"Niapage's"Out with the old In with the New"

Man, I don't post for a while and look what I miss. Congrats Tammy. I can understand not being totally thrilled with the news specially during the difficulties in the marriage but from being there and knowing what its like I know that you'll love this baby just as much as you do your other little ones. I too am hoping for a little princess but will be just as happy with a baby boy. Your due a 5 weeks after I am. So at least we get to do this somewhat together. The whole keeping the weight down and being preggo at the same time. I hope we can chat and talk about the preggo thing when you have time and hope your not feeling too bad with the pregnancy. I am almost 13 wks and can't wait till i can find out what this baby is. my mom is convinced the baby is a girl based on what i have been craving but i have a feeling the baby is a boy only cause i keep wanting all boy things not little girl stuff. anyways. congrats and hope to chat soon. take care hugs.

heather
 
i know you've been through this multiple times before...but here is a website that I really liked about pregnancy and how the baby develops:



it shows how the baby develops each week. Its interesting...though you probably know it like the back of your hand by now.
 
Awww Ty all bunches!!Heather thats cool and I will get on chat during the day when kids are in school.
TY BH for the chart that really helped me get into the mood again,lol I have my moments but I am strating to get very happy,altho I havent shared this with anyone but hubby and I have split again and its been like 4-5 days and lots of drama,I will update more later,Tammy
 
oh man, you really are going through the wars. Take care of yourself as best as you can, and remember, it could always be worse.

Friend of mine was married to an abusive guy, lost custody of her 2 kids and they went into foster care. she left the guy and fought for the next 8 years to get them back. Finally got them back.Now a year later the oldest one had sex, thought she had an STI so went to somebody, didnt want to admit to having sex because she was ashamed, so said that her step father (my friends new husband) raped her.
She admitted that she fibbed now, however the govt now gave my friend the ultimatum 'you leave your husband and never see him again and raise your kids at the other end of the country, or you loose the kids and never see them again'.
The kicker is, her husband (the step father) is a really cool awesome dude, who was trying to join the police force and has been training hard for the last 6 months or more. His dream of being in the police is over, hes been assumed guilty and there wasnt even a trial.
 
Niapage,

Ahh man you are going through so much!:grouphug: Your posts sound so strong though, which is sooooo great! What ever happens I know you will be strong enough to deal with it.

How are your kids handling all of this back and forth stuff, and the pregnancy do they know yet... Gees, I am amazed at how you are handling this. Let us know when you can how you are doing...
 
wishes said:
oh man, you really are going through the wars. Take care of yourself as best as you can, and remember, it could always be worse.

Friend of mine was married to an abusive guy, lost custody of her 2 kids and they went into foster care. she left the guy and fought for the next 8 years to get them back. Finally got them back.Now a year later the oldest one had sex, thought she had an STI so went to somebody, didnt want to admit to having sex because she was ashamed, so said that her step father (my friends new husband) raped her.
She admitted that she fibbed now, however the govt now gave my friend the ultimatum 'you leave your husband and never see him again and raise your kids at the other end of the country, or you loose the kids and never see them again'.
The kicker is, her husband (the step father) is a really cool awesome dude, who was trying to join the police force and has been training hard for the last 6 months or more. His dream of being in the police is over, hes been assumed guilty and there wasnt even a trial.
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WOW That is a sad story...:+( Thats one thing I refuse to let the kids see us argue or any other tramatic thing,I grew up in such a horrible abbusive (in more ways than one)household until I was 15 then got a job quit school at 16 and been on my own since and besides not finishing school I am happy the way I turned out specially as a MOTHER I am so oppisite of my parents.

WELL here it is mothers days and pigging out on leftover goodies from my girls first REAL slumber party lastnight and NEVER AGAIN lmao I hadmy aunt stay all night to help and my 16 year old sister lives with me now and she is a huge help but wow my aunt got my brother N law and her 16 year old son to sneak through my basement wearing the "SAW" mask and scared the living crap out of them plus all the cupcakes and brownies they stayed up until 3 am and up at 7 am OMG I am a zombie today but it was fun and stressfull lol,catfights,name calling,I did get all 9 girls to sit at the table and make mothers day cards and bracelets,we had pizza played outside it was just hectic the later It got,I also invited a couple neices that were 4 year olds so yeah 4-9 lol!!!HAVE A HAPPY MOTHERS DAY AND I WILL BE BACK MONDAY TO UPDATE THE REST,,,...TY FRIENDS AND HUGGGS
 
Oh Tammy, I haven't checked in for a while, and look what I'm missing. Congratulations on the new babe, I hope things are still looking positive for you in that direction. As to the husband thing, I'm sure you will do whatever is best for the kids, and yourself. Sometimes it means staying and working things out, and sometimes it doesn't. As you know, I left my ex when I was 6 months pregnant, and despite the worries about money and being alone, it was the best thing I ever did.
 
wow pregnant and a sleep over no thanks. I'm sure i'll have my hands full once the baby gets here as it is. lol ds is such a momma's boy that its hard to do anything without him having to be right by my side. ok gotta go alex is calling talk to you soon. hugs, heather
 
Just checking in on ya Tammy...hope all is well!!

you know I'm in the middle of my..."omg, am I preggy" scare myself...yikes! lets hope not!!!

Anyways, I miss my friend, I hope you come around to say hi sometime soon!
 
Sorry to hear you and H are apart again. But I will understand if you don't get back together. I think he needs to grow up. Just take care of yourself right now. Try to keep the stress as low as you can--not that it's easy, I know. You're a tough cookie, so I know you'll come out of this just fine. What doesn't kill ya only makes you stronger, right? :D

*Big hugs*
 
The slumber party sounded like fun for the kids, how cute! I love that you helped them make cards and bracelets. You're amazing!

Thanks for stopping by my diary and saying hello. I know you are really busy right now and I wish you all the best. You're strong and you can do this!! Hugs!!
 
Your plan sounds like a good one. the only reason I have had so 2 u/s already is cause of spotting that i had which lead to them finding a part of the placenta not fully attached like it should be which then lead to bedrest. lol anyways all is well with baby and everything now so my next ultrasound won't be till the one where we find out the gender of this little one. i'm so hoping for a girl but if i have another boy then we are outta luck cause i'm only having 2 kids no more then that. i don't think i could handle more then 2. lol talk to you soon. hit me up on yahoo or msn anytime. or if you want i can give you my cell number or i can call you and we can chat that way too.
 
Moonwalker!

Well tomorrow is (saturday) is the official b-day party for my girls I always do something big so I rented a huge castle moonwalker bouncy weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I am even excited I figured I can hop around lightly but no flips obviously lol. My point is "SUNDAY is back on track day for me as far as eating healthy cuz I gained 4 lbs almost 5 and I am only 8 weeks preggers so no reason to let myself go!I have been under a tremendous amount of stress and noticing that I am using FOOD for comfort and I dont want to go that way again!So I am coming up with a plan and I am off to google things lol,TAMMY
 
Hiya Tammy!

You sound like such a fun mom. I think when we have issues in our past we try to not repeat them with our own children. The sleepover (though I'm sure annoying at times) will be one of those things your kiddos will remember later on... and the moon bouncing thing ... that sounds like so much fun for a bday party.

I continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts.
 
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