Yet another new person... it must be the start of the year.

Fat_Girl_Slim

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OK, here’s the shortened version:

Text book yo-yo dieting 43 year old here (in complete denial about my age). I am the mother of three kids aged 11, 6 and 5, I have struggled with my weight for, um, about 35 years now…

I have never been technically obese, but always on the well-rounded side. I managed to keep a handle on things until the babies came along. With my first pregnancy, I ate my way into 45 pounds of weight gain, mostly with a tub of ice cream (pralines and cream) per day. I lost most of that weight, although it took me a year. Of course I regained it all by the time DS1 was born, four years later and a third pregnancy shortly afterwards meant I never lost it again afer DS2 was born.

Since then I have done the textbook yo-yo thing for the last five years. I have done WW, OA, self-will, FitDay, gym, yoga, cycling, walking. I usually last for about one month of healthy eating and exercise, then just lose motivation overnight, mostly starting with a giant chocolate binge around PMT time.

I work. I run around after three kids and I am also at college at night, so find it really hard to squeeze in that exercise, except when it’s not term time. I was doing yoga three times a week, plus cycling into work, over the Summer until last September. Now I just manage to cycle the couple of miles to and from my office, three days a week, no more. I have lost all of my yoga tone and my belly now sits on my knees when I type.

I weighed myself yesterday (haven’t done so for a couple of months, as it’s too depressing) and I was 162 pounds. I am 5 foot, 3 inches and, despite what the tables say, my ideal weight would be 135-140lbs. If forced to set a goal, I would like to be 135lbs by 1st July 2008; that’s a weight loss of about 1.5lbs per week.

Sounds wonderful, doesn’t it?!
 
welcome aboard :)

Your story sounds alot like mine. 1.5 is totally reasonable!!!

you might want to start a diary, it'll help you keep track of your excersize and eating habits!

Again,welcome and let me know if you have any questions!
 
Thanks, thanks.

I am amazed that some people have over 3,000 posts in their weight-loss diaries. Incredible.

Do some people post in them every day? And look for feedback? Or do you think a diary is more of a self-motivation tool?
 
Hi Another New Girl ready for a Slimmer New Year

My name is Jessa. I plan to take charge of my weight at the New Year mark and hope for some noticible results by March when I am taking a ten day trip to Mexico.

I am 31 yrs old. I am a short girl (5'2") with a medium build. I am currently around 162 lbs. I have always been slightly overweight. I have lost major weight 2 times before. The first time was 6 years ago on weight watcher & a circuit training gym (I lost 30 lbs). The second time was a year and a half ago using fitday (counting calories) and body sculpt classes at the gym. That time I lost 40 lbs. Both times I felt sooo good but its only lasted about 3 months each time. I guess I felt all cute and skinny and just let it all slip (rewarding myself waaay too much with pizza and beer!) That last time I even wore a bikini (first time!!!) I'd really like to do that for my trip to Mexico.

Anyway, the plan is to start using my gym membership. Drink 8-10 gl water a day. Increase veggies, proteins and whole grains. Smaller portions. Track calories (I'll probably use Fitday). Increase general activity (less loafing in front of tv).

I'd love advice and support.

Smiles,

Jessa
 
Thanks, all.

I just got negative rep from someone (who maybe doesn't get irony) for my avatar.
You guys really know how to make a newcomer feel welcome around here (that's sarcasm, by the way).
 
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Welcome to the boards! I know exactly what you mean when you talk about yo-yoing. THat pretty much defines my eating habits since I got married at 19 yrs.(I'm now 38).

I have found the challenges particularly motivating as it serves as a distraction and helps to formulate newer & healthier habits usually. There is also a ton of information to explore. I have made a few friends since joining back in August, as I'm sure you will as well.

Your goal seems realistic and attainable to me. Are you following any particular eating plan?

As far as the rep rating, I wouldnt worry about that. To be honest, I don't know much about the how's/why's of the system at all LOL.

Good Luck!
 
Your goal seems realistic and attainable to me. Are you following any particular eating plan?

Good Luck![/FONT]

Thanks, yarmiah. I am really reluctant to pick one particular plan. For me, it's too easy to fail. I am back to counting calories again (most days) and mostly a balanced, healthy eating diet. Exercise is a real problem for me at the moment, though, as I am working on an assignment for college (practically night and day!). I plan to start up a Weight Loss Diary thread as soon as I'm done that.

Thanks for your support!
 
Tracking foods and staying within a certain limit is what I'm currently doing (well, not so much over the holidays, grrr)and I think is why I have had such lasting results. I hear FitDay.com is a great site, and I use a similiar one that is free with SELF magazine subscription.

I look forward to checking out yoru diary.
:hurray:

Feel free to stop by mine anytime: Yarm's No More Excuses!

 
Your blog reminds me of how similar all of our journeys are. I am also a serial yo-yo dieter. But I think it's time for a lifestyle change. A lifestyle that I can stick with through out my life, you know? When you wrote about having kids and weight gain, it really made me think about how we can live our lives independently and somewhat easily handle the weight situation. But then when different priorities, like spouses and children are introduced, it's hard to continue the same way. After my fiance and I dated for a while, I just stopped being a vegetarian which I'm sure is part of the reason for my weight gain. I realized though, that once we get married and have kids, being a vegetarian would be even more difficult unless I wanted to spend my whole life in the kitchen cooking. Lol.

So here's to finding that new and improved lifestyle that we can stick to and love everyday!
 
Welcome to the community.

I am amazed that some people have over 3,000 posts in their weight-loss diaries. Incredible.

I come here daily to help, be helped, and just check in with friends. I think you'll find there are great people here who truly care, so it's easy to get addicted to the community.

Do some people post in them every day? And look for feedback? Or do you think a diary is more of a self-motivation tool?

My diary is just a place for people to come ask questions or for friends to say hello.

I think people get better advice asking questions outside their diaries where everyone can see them in selected forums, like 'weight loss through exercise' for example.
 
After my fiance and I dated for a while, I just stopped being a vegetarian which I'm sure is part of the reason for my weight gain. I realized though, that once we get married and have kids, being a vegetarian would be even more difficult unless I wanted to spend my whole life in the kitchen cooking.

I was a vegetarian for 25 years and stopped about two years ago. People are usually shocked to hear that and immediately ask "...but why did you start eating meat again?".

The short answer is mainly because of huge cravings for meat during pregnancy, plus it just became so much easier when we were all eating the same type of food. I still do cook a lot of vegetarian food but, like yourself, I suspect I gained weight when eating meat again, Not really because of the meat, but just a generally more unhealthy diet overall. When you have kids, you pretty much spend your life in the kitchen, cooking, whether you are a vegetarian or not!

Sadly, the kind of meat I like is the worst kind: sausages (dear GOD, that smell...), bacon, burgers, etc. I'm not that pushed about the rest. I must say I find it hard to up my protein intake with healthy protein. Grilled (broiled) chicken breast is not very exciting.
 
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OK, here’s the shortened version:

Text book yo-yo dieting 43 year old here (in complete denial about my age). I am the mother of three kids aged 11, 6 and 5, I have struggled with my weight for, um, about 35 years now…

I have never been technically obese, but always on the well-rounded side. I managed to keep a handle on things until the babies came along. With my first pregnancy, I ate my way into 45 pounds of weight gain, mostly with a tub of ice cream (pralines and cream) per day. I lost most of that weight, although it took me a year. Of course I regained it all by the time DS1 was born, four years later and a third pregnancy shortly afterwards meant I never lost it again afer DS2 was born.

Since then I have done the textbook yo-yo thing for the last five years. I have done WW, OA, self-will, FitDay, gym, yoga, cycling, walking. I usually last for about one month of healthy eating and exercise, then just lose motivation overnight, mostly starting with a giant chocolate binge around PMT time.

I work. I run around after three kids and I am also at college at night, so find it really hard to squeeze in that exercise, except when it’s not term time. I was doing yoga three times a week, plus cycling into work, over the Summer until last September. Now I just manage to cycle the couple of miles to and from my office, three days a week, no more. I have lost all of my yoga tone and my belly now sits on my knees when I type.

I weighed myself yesterday (haven’t done so for a couple of months, as it’s too depressing) and I was 162 pounds. I am 5 foot, 3 inches and, despite what the tables say, my ideal weight would be 135-140lbs. If forced to set a goal, I would like to be 135lbs by 1st July 2008; that’s a weight loss of about 1.5lbs per week.

Sounds wonderful, doesn’t it?!

Sounds like you are a Compulsive Eater like me ...
I hate it! lol but we can do this!
I binged last night, but started off good this morning ...

You can do this .. write a diary up ...and I will check it out ...with other people there to support you it can really help ..

I was going to try OA ..but I read all the funky stuff about God and swayed away ..because it talks about how wrong you are ..thats a downer and just made me feel bad ..so that was a no no ..instead I have purchased three books ..one on info about Compulsive Eaters ...the second a cognitive hand book to work with me on controlling my eating and figuring out why I subconciously eat all that I do and go on random binges ..crazy stuff and I feel guilty all the time about it and I bought a journal/cognitive handbook ..the journal is so beautiful and I work well with journals I need to physcally write in ... you might want to try to cognitive angle ...

but I wish you the best and once you have that diary up .. I will bring support


always
natalie jo :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
 
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