Hi, my name is Lisa and this is my first day here. I am 33 yrs old and a single mother. I have always been a big girl...just a lot bigger than usual since the birth of my child..no wait..take that back...right after her i lost a LOT of weight...but thanks to hershey sundae pies i am quickly surpassing my pregnant weight (which was my all time highest weight). Now I have no problems being a bigger girl, in fact I embrace it. However, I do not want to be THIS big. I am currently a size 22(and thats a little snug). I would like to get down to a 16 at least. I am not sure how to really go about losing the weight. I am such a picky eater its hard to follow a "diet". I have switched to diet sodas, eliminating about 600 calories a day from my diet, however I think the extra cookies I have been eating arent helping at all. I am southern so therefore I am a meat and taters girl. I need support for sure, thats why I joined this site. Do we get assigned buddies or anything? HELP!!!