I don't have a training partner and the gym is usually almost empty when I train, The only time I usually train with other lifters is when I make the 3 hour drive (each way) or so to the powerlifting club in the closest city to spend time with my coach. I like to participate in fitness classes (pump, etc.) but during school time I cant get into the gym at those times due to having to work around my kids special needs.
I am very competitive which a lot of people find a little intimidating and also find hard to keep up with the intensity I train at, again except when I make the drive to the powerlifting club.
Hubby is into his running and we have different workout styles for different fitness goals so when we are at the gym at the same times our workouts don't usually cross over except when I need to spot.
I supose lonely mabe not the right word but most people have little understanding of the stress of having 2 out of 3 kids with special needs and the dedication needed to succeed at a sport at a national level. I don't look like what most people consider to be an "Athlete" which is fine with me most of the time but like most on this forum there are areas of the body I would love to change.
I am also not saying that I don't have support but most of those that support me don't understand me and I am not the easiest person to get to know or get close to, On an intelectual level I know what I know and come across as very confident and self relient which I am in my own area's of expertise, and I don't need or look for confirmation of me or my abilities, but dealing with people and emotions is dificult.
for thost interested in personality typing I am an INTJ