand why some woman love muscles and defination, and why some woman loves curves.
i wouldn't want a skinny guy too. doesn't appeal.
so yes, hurray to those beautiful healthy fit woman. but sometimes we do get put down by bamboo girls and feel sad about it. they can never understand why some woman love muscles and defination, and why some woman loves curves.
Chocolate, your PM inbox is full...and you're not fat!
There seems to be a swing occuring in the UK at the moment whereby celebrities etc. are being berated for being too skinny. Whilst some of them certainly are and have taken the whole diet thing WAY too far, a lot of the people being targeted are actually just slim people blessed with fast metabolisms. I wonder if there will ever be a complete reversal where people are encouraged to gain weight??
There seems to be a swing occuring in the UK at the moment whereby celebrities etc. are being berated for being too skinny. Whilst some of them certainly are and have taken the whole diet thing WAY too far, a lot of the people being targeted are actually just slim people blessed with fast metabolisms. I wonder if there will ever be a complete reversal where people are encouraged to gain weight??
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ChrisJG said:
i doubt it mate, idiots like victoria beckham have encouraged my little cousin to lose alot of wieght, she now has an eating disorder and is dangerously thin currently recieving medical treatment for it, poor girl. its not natural to be too skinny, i wish girls in general would stop worrying about it it is causing alot of sickness out there
I like my ladies with something between their bones and their skin. That's just me though. 
i saw your pic your not fat! fat is when you have tonnnnns of lbs around your stomach while wearing a belly shirt <.< being too skinny isnt really hot imo.i mean think about it... its like working with pc parts or building a model car or anything delicate do you really want to think to yourself in bed... omg im wanna be on top! she might break into tho
fat is when you have tonnnnns of lbs around your stomach while wearing a belly shirt <.< being too skinny isnt really hot imo.i mean think about it... its like working with pc parts or building a model car or anything delicate do you really want to think to yourself in bed... omg im wanna be on top! she might break into tho 
aliquisdeus said:I like my ladies with something between their bones and their skin. That's just me though.
Anybody read this post the way I did haha.
Most guys I know like "normal girls", not too skinny and not too fat. A phat a$$ with a flat stomach, mmmhmmmhmm.