New Year, New Thread for Those who Weigh 200 lbs/90 Kg or More

[veronandez86]

Natalie Jo,

My mother is a first impression person. She is totally in love with one of my friends. She even tells me that I need to marry him. LoL. I think she just likes that he's a country boy. Grew up on a farm, owns his own horses, dresses like a cowboy. Actually, he is a CowBoy and Ex-Marine. LoL... so of course my mom loves him. But she also wants me to marry the guy I work with... Rob. Told me once that I needed to move to a country where I can have 2 husbands, LoL, so that she can have both of them as son in laws. But my mom figures she raised me right and any guy that I bring home to meet her is a good one, so no 'redflag' grilling.

Anyway, my mom's mother-in-law, the most evilist old lady I've ever met, asks tons of questions like your mother. But what she does is worse in my opinion. She will ask you a question and if she doesn't like what you have to say she will ask you again in a different way. OMG.. there have been times that I have answered the same question 50 times, I swear, and she will just keep on rephrasing it until she gives up or you feed her the answer she wants.

Oh, why do I think my grandmother-in-law is EVIL !! Because ever since she met me when I was 10 she always called me FAT. She asked me one day why I wasn't as skinny as her grandaughters and I would think it would be obvious... I'm 5'9 and her grandaughters are barely 5'0!! I was wearing a dress my grandmother gave me before she died and Evil Grandmother said, "Oh that dress is nice on you, it covers up your fat." And every time I see her she makes me cry. She's a compliment and insult u in the same sentence kind of woman. 100% Pure EVIL

Ooops... sorry, I trailed off and started ranting about my grandmother-in-law.

Veronica

 

[nataliejo]

Natalie Jo,

My mother is a first impression person. She is totally in love with one of my friends. She even tells me that I need to marry him. LoL. I think she just likes that he's a country boy. Grew up on a farm, owns his own horses, dresses like a cowboy. Actually, he is a CowBoy and Ex-Marine. LoL... so of course my mom loves him. But she also wants me to marry the guy I work with... Rob. Told me once that I needed to move to a country where I can have 2 husbands, LoL, so that she can have both of them as son in laws. But my mom figures she raised me right and any guy that I bring home to meet her is a good one, so no 'redflag' grilling.

Anyway, my mom's mother-in-law, the most evilist old lady I've ever met, asks tons of questions like your mother. But what she does is worse in my opinion. She will ask you a question and if she doesn't like what you have to say she will ask you again in a different way. OMG.. there have been times that I have answered the same question 50 times, I swear, and she will just keep on rephrasing it until she gives up or you feed her the answer she wants.

Oh, why do I think my grandmother-in-law is EVIL !! Because ever since she met me when I was 10 she always called me FAT. She asked me one day why I wasn't as skinny as her grandaughters and I would think it would be obvious... I'm 5'9 and her grandaughters are barely 5'0!! I was wearing a dress my grandmother gave me before she died and Evil Grandmother said, "Oh that dress is nice on you, it covers up your fat." And every time I see her she makes me cry. She's a compliment and insult u in the same sentence kind of woman. 100% Pure EVIL

Ooops... sorry, I trailed off and started ranting about my grandmother-in-law.

Veronica

Veronica,
I feel for you on the grandmother thing. My real grandmother is so bad. All she thinks is of how fat people are and she hates fat people. So my sister and I are obese, liz has lost seventy pounds although.. WOW does she look beautiful, I have more to go lol but not focusing on the end, but the next eight pounds, anyway so she will make remarks through out dinner, tell you whether you look like you have lost weight ect

Once she even told me I needed to get control, because I looked my chest was a barrel, I was smaller than I am now, and my figure it coming back ..a barrel my butt... in proper language lol but I try to avoid her at all costs. and when I do see her, I am reminded why I never see her, but the holidays suck that way, because than we meet them for dinner one night to eat in order for thanksgiving, not on the day, but in a restaurnat a few weeks before, and than a few weeks before Christmas we get together again . ... She is always on the insult list... except when she actually notices you have lost weight ... she says wow you have lost weight, but she notices if you put a few back on the next time, so she is like ... wow you gained weight, Natalie you need to get control over this!! etc etc etc. She probably does care, but she gets me all in a bunch. I am so mixxed up on how I feel about her. She just throws the insults so well. It really hurt when she told me I looked like a barrel .. I still can picture her that day ..

but u know what ... I just avoid, which probably isnt the answer...but we arent very well liked by the rest of the family, plus they are racist disgusting people, so it would be bad for Peter to meet them. I wouldnt want to put him through that... u know

well ttylater hun
love yas
always
your friend
natalie jo

 

[veronandez86]

Oh, I avoide my grandmother-in-law like the crazy. When we go down to San Jose I always make sure I got plans so that I dont have to go see her. But the good thing is, I am only obligated to go visit her when my step-dad comes down.

Get this, I have been in her family for 12 years and I got one present from her out of my whole life... it was a cheap pink bath towel for Christmas. However my mom's gift from her was classic. My mom got a christmas present from her a couple years ago and it was a canned ham!!



My real Granma was awesome. She always bought me cute clothes and she always tried to get me to wear earings. She would say that the first thing a guy notices on a girl is her earings and face. LoL. Wish that was true now. My family never really said anything about my weight. Only my Step Dad's family. But you gotta consider, his family is full of short, skinny, Filippina's and me being a tall Mexican, of course our body types will be different.

My Step-Grandmother-In-Law is dumb tho. She told me that I have a pretty face but I'd be beautiful if I was skinny. That was the reason why I didn't have a boyfriend. Well, I've had my share of guys but she's so stupid that she doesn't believe me. Said that if I did ever have a boyfriend she would have met him and talked to him. Hell no she aint talking to anyone I'm with or know. She is just so rude, rude. Plus, I'm afraid she'd be the one to scare off my future boyfriend. LoL.

 

[nataliejo]

Oh, I avoide my grandmother-in-law like the crazy. When we go down to San Jose I always make sure I got plans so that I dont have to go see her. But the good thing is, I am only obligated to go visit her when my step-dad comes down.

Get this, I have been in her family for 12 years and I got one present from her out of my whole life... it was a cheap pink bath towel for Christmas. However my mom's gift from her was classic. My mom got a christmas present from her a couple years ago and it was a canned ham!!



My real Granma was awesome. She always bought me cute clothes and she always tried to get me to wear earings. She would say that the first thing a guy notices on a girl is her earings and face. LoL. Wish that was true now. My family never really said anything about my weight. Only my Step Dad's family. But you gotta consider, his family is full of short, skinny, Filippina's and me being a tall Mexican, of course our body types will be different.

My Step-Grandmother-In-Law is dumb tho. She told me that I have a pretty face but I'd be beautiful if I was skinny. That was the reason why I didn't have a boyfriend. Well, I've had my share of guys but she's so stupid that she doesn't believe me. Said that if I did ever have a boyfriend she would have met him and talked to him. Hell no she aint talking to anyone I'm with or know. She is just so rude, rude. Plus, I'm afraid she'd be the one to scare off my future boyfriend. LoL.

Totally feel you on that one V... its crazy...
the grandmother who was always affectionate and was awesome died about three years ago. I was totally and completely heartsick, so sad, the one that sucks butt is alive and kicking and likes to bring misery lol
but I guess I have to be more accepting of her senile ways, wait she has always been like this! lol oh well ..its a running joke now in my family ..that is not actually age, she just has always been a really big b***!

oh well
ttylater hun
love yas
always
your friend
natalie jo

 

[nataliejo]

Hey gals and guys,
I am sick. Its 73 degrees and I am freezing cold, wrapped in one of my blankets and dressed warm. My date did not happen, no show, but probably better off that way seeing as I am sick.. now I am just left wondering why he hasnt contacted me and why he is not here ..hmm

cross your fingers its a good excuse

love yas
always
natalie jo

my mother is already feeding me this .... I think you should forget about this guy ...

peeps I really dig this guy, he probably has a good reason for not coming up, so I am going to give him a chance...

I dont understand her..this is not a red flag, this happens.. oh well

well love you all
always
natalie jo

 

[pink clouds]

i need a #### vacation

 

[ali2]

i need a #### vacation

I HEAR YOU SISTER - AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[nataliejo]

I dumped Peter. I couldnt take the barely talking bit and he didnt come up today or contact me to tell me he wasnt coming nore after the fact. So I told him we could be friends, so thats about it. Alex is coming up tonight, we might do the naughty, but I am not attached ..he understands me better than most. He was a jerk for a bf, but he is great as a friend. We are going to the beach tomorrow and I am going to walk the whole beach and we are going out to eat, but it is not a date and we are not getting back together. We are just keeping each other company for now ... its seems the best thing for me right now

well ttylater
love yas
natalie jo

 

[pink clouds]

I like your style Nataliejo. When I used to date, I put up with zero foolishness from men..ZERO!! It earned me a stalker for three years which was a bit unpleasant...but hey I stood up for what I believed in. Man just remembering those three years. And two years after he finished stalking me he saw me at a gas station and groped me and if you know anything about me...I do not put up with that!!! Stalked me for THREE years and I only dated him for 2 weeks!! What a loser!

Sorry....went off on a bit of a tangent there! But cheers to you hun Have a great night

 

[Hope2]

Hey guys!

I want a vacation too, pink! Gees! I am so soar today, the good kind though. I did the wieght machine at my mom's house this weekend. It's my little brothers. Oh and I found a jump rope that he doesn't use (it was covered in spidder webs), so I found out that I still got it! I can actually jump rope, pritty fast too, and that was a total dam suprise! So I was jump roping a lot yesterday! I brought it home, so I'm going to have that as part of my cardio workout now... Which has got to be good, boxers even jumprope, lol...

Went to the beach today with my kids, and it was great! The waves were pritty wild though. They were little fish today, they took a dip in the pool, when we got home! Not me it's to cold, but soon, that will be great to jump in after a work out!

I have never dated in my life, so I don't know how it works. If I did date though I wouldn't ever put up with any crap. But a long term relationship is soooo very different. Crap gets spoon fed to me. It doesn't matter if I'm married or divorced at this point. It will still be fed to me, because I'm as perminent in his life as his own mother.

My moms been listening to the stuff I learned here and on the web and she's also been folowing it and seeing great results! And my step sister is wanting to jump on board too! So this makes me totaly happy! My daughter sees the change in my waist and she said, umm mom you aren't going to look better then me are you..lol.. She's sweet, lol, that could never happen!

 

[Kevi12]

I need a vacation too! Both my knees are in pain, well my right is not really the knee, but around it and it sucks!
Anyone here gonna start running since its starting to get warmer Specially here.

 

[Hope2]

Running Kevi did you say ummm Running! I can't run! I can walk, fast, and some short jog type movments, but run! lol... My knees can't take that kind of inpact yet, to much weight. Now Running is one of my goals, I want to be able to run, and I've made a disishion.. When I get close to my ideal weight I want to get into dance class again. I want to dance, like I used to, and I didn't even know I wanted to untill I started feeling that nice burn in my muscle... It's been warm here in Florida all year, I swear we had like no winter this year! But walkings good and I like takeing walks outside.

 

[pink clouds]

Hey guys!

I want a vacation too, pink! Gees! I am so soar today, the good kind though. I did the wieght machine at my mom's house this weekend. It's my little brothers. Oh and I found a jump rope that he doesn't use (it was covered in spidder webs), so I found out that I still got it! I can actually jump rope, pritty fast too, and that was a total dam suprise! So I was jump roping a lot yesterday! I brought it home, so I'm going to have that as part of my cardio workout now... Which has got to be good, boxers even jumprope, lol...

Went to the beach today with my kids, and it was great! The waves were pritty wild though. They were little fish today, they took a dip in the pool, when we got home! Not me it's to cold, but soon, that will be great to jump in after a work out!

I have never dated in my life, so I don't know how it works. If I did date though I wouldn't ever put up with any crap. But a long term relationship is soooo very different. Crap gets spoon fed to me. It doesn't matter if I'm married or divorced at this point. It will still be fed to me, because I'm as perminent in his life as his own mother.

My moms been listening to the stuff I learned here and on the web and she's also been folowing it and seeing great results! And my step sister is wanting to jump on board too! So this makes me totaly happy! My daughter sees the change in my waist and she said, umm mom you aren't going to look better then me are you..lol.. She's sweet, lol, that could never happen!

Hi Hope
Jump rope!!! Too cool I used to love jump rope! Be glad you never had to date let me tell u...I dated for one year and it was enough for me. I move too slow for guys I guess, but its just the way I am. I remember one guy got pissed at me because we were going out for a month and I did not kiss him but he used to creep me out a little its why i did not kiss him... he was like well defined but not overly muscular and sometimes he use to come to see me with his shirt open and even go in public like that!! I think it's somewhat sleazy LOL so i broke it off with him.

I have not started any jogging yet or anything like that..just walking. I got up to 45 minutes and 1.84 miles on the treadmill, and I'm still working on it. I also want to run one day and i plan to take dance classes when I am about 170 or 150. I remember when I was in middle school we had a mile run and the first lap i came in first place ...I even heard this guy say "dam that fat girl can run!!" I was like a size 11/12 or 9/10 at the time HA I wish i was that size now!! Anyways I was only first place on the first lap...i finished the mile run second to last they never even trained us or anything...just one day we went out and they said the state requires us to do a mile run and they made us do it.

I didn't even weigh this weekend!!! I think I'll wait until next weekend. I am sure I lost some weight with diet and now exercise.

Take care everyone, hopefully we will all get our vacations soon. Until then, I leave you with this:




The second one is the Keys, Hope, just around the corner

 

[pink clouds]

OhOOOOOO

I forgot to tell you guys....

I had artesian water for the first time today....LOVED IT!! I think I will be spoiling myself with it from here on out


I've taken the liberty to put some pictures of Fiji Here's to Artesian water!

 

[nataliejo]

Running Kevi did you say ummm Running! I can't run! I can walk, fast, and some short jog type movments, but run! lol... My knees can't take that kind of inpact yet, to much weight. Now Running is one of my goals, I want to be able to run, and I've made a disishion.. When I get close to my ideal weight I want to get into dance class again. I want to dance, like I used to, and I didn't even know I wanted to untill I started feeling that nice burn in my muscle... It's been warm here in Florida all year, I swear we had like no winter this year! But walkings good and I like takeing walks outside.

Wow Hope, thats awesome. I can understand the jogging. I cant jog yet, still working on the walking lol, my upper body is too top heavy for running lol

ttylater hun
always
natalie jo

 

[nataliejo]

I forgot to tell you guys....

I had artesian water for the first time today....LOVED IT!! I think I will be spoiling myself with it from here on out


I've taken the liberty to put some pictures of Fiji Here's to Artesian water!

Those are beautiful pics Pink! Awesome Water does a body good!

ttylater hun
love yas
natalie jo

 

[nataliejo]

Thank you Pink for the cyber VACATION!!!

Well some day I may have to date.. That remains to be seen.

Walking is great, someday we will get there! And we will be able to run again!


I lost another 2 lbs!!!! I am sooo dam happy that it seems to be true. Make sure your getting the right amount of calories, and get your but moveing more. I'm so happy that this has been done the right way. And not a unhealthy way. I can totaly do this forever! 9lbs lost!!!! WOOOO HOOO!!!!!

HOPE YOU GUYS HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!

Awesome hope

Nine pounds down!!!!!!!!!!
Thats totally something to be excited about. Totally stellar!

cool beans
congrats hun!

love yas
always
natalie jo

 

[nataliejo]

Hi Hope
Jump rope!!! Too cool I used to love jump rope! Be glad you never had to date let me tell u...I dated for one year and it was enough for me. I move too slow for guys I guess, but its just the way I am. I remember one guy got pissed at me because we were going out for a month and I did not kiss him but he used to creep me out a little its why i did not kiss him... he was like well defined but not overly muscular and sometimes he use to come to see me with his shirt open and even go in public like that!! I think it's somewhat sleazy LOL so i broke it off with him.

I have not started any jogging yet or anything like that..just walking. I got up to 45 minutes and 1.84 miles on the treadmill, and I'm still working on it. I also want to run one day and i plan to take dance classes when I am about 170 or 150. I remember when I was in middle school we had a mile run and the first lap i came in first place ...I even heard this guy say "dam that fat girl can run!!" I was like a size 11/12 or 9/10 at the time HA I wish i was that size now!! Anyways I was only first place on the first lap...i finished the mile run second to last they never even trained us or anything...just one day we went out and they said the state requires us to do a mile run and they made us do it.

I didn't even weigh this weekend!!! I think I'll wait until next weekend. I am sure I lost some weight with diet and now exercise.

Take care everyone, hopefully we will all get our vacations soon. Until then, I leave you with this:




The second one is the Keys, Hope, just around the corner

Awesome work! Hun you are going all out with the exercise ..congrats!

love yas
natalie jo

 

[nataliejo]

Well I think Peter and I are together. He had a good reason for not coming up, so I am letting it go...

we will see what happens folks

well I weighed in at 271.0 ...

so we will see what it says weigh in day lol

well ttylater
love yas
natalie jo

 

[nataliejo]

I need a vacation too! Both my knees are in pain, well my right is not really the knee, but around it and it sucks!
Anyone here gonna start running since its starting to get warmer Specially here.

Well Kevi,
sounds like your working your knees, becareful hun. You dont want to hurt yourself ..

ttylater
love yas
always
natalie jo