2hott4u & She47441

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Derwyddon that was a great offer you made she and hott. I've been watching the posts on this forum for a long time now. Just remember you can't help some if they don't want to help themselves. After seeing certain blogs that is apparent. Some have been posting for over a year and from the start weight to current weight is only a total of 3 lbs lost. Ups and downs yes, but progress wasn't made simply because it's not really wanted. Anyway, kudos on the offer.
 
It's beyond me why they wouldn't take you up on the offer. I sure as hell would..
I just need to get my finances together and budget so I can buy healthy food. Not order off the value menu at jack in the box every night after work :/
 
What a surprise! They don't want help. I actually offered She help on a PM a while ago (not that I'm an expert but hey, help is help) and I was also turned down. Go figure.

Like it was said you can't help those who don't want to help themselves. Or force someone to get help.

That was a great gesture (sp?). I'm going to negative rep you for that one Derwyddon. You only want negative right?
 
I hear ya Merci. but they could have politely said: No thanks, I want to try on my own, thanks for the offer though...instead of fully ignoring her (in Wendie's case) and partially in She's.

I mean, it sounds like there's bad blood and I don't know anything so maybe I should just butt out..
 
I believe you. Ok, I'm gonna get my Dr. Phil hat on. Maybe by accepting your help she feels like she accepting failure as well...
 
Humm

Doing your own thing is great but it obviously isn't working for some. Like i said, the proof is in the first post (SW) and most recent post (CW). I think that after over a year and not "getting it" any help would be welcome. Oh well.
 
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I, for one, am not going to stoop to your guys childish level here in this thread so that is why I have not said anything before about what has been written about 2hott and I and this is going to be the last thing I say on this matter, so listen very carefully because I refuse to repeat myself again or post again in this thread.

If anybody would like to know our reasons why we didn't take derwyddon up on the offer then just pm us individually and we would be glad to tell you why but I for one am getting sick and tired with everybody just guessing why we didn't do it and not even taking one minute to find out why. Either find out or quit talking your sh@t.

I also take offense to this thread to begin with because I feel like derwyddon singled us out because she thinks we sit on our lazy a@@es all day and don't do anything and just eat and eat and eat. I refuse to go into details about our (2hott and I's) personal lives but I think she just needs to keep her nose out of our (2hott and I's) business and worry about her own life.

How long is this thread going to go on? I think this thread needs to be either deleted or die quickly. The main two people about this thread refuses to have anything to do with so I think your plan has backfired on you. If you still want to talk about us then do it on messenger but if you choose to do that then consider yourselves blocked from everything because I for one refuse to deal with backstabbers and liars in my life.

I have tried to be friendly with the other females on here and some of you I considered a friend but I guess you didn't feel the same way. This thread has opened my eyes to who is here to help me and here to just talk sh@t about people. I know who my friend's are on here (and you know who you are too) and the rest of you can go p@ss off!!
 
I'm going open my mouth - I'm not TRYING to offend anyone, but the truth hurts sometimes.

I know speaking about myself that there will be times I stop posting in my diary mostly because I SUCK! I haven't been eating clean, or working out. And personally I want to be encouraging to the others on the forum. Yeah I want to show ppl its not a walk in the park, but my goodness, I get so frustrated to see the food intake thats posted in some members diary. It's like are you kidding me, you friggen ate that AGAIN!!!! I feel that some ppl have there diary's here that don't belong, its really a life diary, not a fitness diary. Sure its nice to hear SOME personal stuff, but I don't need to hear how you just did the laundry, cleaned the house, ate hot dogs and potato chips at a BBQ. I actually stopped reading cause it was so frustrating. And forgive me if I sound mean, but it says under the Diary section Track your weight training / weight loss progress -Get my point!
 
Derwyddon said:
Please, She, tell me how this or anything i've said in anything recently has anything to do with your personal lives? I haven't talked to either of you outside of this board for probably 3/4ths of a year. My offer was genuine, and you have no way to show it wasn't. What in the world does this have to do with your personal buisness in any way? And if this is because of 'bad blood' between wendy and i, i have no feelings about wendy what so ever and haven't talked to her in a very long time. it was out of genuine interest of both of you learning and growing instead of posting laundry scheduals and josh groban pictures and not getting an inch closer to your goals.

so how about you find out the whole story for yourself. <3
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HAHA I posted my post with out seeing this!
 
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I was gonna stay out of this but I think ppl are making a lot of assumptions about Wendy and She. I don't think Sarah's intentions were bad, but it probably would have been better handled through PMs b/c it's really only between Wendy, She, and Sara. I also think this thread should be deleted.
 
Ok, I too was going to stay out of this because I'm not really connected to these people in any way but man I disagree that Sarah should've sent a pm. This is a PUBLIC forum. One where people learn from eachother and where we have diaries that EVERYONE can read. Wendy had her diary literally on DISPLAY for for everyone to read and Sarah responded to her diary with another thread. That's not mean, rude or anything. What was rude (and childish) was Wendy disappearing, not answering and being all dramatic with leaving. Ridiculous.

Shellsy - I felt the same damn way when I would read Wendy's diary. I don't know why I would bother to look at it at this point either. It was always like "Wow I'm doing great! I had McDonalds!!!! But after that I didn't eat a bag of chips! I have so many chores to do. I'm seeing JJJJJOOOOSSSHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

My thoughts on her leaving is that she didn't really have a point of being here anyways. Perhaps a forum that's more based around chatting and socializing would better suit her.
 
calcium said:
Ok, I too was going to stay out of this because I'm not really connected to these people in any way but man I disagree that Sarah should've sent a pm. This is a PUBLIC forum. One where people learn from eachother and where we have diaries that EVERYONE can read. Wendy had her diary literally on DISPLAY for for everyone to read and Sarah responded to her diary with another thread. That's not mean, rude or anything. What was rude (and childish) was Wendy disappearing, not answering and being all dramatic with leaving. Ridiculous.

Shellsy - I felt the same damn way when I would read Wendy's diary. I don't know why I would bother to look at it at this point either. It was always like "Wow I'm doing great! I had McDonalds!!!! But after that I didn't eat a bag of chips! I have so many chores to do. I'm seeing JJJJJOOOOSSSHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

My thoughts on her leaving is that she didn't really have a point of being here anyways. Perhaps a forum that's more based around chatting and socializing would better suit her.
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Well, I agree that this is a public forum for a place for everyone to learn about fitness and stuff. I'm not quite sure what you are learning from this thread that seems to be basically bashing She and Wendy.

This is a board of support and this thread may have started out to be supportive but surely hasn't ended up that way. It has turned into ppl complaining about what information ppl post in there diaries. If you don't like what's in their diary, don't read it. Because this is a forum open to the public, everyone is welcome to it, even if you don't think they belong here. I never said that Sarah's post was rude, I just think it would have been more effective handled privately or even as a reply within their diary. But some of the other post have turned into somewhat of personal attacks and really isn't about helping either of these members in their fitness goals as it is to bitch about their diaries and lack of response to this thread.
 
She47441 said:
I, for one, am not going to stoop to your guys childish level here in this thread ...... Either find out or quit talking your sh@t...because I for one refuse to deal with backstabbers and liars in my life...and the rest of you can go p@ss off
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Well that certainly was mature...I think the 'rest of us' were only giving our opinions as to why you wouldn't take her help.

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I also take offense to this thread to begin with because I feel like derwyddon singled us out because she thinks we sit on our lazy a@@es all day and don't do anything and just eat and eat and eat.
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And that is precisely (sp) the problem. If you take her help in your eyes she 'wins' when in reality it's YOU guys who would win because you would reach your goals quicker.

Yeah, Sara is opinionated and may be blunt at times, sometimes harshly blunt, but she speaks the truth...
 
Simbl78 said:
This is a board of support and this thread may have started out to be supportive but surely hasn't ended up that way.
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Agreed and this thread is now closed.

The offer was not accepted and that is that. No need to bring out other issues. If you have a personal issue with another member here you can send them a PM or talk about it over IM or PM a mod.

This is a place to voice your opinion yes and I am all for that, however I think that if this thread is kept open, it will take a turn for the worst when the initial question was a simple yes or no answer.










btw I love steak.....
 
The offer couldve started as pm as well. Then if they accepted, you could've bragged about how your program or whatever helped them. Or made the announcement that they were being helped. Know matter how genuine the offer, it doesnt come off that way when you publicly announce they havent made x amount of progress.

What they do in their diaries is whatever they want. The main problem is that now everyone knows whether they have made progress. In a way it is insulting to throw around their results and criticize them for not taking the offer. I like Merci's comment best. These two members stick to their diaries and dont venture around, if you dont want to read their diaries, then dont.


And I like steak too.
 
i think it was good to have the initial offer public as a more persuasive push may have been required from other members ... however, once it was declined, it should have been dropped.
 
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