Starting Over Again

Really busy day, but at least I stayed on track with the healthy eating. The conference I had to attend was pretty boring, but it did give me some ideas about career options I might pursue when I get to my goal weight and feel better about myself physically. My kids will all be in college and/or done with college in a few years and I will have complete flexibility to pursue whatever I want from a career perspective. That is VERY exciting for me, since I have had young kids and been limited in my options for 20 years now!!

Exercise options for tonight are limited, since we are getting torrential rain. I may just do weights and some stretching and try to just do lots of cardio tomorrow. I am really getting into this.

Breakfast: Cheese and crackers, fruit
Lunch: BBQ Chicken, veggies, rice, roll
Dinner: Turkey sub with LOTS of veggies, lowfat ice cream
 
Here's an article I wrote. If you want to talk later you can contact me at [spam email removed] . I will give you some pointers and a proven plan that will drop the weight for you! I promise, no snake oil!


A Blue Print for Safe, Rapid Weight Loss

You have probably tried many diets in your life time, and all of them perhaps lead back to where you started. Many weight loss plans are an end to itself. Here are a few I've tried, Atkins, Lemon Diet, boot camp style work outs.. The problem with these is that you eventually go back to your old habits of eating and have not developed any life long good eating habits. Oh sure, you will loose the weight but its only a matter of time before your back to your old ways. The more conservative approach is to eat sensibly and be more active. However most people will not archive results fast enough and give up. Let me speak for myself.... I need encouragement and results to continue on! I need a Plan!

The Plan = Control the quality and quantity of our energy intake!

First step in this plan is to FIRE YOUR old energy management system. So far it's done a pretty good job of getting you where your at today and he just has got to go! Once your can visually recognize what this old system has done to you over time, you will have no problems in giving it the BOOT.

You will need to revamp your old eating system (I call it your Fueling System). And we start this by changing the way we fuel your energy system. (BTW, by doing this you can lose 2-5lbs per week) And here are the 2 main objectives we are going to take to do it:

1.Control your energy intake
2.Managing your insulin pump.

For the main objective - Control your energy intake.

Look around and take notice what foods we are fueling our bodies with; Breads, pastas, processed foods (processed foods? Why are those a bad choice? More on that later), candy bars... oh my. These particular foods cause our blood sugar to rise dramatically which makes our insulin rise. These high glycimic foods (foods that are high in sugar content) are converted to energy and any left over energy is then turned to FAT! The more of these you eat, the fatter you get because you cant burn off the excess energy fast enough for it not to be converted to fat. You in short become a great processing center to convert leftover energy to FAT.

Manage your Insulin Pump! Fuel up 6 times a Day

In a recent study, 2 groups of people were studied. The first ate 3 big meals per day and the other ate 6x smaller meals per day. Both groups at the same foods, same calories. Surprisingly (or maybe not) the group who ate 6x a day lost more weight. Why? It seems their blood sugar did not spike continually causing a insulin rush to convert sugar to energy and then left over energy to fat. The moral of story? Your body can only absorb so much energy at a time and any left over goes to FAT.

It seems our young kids have it right! Their bodies are telling them to eat small snacks throughout the day.. What is their bodies telling them? Fuel me up every couple of hours so I have energy to use, but not enough to covert to fat. Of course that has gotten a little out of hand because we are feeding our kids high glycimic sugary foods that exceed their energy needs thus making the insulin pump turn on to 'overdrive' causing those excess calories to be turned to fat! WE now have FAT kids.... this can be changed to once you understand how to fuel up your body!

Jim Allen, Health Coach
 
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Been away for a while, but I actually made it through the holidays without too much damage. I have lost a total of 5 pounds, which leaves 55 left to go. After too many holiday gatherings, I am finally done. Tomorrow I am back on track with no excuses for not sticking with my plan. I plan to track all my food choices on here in hopes that having to write it all down will keep me from going out of control. I am also planning to stop eating out every day at lunch. That is going to be really tough for me, since I dine out with a few co-workers every day and have for YEARS. I want to use my lunch hour to get in a walk when the weather permits, but I definitely need to start bringing my lunch to save money and remove the temptation of eating out. This is going to be a HUGE behavior modification for me, but it is something I need to do at least for the a while.

I have to do this....

Jan
 
OH, your names Jan huh?? my MIL's name is Jan :D

Congrats on your -5lbs!! How are you doing w/ getting back to the diet??
 
I am trying really hard to get myself psyched to kick butt tomorrow. Just this week I learned of a potential job opportunity that could come my way by summer. It would be the opportunity of a lifetime - one that could be very challenging for me and also very, very financially lucrative. I don't think I would have the confidence to leave my current position (which is very stable and secure) and take a risk on this great opportunity unless I can lose the weight first. I honestly think this could be a life-changing year for me, but I HAVE TO LOSE THE WEIGHT. It is such a huge stumbling block for me personally and professionally.

I need all the support I can get on this. It's strange that I am looking for support from a group of people that I do not know and will probably never meet, but I guess we all share the common bond of dealing with weight, food, and fitness issues.

I hope we all make 2010 the year that we put the weight struggles behind us. I really look forward to going through an entire day without thinking about my weight!!

Let's do this...
 
One whole day with no soda. I feel like a junkie giving up his drugs!! I have been tempted a couple of times, but I plan to make it through the first six months of 2010 with NO SODAS just to prove I can (and cut all those empty calories too!). I have done well on food today AND I walked for almost an hour while my daughter and her friend shopped. Not bad for the first day of 2010.

Now I need to go cook a healthy dinner for us all and finish taking down all my Christmas decorations. I have to keep myself busy to keep my mind off FOOD for this 6 month journey...

One day down. 179 to go. I can do this.... I WILL do this...
 
Woohoo!!! I am down to 239 this morning - haven't seen the 230's in at least a year!! It is very encouraging to drop 3 pounds in the first two days, but I know it won't continue at that pace for long. I just have to find ways to keep myself motivated.

54 pounds to go!!
 
Not a bad day overall. I wasn't able to exercise as much as I wanted because it is SOOOOOO cold here, but I did pretty well on food. And still NO SODAS. It actually wasn't as difficult today as yesterday. Once I get through a week or so, I don't think I will miss sodas at all.
 
One more day on target. I ate healthy and exercised for over an hour. And STILL NO SODAS. Each day of the no soda deal is a little easier than the day before, although going back to work tomorrow will present a bit of a challenge on the sodas and the healthy eating. We'll see how well I do at eating healthy at lunch each day. I really, really, really want to do this. I MUST do this.

3 days down. 177 to go.

6 pounds down. 54 to go. I just realized I am 10% of the way to my goal!!
 
4 days down. 176 to go. I did really well at work - no sodas, healthy snacks. Now I just need to find time to squeeze in a 15 minute walk in the morning and in the afternoon in addition to my exercise at night and I will be SMOKIN'. It's funny how you plan to lose weight and you plan to lose weight and then one day you just do it. I don't know what has motivated me this time, but it is definitely working. I am so, so psyched about losing the weight and getting back into shape. I want to do this BEFORE I experience all the health effects of the weight - the high blood pressure, the diabetes, the heart issues, etc.

2010 is MY YEAR...
 
5 days down. 175 to go. No sodas. 1500 calories per day. At least one hour of exercise per day in some form. I am getting in the groove. Tonight we ordered pizza and I had one slice of veggie pizza. I also had two pieces of fruit, lowfat yogurt, and lots of other healthy stuff today. It's funny that I already have more energy after just a few days of really eating healthier and no sodas.

And then I rode the bike for 45 minutes. The bike will be my fallback for those days when it is too cold and/or rainy to do anything outside. I read a magazine while riding, which really makes the time pass faster. Sometimes I will probably listen to music instead. With a 20 minute walk at work and a 20 minute walk with the dog before bed, I will be well over my one hour of exercise for today.

I am only going to weigh myself on Mondays, so no weight update, but my clothes are getting looser already. I am at least 7 pounds down. My goal is to be 15 pounds down by the end of January. That would put me in the 220's again or at a minimum at 230. I can hardly wait!!
 
7 days with no sodas. I was very tempted this afternoon, but I resisted and had tea instead. I have had a really good week foodwise and not bad on exercise. I have not exercised today, but I think I am going to let this be my one day off for the week. My ankle hurts for some reason, although I will have to go walk the dog for a mile or so. Tomorrow I will do the bike for an hour and maybe walk a little, but I think my ankle needs a break today. Next week I am planning to get into a regular routine of two 15 minute walks at work, one at home (to walk the dog) and either a 45 minute walk or bike ride most evenings. I also need to hit the grocery for more fruit, veggies, and low-fat yogurt. Once I get to 220 I will increase the weight training to build more muscle.

7 days down. 173 to go. Haven't weighed since Monday, but hopefully I will see a good loss next Monday. Gotta keep it together over the weekend!!
 
8 days down. Still no sodas. Still doing well on the food and okay on exercise. This weekend I plan to get in some serious exercise and next week I plan to get into a more consistent routine with the exercise every day. I think I also need to set myself up some rewards for hitting milestones. 60 pounds seems a long ways away, but the first 10 is really close. Maybe some reward for every 10 pounds would work.

I think I may do some more intense weeks sprinkled in too just to mix things up. This upcoming week may be one of my more intense weeks. Really cut the calories and up the exercise and see what happens. I'm not sure I could do that all the time, but one week a month might be doable.
 
Inspirational.

Just read through your diary from beginning to now.

It's really inspirational. Thanks for sharing it.
 
Thanks, Bob. This is something that I have to do, but it really is tough. My eating habits are greatly improved and I am exercising more, but the weight is slow to budge. I just need to keep trying different combinations to find what works for me right now. The tactics that have worked in the past are just not going to work for me now. My body is not responding the way I expected it to.

Oh well, gotta keep plugging along and make this happen...
 
Sounds like you're doing pretty good! The weight will come off. If you're like me it'll be erratic and jump down then stall for weeks, then jump down more. Best of luck on no soda. I'm drinking pretty much only water and milk now ... and I feel sooo much better.
 
You are right. It's a slow process, but the numbers are going down and I can really tell a difference in my clothes. I think I have discovered one of the keys for me. On Wednesday I started breaking my daily exercise up into two sessions, one during the day and one in the evening. It really seems to be helping me to burn more calories. Now I just have to keep this up.

I am still struggling with eating lunch out with co-workers while keeping the calorie count at an acceptable level, but giving up the soda has been pretty painless after the first few days. And you are right, I do feel much better. I think the caffeine/sugar rush was making my blood sugar skyrocket and then plummet an hour later. I have replaced the sodas with fruit for the most part and also high fiber cereal bars.

Although I haven't lost as much as I wanted to at this point, I can honestly say that I am exercising more and making much better food choices. It may take longer than I had hoped, but I am definitely on the right track. I also had my first 'have you lost weight?' comment from a friend that I don't see often this week. That was a definite ego-booster...
 
Another good day, although I feel like I didn't drink enough water. It was sort of hectic and I kind of forgot for a lot of the day. I also ate a couple slices of pizza for dinner, and I wish I had eaten something lighter.

The scale finally budged a little - one more pound down, although it seems like I have had to work awfully hard for that one pound. On a more positive note, I have lost one inch from my waist which is the easiest place for me to see results. I think I will do my measurements once every two weeks for a little added encouragement.

Two more weeks before the end of the month, and I want to lose 3 more pounds in that two weeks. I bought myself a new pair of sneakers tonight and some good socks for longer walks. Back to work on Tuesday, and I am going to try to get in 30-45 minutes every day at lunch in addition to the exercise at home.

Some days the exercise and watching what you eat just gets old. I am trying to keep it interesting with different kinds of food and exercise, but today it just felt like a chore!!

Gotta keep going. I watched the Biggest Loser last night and was so grossed out that people could let themselves get to that point. And then I realized a normal sized person could say the same of me!! That really made me realize that I HAVE to do this!!
 
Still plugging along... Exercising more, eating better, pounds are slowly dropping. Two things I realized today -

1) I need to find a workout buddy. I walked for about an hour with my daughter this afternoon, and it was so much better than exercising alone. I am not sure how to go about finding someone to work out with that will be at a similar enough fitness level that we can do this together. I will have to give that one some thought...

2) I need to put more thought and effort into food choices next week. I need to go at this 100% to make it happen. It is the only way that I will ever get to 185 pounds by July. On my current plan, I will lose weight slowly but I also think I will get tired of this long before I get to my goal weight. I need to just suck it up and do this intensely. More protein, lower carbs, high intensity longer duration workouts. Eating out at lunch HAS to go. I have been procrastinating on this, but it is time to just do it.

On Monday, I am going to start taking my lunch every day and walking for 30-45 minutes instead of going out with the guys. It will be difficult. They will be disappointed. We will all survive!!

Still shooting for 235 by February 1st. Only 2 pounds to go...
 
Woo Hoo!!!! I hit the 10 pound mark almost a week earlier than planned. The longer duration workouts are really melting the pounds. Now I just need to get myself mentally adjusted to exercising for more than an hour at a time. Other than a couple of 20k walks over the years, I have never exercised for more than 30-45 minutes at a time. Then again, if 3 or 4 one hour plus workouts per week is all it takes for me to lose 2-3 pounds a week, I am definitely onboard with the idea!!

235. Haven't seen that weight in about 3 years. Hopefully I will be leaving it in the dust soon... Next goal is 225 by March 1st, at which time I will definitely have to buy a few new clothes. I will try not to buy too much until I get to my final goal weight, but it will be motivating to buy a few smaller items along the way! Like everyone else, I have a closet full of clothes in a variety of sizes from the weight "climb". I'll just get to revisit them one more time on the way back down...
 
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