New Year, New Thread for Those who Weigh 200 lbs/90 Kg or More

Awww thanks for thinking about me Ali :hug2:

It went good. I could not find my sneakers for like almost 30 minutes and when i finally found them I had to rush so I was there for like 30 minutes only. But I think I will do more tomorrow morning :D maybe 45 minutes because i did not really feel like i did anything...although....I do so love the way the world feels after walking on the treadmill....its like walking on the moon LOL I wonder how the people feel that jog on it....have you ever jogged on it before?
 
Great news Kevi!!! Thought you were swearing off exercise for a little while, gees are you saying it's going to get adictive?! Great, lol!!!

Pink I'm glade to see you motivated!!! And that the Gym is working for you!! You can keep going !!!:party:

Nat, You TOO!!!! You've been "quite" today... Are you ok hon, is something bugging ya?

KunoichiEmi,

Yeah, didn't keep up with the show, I've been way to busy.:svengo: I'm sure I'll have some hangy skin too when all said and done, I'm not a miricale worker. My poor tummy has bin streached and unstreached 5 times, yikes... But I want my skin to move with me, ya know. Exercise is important, and although some people can get to there goal weight without it, I don't want to! I want a fit body , not just a thin body!!!

I'm doing ok guys. Going through some personal things. But I haven't fallen off the wagon, lol. I'm still counting my calories, exerciseing, and moving as much as posible. I went on a great feild trip with my youngest son today and that was really great, we saw sharks and manatees, stingrays, etc.. It was really fun and we had 3 hours of walking!!!! Oh and although all my measurments are the same, waist, hips, arms, neck, as six days ago and I have not lost any weight since then, not even a pound. My butt is still shrinking down, which is weird, but yes sir I think I'll take what I can get!!!

Hope everyone is feeling motivated!!! We rock!!!
 
Hope2 said:
My butt is still shrinking down, which is weird, but yes sir I think I'll take what I can get!!!
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OMG I hope this does not happen to me...I already have zero bottom >_< i was telling one of my friends the other day, because guys are always looking at me and I do not like it so much....I told her that when guys stare at me from the front, my revenge is the disappointment they feel when i pass :p

Glad to see you hanging in there Hope. I love the Aquarium also!!
 
Yeah, working out to me is pretty much a drug xD. Anyone here look at a guy's butt? some girls say I have a nice looking butt lol and I would just say "Thank you.....?" lol
 
OMG you are so funny pink!lol!!! I am a total pear shape, I had a Jlo bootie when I was young, tiny waist and big boobs. And I have the same now, just purposhionatly larger. I'm like a huge version of my 15 year old daughter, lol... Hens my self delushion in the mirror. Oh I'm not that big, lol, yeah right it was an optical illushion, lol. That's with clothes, yeah naked, I'm not even that dilushional, pear shaped or not, pears don't have rolls!!!lol :smilielol5:
 
Kevi, you are so dam funny, gees! I'm not really a guy body kinda girl. I don't know maybe I'm weird, but I dig a major sence of humor. The major thing that gets me with a guy is the jaw line, don't know why. My h is major skinny man, looks the same as when we met when he was 14.. But I'm atracted to all kinds of guys, with the exeption of guys with big muscles, I actually don't like that.. I'm a weirdo
 
Hope2 said:
Kevi, you are so dam funny, gees! I'm not really a guy body kinda girl. I don't know maybe I'm weird, but I dig a major sence of humor. The major thing that gets me with a guy is the jaw line, don't know why. My h is major skinny man, looks the same as when we met when he was 14.. But I'm atracted to all kinds of guys, with the exeption of guys with big muscles, I actually don't like that.. I'm a weirdo
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hmm i guess i won't build that much muscles then! haha j/k
I'm planning on just getting a little cut and that's pretty much it. haha and oh
this might be my fetish, but I love girls with big boobs and curvy waist. It just turns a 16 year old boy on haha.:smilielol5:
 
Hey Everyone!

Hope you are all doing great on your weight loss progress! Sorry I've been MIA for a week. Had some personal problems come up and I've completely threw away all that I've been working towards.:banghead:

I swear, I've probably gained back all the weight I lost so far. So, I'm going to get a bit more stict on myself.

Later,
Veronica

BTW, Kevi, I'm not really the type of girl who looks at guys' booties. I'm a leg gal. LoL... I dont know what it is, but I like long slender defined calves on a man. Hmmm... is that weird?
 
I got a question for you ladies.

My best friend Cal was just recently engaged to this lieing wench named Secrete. (Yes, her birthname is Secrete). Well, I call all the guys I know Sweetie, Hun, Babe... blah blah blah. So, I call my friend Cal 'Sweetie' whenever I see him and have been doing so since we were 16 and now we're 22.

So, I guess I called him Sweetie while Secrete was around and she got super jealous. In fact, he stopped talking to me for a few months and now that he broke off their engagement, started talking to me again. Said he felt like such an a$$ because he stopped talking to me but it was because Secrete told him to. Just because I love him to death, I forgave him for actually taking orders from this lieing wench by not talking to me. Also, all she had to do was tell me she was uncomfortable with me calling him Sweetie and I would have stopped, but I guess it was easier to just order him to stop talking to me all together.

Well, Secrete is 'FRIENDLY', if you know what I mean, and was cheating and lieing to Cal the whole time they were engaged. So, was it even right for this ho to even get upset over the fact that I call him Sweetie? Get upset over our friendship that she even told him to not talk to me anymore?

Here is my question to you all tho:
Would you or have any of you ever told your boyfriends / husbands to stop talking to one of their friends who are female? Especially for this reason? I know I wouldn't.

Eh, I just blame it on her being barely 19.
 
veronandez86 said:
I got a question for you ladies.

Here is my question to you all tho:
Would you or have any of you ever told your boyfriends / husbands to stop talking to one of their friends who are female? Especially for this reason? I know I wouldn't.

Eh, I just blame it on her being barely 19.
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I know that I would get jealous. I would try and either learn more about the friendship or build my own friendship with her... but when you got bad vibes you got bad vibes... sometimes that request just fosters sneaking and such so i really dont know. I think ive been sorta in the opposite situation (yours) and i still talked to him.. but eventually made friends with his g/f. There are a whole lotta people I wish didnt hang around certian guy friends of mine.. but there is absolutely nothing i can do about it. : / such is life.

Im glad you have your friend back and that he realized that he was making a mistake : )

friends are the worst thing to lose.
 
pink clouds said:
:iagree:its good to make them longer gradually. I am so happy that you are feeling better even if its just a little better. We all have those down times, but you are doing so great and are a real trooper. Just keep sticking things through darlin and you will come out on top. I really have faith that you will meet and exceed your goals...just keep persevering as you are!! You've come a long way and you're a real trooper. Look at that fish swimming on your ticker! Shoot my flower is getting so soaked under the same cloud :p And you have much more accomplishments to come :D
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Hey Pink :)

Feeling even more better, just haven't been motivated to come on here much, but I have lost to 272.2 because of good activity and cutting down on everything I eat... eating less.. very important!

So I am working on increasing the walk and I went for a fifteen minute bike ride yesterday, it felt so good I am going again .. :)

ttylater hun
love yas
always
your friend
natalie jo :party:
 
veronandez86 said:
I got a question for you ladies.

My best friend Cal was just recently engaged to this lieing wench named Secrete. (Yes, her birthname is Secrete). Well, I call all the guys I know Sweetie, Hun, Babe... blah blah blah. So, I call my friend Cal 'Sweetie' whenever I see him and have been doing so since we were 16 and now we're 22.

So, I guess I called him Sweetie while Secrete was around and she got super jealous. In fact, he stopped talking to me for a few months and now that he broke off their engagement, started talking to me again. Said he felt like such an a$$ because he stopped talking to me but it was because Secrete told him to. Just because I love him to death, I forgave him for actually taking orders from this lieing wench by not talking to me. Also, all she had to do was tell me she was uncomfortable with me calling him Sweetie and I would have stopped, but I guess it was easier to just order him to stop talking to me all together.

Well, Secrete is 'FRIENDLY', if you know what I mean, and was cheating and lieing to Cal the whole time they were engaged. So, was it even right for this ho to even get upset over the fact that I call him Sweetie? Get upset over our friendship that she even told him to not talk to me anymore?

Here is my question to you all tho:
Would you or have any of you ever told your boyfriends / husbands to stop talking to one of their friends who are female? Especially for this reason? I know I wouldn't.

Eh, I just blame it on her being barely 19.
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Well I did tell him to stop talking with one person, because I found a love letter from his friend and it scared the sh** out of me. and He was going to meet his friend that night, I thought for sure something was going to happen between them. So I talked with him and he kind of looked down. Was not happy at all!

so thats why I demanded that he not talk with this person. The love letter just drove me over. It was so horrid guys. "I have been thinking about you lately and how handsome you are. And I miss you a lot and blah blah blah" well ttylater
love yas
always
natalie jo :party:
 
nataliejo said:
Well I did tell him to stop talking with one person, because I found a love letter from his friend and it scared the sh** out of me. and He was going to meet his friend that night, I thought for sure something was going to happen between them. So I talked with him and he kind of looked down. Was not happy at all!

so thats why I demanded that he not talk with this person. The love letter just drove me over. It was so horrid guys. "I have been thinking about you lately and how handsome you are. And I miss you a lot and blah blah blah" well ttylater
love yas
always
natalie jo :party:
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btw,. this was with my ex bf.. not my new bf lol just to make that clear! lol my new bf still goes on the bbw site, so I dont think I can do too much if something was to occurr, just break up with him ..

ok folks
laterz
 
veronandez,

Unforchunatly LOTS of guys do this. And the women are almost allways wrong for them, that put on those kinds of ristrictions. Unless the relationship has proven infidelity with that particular "friend", no restrictions should EVER be put on anyone with friendship. That is not the kind of relationship that anyone really wants. You can not let insecurities drive your relationship, and at the end of the day you have what ever you have with that individual.

I think you did the right thing and let him back in your life, that was very mature of you! You both value your friendship and hopefully he learned a leason about letting a woman's unreasonable demands control his friendships. Hopefully he will never do that again.

I never, ever restricted my husband. I also did not care if he thought someone was atractive. There were many girls that were our friends, that had crushes on him over the years. But he was with me, so it didn't matter. You have what you have, like I said. Now latter on he did have an affair, but it had nothing to really do with our marriage, it had to do with our age. My h and I are seperated, and he is living with that woman as we speak. If he and I do reconsile, I just want her out of his life. That would not trikle down to his other friendships with women. You have to be confident with what you do have, friendship, or relationship wise. And with your self, if your not, you will try to restric other people.

The best thing to do with an insicure person is to reashure them. Not change your friends, or cut people out of your life. There are many reasons for the insecurity, and everyone has some type, who ever is stronger emotionaly in the relationship, if they care about the relationship, has the "burden" of helping the other become more secure. And more able to just acsept there love, without a "pertective" wall around it.
 
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veronandez,

Yeah I read your diary entry, I can't remember if I posted you something on there, my sister called me. Don't worry about it.. Oh and the test abnormality thing, lots of women have that, some women allways have it be abnormal.. So don't worry, it's not onushual...:) (just in case I didn't post that on your diary) I'm glade your back!

I don't know ever since I saw the biggest looser a couple days ago I've been very bumbed about my weight loss. Like I'm not doing enough...????

I'm really suposed to be eating more calories, but I'm scared to, I'm thinking about trying it out though. I just don't want to dimolish my progress. I thought I was eating the right amount, but I think it's still a little to low. Scary...

Nat, Glade to see your back!!! Your doing great!!!
 
Kevi12 said:
hmm i guess i won't build that much muscles then! haha j/k
I'm planning on just getting a little cut and that's pretty much it. haha and oh
this might be my fetish, but I love girls with big boobs and curvy waist. It just turns a 16 year old boy on haha.:smilielol5:
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lmao
this has turned into quite the thread lol Hope, Kevi, wow! lol
I like men with some muscle, but not a lot. I prefer men with a little pudge now. Peter has a little pudge, but he is 6'2 and 211 pounds, but he is losing weight, but I swear he is the hottest man I know lol but I have had hot men, all of my men have been hot, but Alex and Peter have been the hottest, other than Jake, who looked like a Calvin Klein Model, but a bad attitude. and he dressed like one too

but Kevi you are too cute lol
best wishes in catching those young girls hearts! lol
ttylater
always
natalie jo :party:
 
veronandez86 said:
Hey Everyone!

Hope you are all doing great on your weight loss progress! Sorry I've been MIA for a week. Had some personal problems come up and I've completely threw away all that I've been working towards.:banghead:

I swear, I've probably gained back all the weight I lost so far. So, I'm going to get a bit more stict on myself.

Later,
Veronica

BTW, Kevi, I'm not really the type of girl who looks at guys' booties. I'm a leg gal. LoL... I dont know what it is, but I like long slender defined calves on a man. Hmmm... is that weird?
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no that is not weird Vernioca, to each his or her own...

I am turned on by darker men and I am turned on by a booty, the ass is my favorite too look at, if they have a mighty fine ass, well I am there... lol

but anyway .. you go girl!

and btw about your friend, I understand completely, Peter doesnt want me to be friends with any guys. lol its kind of hillarious. I was talking with Alex last night, because Peter was busy playing a pool tournament. He asked me what I was doing. I told him I was talking with a friend, since he was too busy ..he was like

"Is it a man?"
and I was like you could call him a man, but its trully my girlfriend lmao
than he wondered if I was straight! lmao I really had him going lol
so I told him no .. its a girl thats a friend ..lol
he had no clue lol
but Alex and I have patched up our friendship, we are doing good
and so are Peter and I

but I can understand where you are too coming from, because Alex almost stopped talking with me, because of Ellen. you know.. he wouldnt talk with me ..so ..it sucked for a time, but he is talking again ..
its hard when you think you have lost a good friend

well best wishes hun
ttylater
hope you feel better soon
natalie jo :party:
 
Hope2 said:
Great news Kevi!!! Thought you were swearing off exercise for a little while, gees are you saying it's going to get adictive?! Great, lol!!!

Pink I'm glade to see you motivated!!! And that the Gym is working for you!! You can keep going !!!:party:

Nat, You TOO!!!! You've been "quite" today... Are you ok hon, is something bugging ya?

KunoichiEmi,

Yeah, didn't keep up with the show, I've been way to busy.:svengo: I'm sure I'll have some hangy skin too when all said and done, I'm not a miricale worker. My poor tummy has bin streached and unstreached 5 times, yikes... But I want my skin to move with me, ya know. Exercise is important, and although some people can get to there goal weight without it, I don't want to! I want a fit body , not just a thin body!!!

I'm doing ok guys. Going through some personal things. But I haven't fallen off the wagon, lol. I'm still counting my calories, exerciseing, and moving as much as posible. I went on a great feild trip with my youngest son today and that was really great, we saw sharks and manatees, stingrays, etc.. It was really fun and we had 3 hours of walking!!!! Oh and although all my measurments are the same, waist, hips, arms, neck, as six days ago and I have not lost any weight since then, not even a pound. My butt is still shrinking down, which is weird, but yes sir I think I'll take what I can get!!!

Hope everyone is feeling motivated!!! We rock!!!
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yea hope .. I was quiet ... you noticed! of course you guys would. I write a million replies in here lmao
Well I found out I was taking enough anti deppressant. I have missing one pill. We have went up and down with this pill....so I thought I only took two ..so for the past month or so .. I have only been taking two, when I was supposed to take three, well today I feel excellent, because I took the actual dosage I was supposed to take and thanks for noticing hun .. I bet you all did!
you all make such wonderful friends!

love you all
natalie jo always :party:
 
I am back down from 275.4 to 272.2 pounds! Took a lot of focus and hard work. yikes. I didnt think I would do it, and I am not even taking the second metaformin, so still fighting the metabolic syndrome... but I did it guys and gals!! Whoot Whoot!

I love you all
your my bestest friend
love yas
always
natalie jo

**hugs**:party::party::party:
 
Hope2 said:
veronandez,

Yeah I read your diary entry, I can't remember if I posted you something on there, my sister called me. Don't worry about it.. Oh and the test abnormality thing, lots of women have that, some women allways have it be abnormal.. So don't worry, it's not onushual...:) (just in case I didn't post that on your diary) I'm glade your back!

I don't know ever since I saw the biggest looser a couple days ago I've been very bumbed about my weight loss. Like I'm not doing enough...????

I'm really suposed to be eating more calories, but I'm scared to, I'm thinking about trying it out though. I just don't want to dimolish my progress. I thought I was eating the right amount, but I think it's still a little to low. Scary...

Nat, Glade to see your back!!! Your doing great!!!
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aww thanks hun!
V I am going to your diary. Sounds like you are going through what I have gone through

love yas
always
natalie jo :party:
 
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