Unfortunately as our bodies get bigger our head-s get smaller in prospective. Hmmm, I do get emails on how to fix that though.
Ideal size?
Bigger than I am now. And with some hawtness like Diane on my shoulder.
I like Vin Diesal...very buff, lean enough, though his legs might need some work (I can't really recall if he's a bit top heavy).
i actually laughed out load reading that, sometimes i feel exactly the way you do. he is in sick shape