Anyone here have a time when "friends" pulled some **** and make you think there are no trustworthy people? I thought friends were supposed to be on my side? I feel like I can't trust anyone anymore...people suck. Always judging, rather than living their own lives. Stay outta my ****ing business! End short rant.
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Anyone here have a time when "friends" pulled some **** and make you think there are no trustworthy people? I thought friends were supposed to be on my side? I feel like I can't trust anyone anymore...people suck. Always judging, rather than living their own lives. Stay outta my ****ing business! End short rant.
LMAO! I have 2 friends that I trust with my life. The rest are just people you can share laughs with. Most are freeloaders and bottom feeders.
I have learned that family will **** you faster than freinds will.
Damn, these are guys I've been good friends with for years. Shared all my HS and college memories with, would do anything for. Then wham, they pull some **** on you.
That last comment is really scary, because my 2 brothers are what I consider my 2 best freinds. Luckily they are not on my **** list.
That last comment is really scary, because my 2 brothers are what I consider my 2 best freinds. Luckily they are not on my **** list.
Damn, these are guys I've been good friends with for years. Shared all my HS and college memories with, would do anything for. Then wham, they pull some **** on you.
That last comment is really scary, because my 2 brothers are what I consider my 2 best freinds. Luckily they are not on my **** list.
my bro is cool. I guess I should have said extended family.
I talk to 1 person I went to HS with. Actually my buddy Chad I've known since Kindergarten.
The other really good friend I met at work about 12 years ago. Trouble with him is he married a controlling bitch LOL
Meh, I don't wanna go into it much. Basically, my gf and I went up to one of my buddies houses. Time went on, I didn't feel like doing anything so I just chilled, fell asleep on his couch early. So my friend, his gf, and another one of my friends go to a bar and my gf goes along. No worries, has happened before. She comes back to me a couple hours later sobbing, all tore up. I ask what the **** happened?! She tells me they were drilling her with Qs, like why are you still with Flynn, aren't you bothered that you are up here and he's just passed out at home? "I would never just go to bed when I'm out with my gf, I'm around to take care of her." "Look at his brothers, they are his role models, you know he's not gonna grow up, he's just gonna be like them." "When you find someone else, you are just gonna leave him hanging, arent you?"
So it was sorta a mix of them calling her out like she was gonna bail on me, but also them sorta like saying I suck? I don't know wtf. So I went down and told them, any of you ****suckers ever have anything to say to my girl or me, you say it to my face, otherwise we have a big ****ing problem. I can't even believe it...they just like ****ed with her. And my buddies cold hearted bitch of a GF didn't even give some ladies compassion. ****in trick.
So it was sorta a mix of them calling her out like she was gonna bail on me, but also them sorta like saying I suck? I don't know wtf. So I went down and told them, any of you ****suckers ever have anything to say to my girl or me, you say it to my face, otherwise we have a big ****ing problem. I can't even believe it...they just like ****ed with her. And my buddies cold hearted bitch of a GF didn't even give some ladies compassion. ****in trick.
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my bro is cool. I guess I should have said extended family.
I talk to 1 person I went to HS with. Actually my buddy Chad I've known since Kindergarten.
The other really good friend I met at work about 12 years ago. Trouble with him is he married a controlling bitch LOL
Gotcha. Well my family is really small. I'd die for my parents, and likewise for my bros. I seriously would lose it if something came between my family and myself.
I always wondered why my dad pretty much didn't associate with old friends much. Now I'm starting to see why.
I went through almost the same **** when I started dating my wife. Things like that only make you realize who your real friends are.
Really? Damn, I'm still shocked. I just don't get it. And if that's true what you said, then I have none. It's really F-ed because my GF is on my bad side for reasons I won't go into here, and my 3rd good friend has involvement in that which complicates it. I really feel completely alone, after one ****ing weekend.
Meh, I don't wanna go into it much. Basically, my gf and I went up to one of my buddies houses. Time went on, I didn't feel like doing anything so I just chilled, fell asleep on his couch early. So my friend, his gf, and another one of my friends go to a bar and my gf goes along. No worries, has happened before. She comes back to me a couple hours later sobbing, all tore up. I ask what the **** happened?! She tells me they were drilling her with Qs, like why are you still with Flynn, aren't you bothered that you are up here and he's just passed out at home? "I would never just go to bed when I'm out with my gf, I'm around to take care of her." "Look at his brothers, they are his role models, you know he's not gonna grow up, he's just gonna be like them." "When you find someone else, you are just gonna leave him hanging, arent you?"
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How well do you know this girl? What was your friend’s side of the story?
It’s easy to take the side of the one you’re screwing but be careful of women with an agenda; things aren’t always exactly as they seem
What if they called her out on something, she slipped up and then turns on the waterworks and accused them of something to cover her tracks and make you disbelieve them?
How well do you know this girl? What was your friend’s side of the story?
It’s easy to take the side of the one you’re screwing but be careful of women with an agenda; things aren’t always exactly as they seem
What if they called her out on something, she slipped up and then turns on the waterworks and accused them of something to cover her tracks and make you disbelieve them?
Good point to bring that up, and believe me it has crossed my mind. I know her well, being going out for a year and a half.
I am yet to hear my friend's side of the story, we are meeting this week to talk. She has sworn to told me exactly what happened, so unless their story is like the complete opposite, I don't know how the convo will end with us still friends. Time will tell.
You are lucky if you can trust 1 friend with your life.
I've had so many come and go. People who you sometimes think are your friends, are really people who are jelous and envious of you.
I have heard this before. I guess I've just never been exposed to it until now and it's a bit more than I thought it would be.
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Lillian
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i agree...happens all the time. i have a few good friends left. those are the ones i can trust and pretty much are the ones we can rely on. they can also rely on us. all the others came and went as well, some were back stabbers, others try to ruin your other relationships, etc. i do believe a lot has to do with jealousy as well.
you'll go through it every now and then. it's a part of life i guess.
you'll go through it every now and then. it's a part of life i guess.
That part of life sucks.
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Lillian
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it definitely sucks. and the same goes for working in an office if you ever do. just be careful who you share your personal talk with. i've been backstabbed that way also, when i trusted coworkers.
my neices were talking to me about this stuff too not too long ago and they were very upset as well. i tried to explain to them that this stuff happens and it does suck, but they have to just move on with life and dedicate their time to people who really are true to them and forget the ones that back stabbed them. it just happens unfortunately.
my neices were talking to me about this stuff too not too long ago and they were very upset as well. i tried to explain to them that this stuff happens and it does suck, but they have to just move on with life and dedicate their time to people who really are true to them and forget the ones that back stabbed them. it just happens unfortunately.
it definitely sucks. and the same goes for working in an office if you ever do. just be careful who you share your personal talk with. i've been backstabbed that way also, when i trusted coworkers.
my neices were talking to me about this stuff too not too long ago and they were very upset as well. i tried to explain to them that this stuff happens and it does suck, but they have to just move on with life and dedicate their time to people who really are true to them and forget the ones that back stabbed them. it just happens unfortunately.
Word, thanks for your input. It is very upsetting, and I don't even think I've seen the worst of it yet, having not talked to them yet.
I've been working at my current job for about a year and half. Just got hired on when I graduated a couple months ago, I am starting to learn the way offices work, gossip-wise. I am a pretty open person, I have to really watch myself to stay quiet about some stuff.
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Lillian
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Word, thanks for your input. It is very upsetting, and I don't even think I've seen the worst of it yet, having not talked to them yet.
I've been working at my current job for about a year and half. Just got hired on when I graduated a couple months ago, I am starting to learn the way offices work, gossip-wise. I am a pretty open person, I have to really watch myself to stay quiet about some stuff.
you're welcome.
yes be careful of the gossip. stay the hell out of it...LOL! women are horrible with gossip...haha! but there are guys known to gossip too...LOL! yeah, i'd say be careful about it in the workplace.
hope all works out w/your friends and gf. keep us posted. good luck with it.