harassment when the shirt comes off

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corndogggy

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Here recently if it's a nice day and I'm running or mowing or whatever, I'll take my shirt off to get some sun, just as I always have, all my life. But now, other guys driving by in their cars are always yelling some kind of trash... "Nice boobs"... "put a shirt on"... and other degrading things along those lines while driving by. The only difference is that this year, even though I'm not huge by any stretch of the imagination, I'm pretty cut up, at least alot more than I used to be, with larger and more defined upper body muscles and a visible 6-pack.

The ironic thing is that this never happened when I was a fat slob. What's the deal? I'm catching tons more flak now than when I looked like hell. Actually back then I wasn't exposed to any of it, and now it's a regular thing. It's always guys too, I never hear anything from the ladies, good or bad. I don't know what to think, kinda gets to you after awhile.
 
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I didn't know you posted over here.

And it's a little something called jealously.
 
Take it as a compliment my friend.

There will always be jealous haters out there to try and make you feel bad about yourself simply because they are not happy in their own skin.

Always remember, people will knock what they don't understand or what they want to be but don't have the discipline to be.
 
corndogggy said:
The ironic thing is that this never happened when I was a fat slob. What's the deal? I'm catching tons more flak now than when I looked like hell. Actually back then I wasn't exposed to any of it, and now it's a regular thing. It's always guys too, I never hear anything from the ladies, good or bad. I don't know what to think, kinda gets to you after awhile.
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They're jealous. Tell them to say it while walking by, instead of driving by.
 
ha! I am fit to feel and live good. It's always nice when somebody acknowledges the fitness, but it matters not..

purpose!!!
 
Dude this post is hilarious. You have guys checking you out when you jog?? That is funny!! I will sometimes get a girl or two but never any guys.

So your sick of them shouting out the windows and I don't blame you...that's annoying. You hit it on the head with jealousy. Everyone wants what they don't have so they are obviously jealous. I can just about guarantee they wouldn't say a word if the guys were walking down the road. Next time I say you flip them off.
 
corndogggy said:
Here recently if it's a nice day and I'm running or mowing or whatever, I'll take my shirt off to get some sun, just as I always have, all my life. But now, other guys driving by in their cars are always yelling some kind of trash... "Nice boobs"... "put a shirt on"... and other degrading things along those lines while driving by. The only difference is that this year, even though I'm not huge by any stretch of the imagination, I'm pretty cut up, at least alot more than I used to be, with larger and more defined upper body muscles and a visible 6-pack.

The ironic thing is that this never happened when I was a fat slob. What's the deal? I'm catching tons more flak now than when I looked like hell. Actually back then I wasn't exposed to any of it, and now it's a regular thing. It's always guys too, I never hear anything from the ladies, good or bad. I don't know what to think, kinda gets to you after awhile.
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Yeah i kinda get the same thing. Alot more people try to push my buttons now and try to get me to fight, when that never use to happen at all.
 
corndogggy said:
Here recently if it's a nice day and I'm running or mowing or whatever, I'll take my shirt off to get some sun, just as I always have, all my life. But now, other guys driving by in their cars are always yelling some kind of trash... "Nice boobs"... "put a shirt on"... and other degrading things along those lines while driving by. The only difference is that this year, even though I'm not huge by any stretch of the imagination, I'm pretty cut up, at least alot more than I used to be, with larger and more defined upper body muscles and a visible 6-pack.

The ironic thing is that this never happened when I was a fat slob. What's the deal? I'm catching tons more flak now than when I looked like hell. Actually back then I wasn't exposed to any of it, and now it's a regular thing. It's always guys too, I never hear anything from the ladies, good or bad. I don't know what to think, kinda gets to you after awhile.
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They probably think you are being too full of yourself( showing off). Think about, what would you think if you saw a muscular guy half naked struting around outside? Think about your situation, it's like something out of chick flick.:D
 
Yeah maybe that's what they think, I dunno, but it's just not an uncommon thing around here. There's tons of rednecks around here, so mowing the yard or whatever without a shirt on just isn't exactly a new concept. :rolleyes: I even work at a nice place where we have to wear dress clothes and ties all day, yet the landscaping guys mowing the yard outside go shirtless and nobody seems to think anything about it. I've just never thought anything about it before. So, I'm not sure if I really should cover up my titties, or let them flop even more. :D
 
If you're obviously muscular then loads of men will find a reason to put you down so they feel better about themselves.
Since I bulked up from working out I get more sly glances from women but far more sly negative comments from men trying to pick a fault in me, like my body fat looks too high (it isn't) or I'm getting an imbalance (I'm not). I know they only do this because they can't understand why I can now suddenly bench twice their body weight and their workout of 500 curls and 1,000 crunches a day hasn't worked

Take every insult like that as a backhanded compliment and aim to get more of them everytime you go out. I bet even Mr Olympia gets called freak or fatty when he takes his top off in the street (by men driving off very fast in their cars no doubt)
 
some o my friends say i have nice man boobs and one litle wierd black kid flips my left nipple at school. wierd...
 
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