I think the most challenging thing about this whole process is not seeing bigger losses quickly. I recognize that its a long process but I wish I could speed it up.
Dude.......
You've heard me cover this before, but let me run it by you again, cause you need to hear & feel it.
In the beginning I wanted to do my own "Biggest Loser" thing and really blow my nutritionist away with a monumental big drop in the first couple months. I mountain biked for hours with sweat dripping from my helmet like a waterfall. I weight-trained with HEAVY weights, I ate lean, played racquetball and hit it hard!
After a month I went in for my check-up...I felt lighter, I looked leaner and I felt awesome! My nutritionist even plays a game where he tries to guess how much I lost. I was expecting 12 pounds (remember, this was neary one full month of dieting & massive cardio/exercise).....
I GAINED 1.5 POUNDS!!!!!!
I almost cried. Seriousy, I was crushed, depressed and I'm pretty sure my dick was about to fall off too. Yeah, it was bad.
Then Alan got out the body-fat% calipers....digital ones that he uses to take multiple pinches and he does it three times to get a safe average. Dude...
I LOST 2.8% BODY-FAT
Alan says it's very rare for a client to ever do this. By his calculations I had dropped a crap-load of actual FAT, but my apparent gain of weight on the scale was obviously the offset gain in muscle.
Honestly, I've had several meetings where my body-fat% would drop, but my weight would remain the same or even go up. Alan would sit there and say how awesome it was...but not me; I was fixated on that darn scale. I mean, what do people ask you when they learn you're dieting...."So....how much have you lost????"....ya know what I mean?
And then there's the other problem...I've managed to lose 45 pounds of fat, change my whole waredrobe twice and yet I still look in the mirror and wonder when I'm going to see a difference!
So there ya go dude....you may not see a difference and you may not have a weight-scale drop either. It's tough, depressing and hard....but this is your reality:
YOU WILL GAIN MUSCLE, LOSE FAT, LOOK BUCKET-LOADS THINNER, LEANER AND TRIMMER.....BUT YOU WON'T SEE, FEEL OR SENSE IT!!!!
You will swear that you work your ass off and do all the right things and yet nothing seems to happen. I don't believe in The Devil....but if he exists, THIS is his worst trick on fat people!
Ya want more? How's this feel: as you lose weight your body won't be plumped & bulging with fat...it'll be shrinking and getting smaller.....you skin will feel looser, your chin may look bigger, YOU'LL FEEL FATTER THEN EVER!
So what does this mean?
If you feel like nothing is happening and you actually feel fatter.....YOU'RE SUCCEEDING!!!!
I've now been at this for a year...and only now am I finally seeing & feeling the difference. My ultimate point is this: there is only ONE indicator you can safely allow yourself to assign any relevant importance...and that would be the body-fat% measure. Forget the scale, forget what you see & feel....you're flying blind into the weight-loss abyss. Trust yourself, be patient and stay the course. One day you'll see a hint of results in the mirror and it'll hit ya like a ton of bricks, but until that day I don't want you EVER to worry about results!
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