Cate
Long term member
It sucks that we still have rampant misogyny & basically, it sounds like you are being asked to be more "girly"(?) That is so difficult when you know that you get people to take more notice when you are assertive(as distinct from aggressive). I think we all get sick to death of walking this fine line. I was told I played golf like a man by one of the women & I think she meant it as an insult. I'm still not sure.