Sara06 said:
HELP!!! drowning in self pitty! Why can't I be thin, big breasted and beautiful? I'm off to go cry now...
Ok, I'm not going to be too harsh here. Because God knows I have allowed myself a self-pity day or seven.. However.. Why can't you be thin, big breasted and beatiful? First off, because you know what God made you as you are. Second off, who says you aren't beautiful just as is?
I think I remember you mentioned having an eating disorder in another thread. Well if I understand correctly, the main root of all eating disorders is self-image, self confidence issues. You need to take a big deep breath and stop the self-pity. Look at yourself as a whole. So your abdominal muscles aren't rock hard, and your breasts aren't the size C or D you desire. You are still a good person, you still have what is it, three beautiful children, a loving husband right?
So you have some weight to lose. Its not that much, and you CAN lose it. You WILL lose it. However, sitting at your computer and crying because your stomach isn't flat as you desire, certainly is not going to make it magically become flat.

You gotta get angry, you gotta work for it!! No such thing as a free lunch..and no such thing as a free six pack of abs!!!
The real issue at hand here is... when are you ever going to be happy? Will being at a size 1 really get you there? What is going to satisfy you? Those are the things you need to answer, and I bet they have nothing to do with your clothing size.
I hope.. this helped some, just to shed a little light on things. And I hope I didn't offend you any. I Just see you post a lot of supportive comments to Bjork and you need to listen to your own words. You need to find what really is going to make you happy... and I hope you do soon.

We all love happy members here!!
