The final countdown!

Nostalgic

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Hi all,

If you saw my post in the off topic thread, baby Owen has arrived
So my weight loss plan begins.
I have tried to make this as short as possible but wanted to include all info so I have broken it into sections. This will be my 4th weight loss 2 of which (including this time) were after pregnancy

My weight may fluctuate a bit due to producing milk etc for the next few weeks. I will start slowly as its still hard for me to move too much.

I have titled this "The final countdown" as once these kgs have gone... They are never coming back!!

Basics:

Age: 32
Healthy weight for me is between 60 and 68 kgs (132 - 149.6 lbs)
Start weight: 90.7 kgs (199.95 lbs)
Goal weight: 65 kGs (143 lbs) but eventually 63 KGs (138.6 lbs) those last few are always the hardest and longest to lose.
Height: about 168cm (5 foot 5)
Time frame: 12 months however this may be extended. My family comes first and if missing a weeks sport because my kids need me is what I will do.
Why: Well, I would be telling fibs if I said part of its not vanity. Healthier lifestyle, being able to run around with my kids easily enough.

History:

Right up until 20 I maintained a weight of about 68 kgs (149.6 lbs) until I entered a controlling relationship and ate to much junk to prove to myself I was in control of my life not him :-/
A year later I left him and was about 82 kgs (180 lbs). I didn't lose the weight and met my husband in nz with a few extra kgs on top of that.
After 6 months of being together I moved to France with him. Because we were living on one income for the first year, I had no money to buy chocolate or energy drinks so I dropped right down to 65 kgs (143 lbs). This was due to eating better due to restricted money and walking to and from my French classes every day including coming home for lunch.
I got a bit obsessive after this weight loss and felt fatter when I looked in the mirror and also lost my appetite for the first time in my life ( I don't even lose my appetite when sick) This weird and potentially dangerous phase lasted two weeks. I talked to a friend about it and said I didn't understand why I have to force myself to eat a yogurt and feel so fat when I'm so logically slimmer after all the weight loss. Hubby was supportive but he doesn't really get things like this. He's solely a logical thinker.
She helped me by forbidding me to weigh myself daily and got me back on track. I never considered myself a potential for an eating disorder and those two weeks had me freaked but it passed and I went back to normal.
As Omega said in one of her replies to someone else here that got me thinking..... My brain had probably not caught up with my weight loss. This makes sense to me. I'm just glad I was thinking logically and turned my thoughts and emotions round before it became an issue.

My next weight gain started a few months later when I started an office job,
Sitting on my butt all day, having lunch vouchers that made it easier to buy menus that included sugary desserts. Not waking up early enough for a proper breakfast and visiting the chocolate vending machine round 10 am ish.
Before I knew it I was at 78 kgs (171.6 lbs)
I decided to diet and over time went down to 68kgs (149.6 lbs) I wouldn't say it was the best diet as I wasn't getting the nutrition I needed. Most of my lunches were two slices of ham and a piece of fruit.

Next weight gain, my first pregnancy, after the birth I was 86kgs (189,2 lbs)
I saw a dietitian afterwards to help me lose the weight and focus on healthy eating in a better way than my last diet. I wanted to do it properly this time. After a year I was at 68 kgs (149.6 lbs) a few months later I got to 63 kgs (138.6 lbs)
I maintained this until my current pregnancy.
Baby is born and I'm 90.7 kgs (199.95 lbs) so I have 26 kgs (57.32 lbs) to lose.

Methods:

Same eating habits as my last diet provided by the nutritionist.
First month or two, a lot of walking and pelvic floor muscle exercises. I want to reach 10,000 steps a day. I will learn as I go as I'm not sure on my average. But what ever it is I will try and up it daily by 500 to 1000 steps until I get to the 10,000
Once the doc gives the ok to start more intense sports....
30 day shred DVD. I plan to do this 30 days straight so may extend it to 40 or 50 days as in the beginning I will need rest days until my body gets stronger and fitter. No more than one rest day at a time unless of course I'm sick.
I will go back to pole fitness 2/3 times a week, one class and 1 or 2 home practices (pole fitness was the thing I missed most while pregnant) as well as one session of aqua bike. Continue to monitor my daily steps also.
Stretching DVD to help get me flexible enough to do the side and middle splits.
A money box where 10 Euros goes in for every kg lost. An extra 5 Euros to go in if I lose 1 kg in a week. (1 kg = 2.2 lbs)
Wall charts. A graph with my weekly weight to see how its coming down. Food log and exercise log.
iPhone app for daily weight logging.
And of course this diary and forum which I have enjoyed being on. The people are nice, friendly, helpful and motivating.

My favorite excuses are....

- I'm a person who puts on weight easily.
- We should all be loved for who we are and not what we weigh (true, but its about being healthy not slim right)
- French are obsessed with being slim and I'm not French (I have issues there :-/ )

Weakness:

Sugar
Lazy by nature
Hate cooking

Advantage:

I did it properly after my first son was born
Motivated
Support from friends, family and this forum.

Wish me luck!
:)
 
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Congrats with baby Owen!

You've got a solid plan, I'm sure you'll succeed. Good luck!

Another advantage: Your diary, it's got its own theme song. When you're not having one of your best days, you can always put on "Europe - The Final Countdown" :D
That'll motivate you.
 
Thanks, little Owen is just adorable.

Yes! Great idea :D I'm going to download that song from iTunes.
Every time I want chocolate or pass a bakery, I will play that song. It's catchy also.
 
Oh you got the baby, congrats on the new family member!!
You have put a lot of thought in to your plan, I love the money box.
 
Thanks, he is a little bundle of joy.

I kept myself busy the last weeks of pregnancy by planning it lol :-/
But if I don't get obsessive my laziness will take over. I need constant reminders of my goal.
 
Put a paper on the wall where you live where there's motivational stuff :p

By the way, because of you I have this song stuck in my head :p
 
I would put motivation pictures in the metro if I could lol :D

Me too, lol I had to read the lyrics as the only lines I know are
"We're heading for Venus"
" it's the final countdown"
And in my head I go
" do do do to do" :cool:
 
We are doing great thanks.

My first day has gone well. I haven't done much but it's a start.
I didn't manage to get out but I was active during the day and cleaning and tidying up which I haven't done in a while.
I had to much bread but will be better tomorrow, I need to go to the supermarket for salad things.
I will start wearing my pedometer tomorrow as well.
 
Well done for starting with the positive steps... Starting to wear a pedometer tomorrow will be a brilliant move... I always wear mine. :)

We often say "baby steps" about such little positive changes... It is extra appropriate for you this week. :)
 
I demand you to change the name of this thread !!!!!!!! I've just whistled this melody !!!!

Just kidding, this is a great melody. :troll:
 
Congratulations on the new baby Nostalgic, your plan sounds real solid and I'm sure you will be able to lose that weight.
 
Lol, that's what did motivate me. The calories I would burn :D
I generally hate housework, no not generally I actually detest it!

Lol! You trolling me :p it is a catchy tune. They play it sometimes on VH1 and I can never help but get into it.
 
Congratulations on the new baby Nostalgic, your plan sounds real solid and I'm sure you will be able to lose that weight.

Thanks, it's going to be tough for me but I know I can do it.
I was craving sweet things today but didn't eat anything sweet, I got into the habit of having something sweet everyday while pregnant
 
Well done for starting with the positive steps... Starting to wear a pedometer tomorrow will be a brilliant move... I always wear mine. :)

We often say "baby steps" about such little positive changes... It is extra appropriate for you this week. :)

Thanks, yep, a small start but a start so im happy.
Baby steps, very appropriate. H has the cutest little feet *hugs him*
 
Hi Nostalgic. I really enjoyed reading your diary intro. Thanks for sharing that with us. You must be better with babies than I was to be so determined to fit in your planned exercise. Good for you! You made me feel nostalgic myself though at the thought of little baby feet. Our 2 sons are over 6' tall & in their 30's now & with very big feet, but that took me right back & I could clearly picture their little tiny toes.......I got side-tracked there! Just popped in to tell you I have weighed this morning! :( will report later in my diary, after I have ridden my exercise bike! Thank you for visiting my diary & offering support, xo Cate
 
Thanks,

Aren't babies toes just adorable. In their 30s, I bet you still worry... I always said to my mum " geeze you worry to much" her reply was always " when you have kids you will understand"
Yep, I sure do understand now.

I can fit in in solely because my hubby needs his sport and gets overly grumpy if he hasn't done any, he releases stress and energy this way. I make time for him so he has to make time for me :D
It just means we don't see much of each other during the week except wednesdays as one of us is home with the kids while the other is doing sport. Weekends are our time together as a family and our couple time is when we are walking the kids as we can talk a lot more when they are happily being pushed around Paris. We would like to get a regular baby sitter when Owen is a bit bigger so we can have a nice dinner out once every two weeks or something.
I will check your diary for your weight in, that sad face tells me your not happy but I'm sure it's not too bad.

Well, my first day was great as I seemed to have dropped a kg over night and weighed in at 89.4 (197 lbs).
This could be due to the milk I emptied out as well with the pump yesterday.
I am expecting though that the first 10 kgs will drop of before I know it and then it will get harder.
 
Good second day.

Steps = 4763 so I need to improve there but it's a start.
30 min walk, it was super hot and I was worried about Owen over heating in the push hair. His first doctors visit went well though and he's doing great.

Ate my oats for breaky for the first time with compot
I ate well all day. I had some friends over and instead of getting the usual crisps and biscuits I got a healthy snack pack of carrots, celery, baby tomatoes, cauliflower, radishes, I didn't even use the dip that came with it.

Musts for tomorrow

- drink more water, I didn't drink much today and no idea why as I do usually drink more. I think I only had about half a liter. I did drink two coke zeros as well with my friends.
I have a slight headache and I'm sure it was because of this.

- start my pelvic floor muscle exercises. This is a must as it can cause problems later for me. I was lazy with this after Lucien was born. I must do it this time more often!

- up my steps to 5200
 
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