MGB's Diary: "Clean Your Plate," they said.

[bikinibound]

You guys are crazy.

I'd love to be hit on like that by a female.

The line is crossed when the aggressor starts being perverted. He was straight to the point. He saw something he wanted and thought it'd be worth a shot. Certainly not my style, but if it fits him.... so be it.

It was a little overboard when he still gave his number even after finding out she's married, I admit. But maybe he felt such a strong attraction that he couldn't resist asking and giving. If my wife was hit on like that, I wouldn't care just as long as she didn't act on it.

I totally agree with ya, Steve! I would love to be hit on like that, and wouldn't be annoyed at all!!!

 

[Steve]

I totally agree with ya, Steve! I would love to be hit on like that, and wouldn't be annoyed at all!!!

If Sheryl had asked for him to leave her alone and he continued... then he should be choked.

But that wasn't the case.

 

[MsGhettoBooty]

Thank God you don't know my last name, or I'd have one hell of a reputation in Binghamton, NY!! ahahaa. Why did MY name come to mind?? lmao. B/c you know I wouldve felt the same way lol? Or that I would've gone off and facked his brains out?? Na, I'll behave until I get divorced..lol...I mean if I get divorced...lmao:

Fuck if I know. Your name just popped in my head. HA! Maybe because I was having perverted thoughts... I think you were channeling me or some shit. So sorry.... but hey isn't cool being a short brown girl in NY at least for one day? LMAO!

Ha Ha Ha - what a great compliment chicky!!! You go you hot chickidee you Im 29 too but no hot guys tryin to pick me up!!! LOL

Oh hush.... I personally think you're shexy. I mean... if I was a lesbian, I'd hit on you. LOL!!!

For hot young guys!!!!
I always look like a train wreck when I go to the gym so I dont have to worry about anyone trying to pick me up-but that would be a great ego boost!!!
About this piss yellow hat!?!?! Is it the yellow when your dehydrated or the yellow when your hydrated-LOL
Good Job Girl!

Oh girl, don't get me wrong.. I'm not one of those types who decides I need to wear a cute little workout outfit that shows mega cleavage or go to the gym wearing my "you wanna do me makeup." Please... my ass was rocking a pair of cut velour baggy pants with a baggy ass t-shirt that said, "Got your tickets to the gun show?" Hmmm it might have been the side ponytail that got his ass all hot and bothered. LOL! As for piss yellow hat.... Oh it was definitely dehydrated yellow... the type that glows in the dark and shit. LOL!

Damn you magnet you! Can't blame a guy for trying. He's brave at least!

Oh I give him credit for being balls out like that.. and yah, I can't blame a guy for wanting a piece of the Sherylnator, ya know? LOL jk

That is ridiculously pushy and uncalled for after you informed him you're married. I really think that was rude of his young ass. And he's not even that young that he shouldn't know better. Good on the free water though LOL.

Mami... when they're 3 years younger than my ass... I consider that a "youngin." And nah... believe me, when guys become a nuisance, I have no problem telling them to "fuck off." A bitch doesn't hold back, girl. LOL

Well now we know why you spend so much damn time at the gym!! I'd spend all fackin' day there if I was getting hit on like that!!! Mine is pervettes only, so there are no pervs to put the moves on me--not that they probably would anyway!! lol I guess my gym is a great place to go when it's Temporary Lesbian Day!!!

LMAO! Hey... I got hit on by a rather manly woman last weekend. For some reason, the inner lesbian in me didn't feel the need to introduce herself. What can I say... I like the lipstick lezzies. LMAO!!!

You're doing great Sheryl, I can't wait til I get to where you are!
You=awesome. Keep it up!(I know you will but I just had to add it in)

Awww you're too cute. Thanks a lot, elle. Believe me.. at the rate you're going, you're going to get there soon, honey. 20lbs gone already, girl. Keep rocking it, little mama!

 

[MsGhettoBooty]

So how's your day going? I am going to take pics of my clothing for the party and email it to you for suggestions.

The day's going well... bought more clothes today. YAH! haha As for the clothing... oh yah that would be wicked. Have you decided on your hair and makeup already or do you need ideas for that?

You guys are crazy.

I'd love to be hit on like that by a female.

The line is crossed when the aggressor starts being perverted. He was straight to the point. He saw something he wanted and thought it'd be worth a shot. Certainly not my style, but if it fits him.... so be it.

It was a little overboard when he still gave his number even after finding out she's married, I admit. But maybe he felt such a strong attraction that he couldn't resist asking and giving. If my wife was hit on like that, I wouldn't care just as long as she didn't act on it.

There was only one time in my life that I actually saw a guy and said to my gfs, "I want that. I'm taking it home to mama!" It worked, but unfortunately he was too stupid to bring him around my family. haha Oh well..

And nah... he wasn't perverted at all. He was actually very respectful even til the end, but I give him props for not being your "typical young douche." As for my husband, he gets a kick out of guys trying to hit on me, because he knows I would never act upon it. Besides, it's an ego boost for him also! HA!

If Sheryl had asked for him to leave her alone and he continued... then he should be choked.

But that wasn't the case.

If he took it to a level where it made me feel uncomfortable, he would have found my fist lodged deep down his throat. But yah.. that wasn't the case. hahaaa!

-Sheryl
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[Blancita]

If Sheryl had asked for him to leave her alone and he continued... then he should be choked.

But that wasn't the case.

A lot of women, even very straight up ones like I tend to be, feel funny telling someone directly to leave us alone, so we hint by mentioning our husband or being friendly but never available. Sheryl sounds like she would've told him straight up to leave her alone but I probably wouldn't. When it comes to rejection I wimp out so I dont hurt someone's feelings. Probably worse than being straight up I'm sure, I'm the type that would always not return guys phone calls or be nice and friendly when they managed to reach me but then never be available to go out. I'm sure I seemed annoyingly wishy washy but for some reason I couldn't come right out and say "leave me alone". Ha, how wimpy for a tough city girl .

 

[MsGhettoBooty]

Today I ended up buying a new scale. I didn't want anything fancy. (body fat, water rentetion, etc) I see it this way, I'm just using it as a guideline more than anything. I don't want to get all too wrapped up with this weighing myself everyday bullshit. I'm the type of person who can weigh myself once a month and be estatic that I lost 5 lbs. HA! Scales to me are just one big mind fuck. Instead of placing the scale in the bathroom, I decided to place it downstairs where I workout. (I'm weird and would probably weigh myself pre and post dump. HA!) It gives me motivation to push myself through a tough workout just seeing that bastard on the floor.
So earlier today I went and posted at a thread Curvie Girlie had started some time back. The question is, "What are you going to do when you reach your goal?" http://weight-loss.fitness.com/topic/9965-what-you-going-do-when-you-reach-your-goal.html#post204231 I thought it was a great thread, so if you're roaming the site, go ahead and post something. Off to today's accomplishments.

Workout:
- Turbo Jam Cardio Party (43 mins)
- moderate walking (45 mins)
- weight training (gym): legs= machines, lunges, squats, donkey kicks (75 mins)

Meals:

Breakfast:
- whole wheat bagel with 1 tb peanut butter
- nectarine and 1c 1% milk (525 cal)

Snack:
- 1/2c Kashi Go Lean with Breyer's Light Yogurt (180 cal)

Post-workout at gym snack:
- protein shake (240 cal)

Lunch:
- fresco style 7 layer burrito with salsa and a banana (450 cal)

Snack:
- banana and pear sliced
- 1c 1% milk (295 cal)

Dinner:
- homemade Chinese chicken broccoli over 1c steamed brown rice (430 cal)

Total Calories: 2,155 cal (1990-2340)
Notes: I went back to TJ Max and found myself another pair of House of Dereon Jeans. This time they were only 10 bucks! WOOOOT! And yes... they make my ass look nice and round. lol Well, I'm off to bed now, because I need to hit the gym much earlier since Sean has basketball practice later in the afternoon. Goodnight everyone... I'll drop into diaries after the gym tomorrow.

-Sheryl

 

[Boam46]

I'm with you on scales being one giant mindfuck... I keep mine on a shelf and take it down on the 15th and the 30th... for now I have to do it every saturday

You're totally kicking ass at the gym and deserve all those cheap expensive jeans your gettign to show off your work.

Those stores don't carry my size yet... but they will soon and I'm gonna hit them hard as hell.

Keep up the great work!!! You're turning into me at the gym (spent about 2 1/2 hours there today)!

Lots of Love

 

[rimay2k]

I have an old fashion scale and i love it!I usually only flucuate 1kg at most unless I over do something so it really helps me stay on track-whenever i dont weight myself i tend to think its a free for all-LOL
Great jobs on finding a good deal!I so miss TJ maxx and Marshalls.
Keep in excercising!

 

[Steve]

I weigh myself as well as take measurements every 2 weeks.

Good morning Sheryl!

 

[bikinibound]

I don't know how y'all can stand to wait so long to weigh yourselves!! I can barely manage to wait one day to weigh myself--and the only reason I don't do it more than once a day is b/c I know it will be higher than my a.m. reading so there's no point in torturing myself. The suspense of waiting 15 days would kill me. I'd rather know I gained, than not know at all!

 

[Steve]

I don't know how y'all can stand to wait so long to weigh yourselves!! I can barely manage to wait one day to weigh myself--and the only reason I don't do it more than once a day is b/c I know it will be higher than my a.m. reading so there's no point in torturing myself. The suspense of waiting 15 days would kill me. I'd rather know I gained, than not know at all!

I don't care about daily fluctuations b/c I understand the mechanics of the body. I could be storing more water or glycogen on a given day so what's the point of daily weigh-ins? They certainly don't represent losses in fat or gains in muscle.

 

[bikinibound]

I don't care about daily fluctuations b/c I understand the mechanics of the body. I could be storing more water or glycogen on a given day so what's the point of daily weigh-ins? They certainly don't represent losses in fat or gains in muscle.

I understand that, it's just that I am impatient and curious--so the longest I could go is one week.

 

[Steve]

I understand that, it's just that I am impatient and curious--so the longest I could go is one week.

Whatever floats your boat.... there's no right or wrong. I like to think that I'm very 'in tune' with my body and I can tell my progress, or lack thereof, without a scale.

But I admit that seeing a number I want on there is beyond pleasing.

 

[Blancita]

I don't know how y'all can stand to wait so long to weigh yourselves!! I can barely manage to wait one day to weigh myself--and the only reason I don't do it more than once a day is b/c I know it will be higher than my a.m. reading so there's no point in torturing myself. The suspense of waiting 15 days would kill me. I'd rather know I gained, than not know at all!

I am exactly like this.

I'm able to tell the difference between an upward fluctuation and when I've actually gained some real fat. So I don't worry too much when the scale goes up during the week, but when it doesn't come down again I have a reality check and usually act on that by getting more motivated about my eating and exercising. This has been very helpful in managing my weight. Just my two nickels.

 

[fayefaye5]

hehe i read the "what you would do when u reach you goal thread" totally awesome ! Its wicked about the fact you may get to model corsets professionally !!
I remember when i used to wear a 24" corset... sigh. Hopefully i'll get in it again one day !

Ur a stunning girl, your weight loss is so amazing, such an inspiration

keep up the fab work !

 

[bikinibound]

I am exactly like this.

I'm able to tell the difference between an upward fluctuation and when I've actually gained some real fat. So I don't worry too much when the scale goes up during the week, but when it doesn't come down again I have a reality check and usually act on that by getting more motivated about my eating and exercising. This has been very helpful in managing my weight. Just my two nickels.

I agree. It also help keep me accountable, b/c I won't tell myself it's ok if I am naughty since I have 5 more days before weigh in. I am MUCH more disciplined when I weigh in daily.

Sheryl it looks like you've spent too much time salivating over in my diary tonight, as you've gone to bed without posting your day's accomplishments..

 

[MsGhettoBooty]

I'm with you on scales being one giant mindfuck... I keep mine on a shelf and take it down on the 15th and the 30th... for now I have to do it every saturday

Keep up the great work!!! You're turning into me at the gym (spent about 2 1/2 hours there today)!

It's alright, Jenna... it's only for a month plus. Even though we hate weighing ourselves weekly, we'll just have to get through it and do it. Personally speaking.. I prefer another type of "fuck"... just not mindfucks. LOL Must be good getting back to the gym, huh? Here we go, Jenna... time to start losing more weight, baby! WOOT!

I have an old fashion scale and i love it!I usually only flucuate 1kg at most unless I over do something so it really helps me stay on track-whenever i dont weight myself i tend to think its a free for all-LOL

See... I like shit to be simple. I'm with you there, girl. With the amount you pay for a high LCD screen, body fat measurement, etc... I expect that motherfacker to give my foot a massage during the whole ordeal.

I weigh myself as well as take measurements every 2 weeks.

Good morning Sheryl!

Why isn't there like a purring cat emoticon around here..? Hey you, bitee. HA! I have a question: are you looking to gain even more muscle? I'm just curious, because you're a pretty big guy as it is and all the ladies are loving it. Damn lucky wifey of yours.

hehe i read the "what you would do when u reach you goal thread" totally awesome ! Its wicked about the fact you may get to model corsets professionally !!
I remember when i used to wear a 24" corset... sigh. Hopefully i'll get in it again one day !

Ur a stunning girl, your weight loss is so amazing, such an inspiration

keep up the fab work !

Awww shucks .. thanks a lot, fayefaye. I appreciate the sweet compliments. As for modeling corsets.. yah, we'll have to wait and see on that, because I would like to get down in weight a bit more, because I really want to get to a 20" by that time. I have no intention of becoming skinny, because there's just something erotic about a curvy girl in a tight laced underbust corset. Keep up the great work so far... you'll get into that 24" soon enough. Just out of curiousity... who's the designer? I'm such a corset whore...LOL

Sheryl it looks like you've spent too much time salivating over in my diary tonight, as you've gone to bed without posting your day's accomplishments..

That post made me laugh hard... and yah, I had to replenish my fluids after being in your diary... from drooling (from the mouth)... you sick ass. LOL Don't frett... I'm going to do just that right now.. even if it's almost 2am. lol

-Sheryl

 

[MsGhettoBooty]

Tonight we decided to attend a First Friday event. It was called, "The Cure vs Talking Heads." It's pretty much a small bar that plays 80s music. They choose 2 bands and they have a "dance off." I am a HUGE fan of The Cure, so why not hang out and dance to some good music, right? WRONG. We got there and it was pretty damn small. There were a lot of people who were more in their forties and older. It was a very interesting mix. I believe me and Sean were the youngest ones there. It was somewhat uppity... but then again, how uppity can you really be when you're swirling your dollar store brought wine glass filled with Zinfandel, right? HA!
The music was playing and one of my favorite Cure songs came on: Lovesong. Sean is the type where he likes to watch me dance, so I was on the dancefloor doing my thing. Suddenly, I have this 50 yr old man trying to brush up against me, so I turn around and dance slowly to the side. He's twirling his arms in the air, doing his own thing, so I didn't think anything of it. A couple minutes later, I feel someone's arm wrapped around my waist with their hand pressed tightly against my hip (You know.. when their fingers curl and "grasp".. aka "the sex grasp.") and his groin pressed tight against my bum. Out of pure instinct, I ended up giving the perv a swinging, high elbow. Damnitt... I knocked out the 50 year old. So yah... we left, because it seems the perv was a "regular" and he was "just being friendly." What bullshit. That's okay... he'll remember me when he looks in the mirror and sees that pretty shiner. Off to today's accomplishments:

Workout:

- Muay Thai Kickbox Training (60 mins)
- Arc Trainer (30 mins, IT Level 6, Res= 50, Incline= 4)
- Weight Training: upperbody (75 mins)

Meals:

Breakfast:
- 2 eggo nutrigrain blueberry waffles with 1 tb peanut butter
- bowl of sliced peach and plum
- 1c 1% milk (420 cal)

snack:
- whole wheat bagel with low fat cream cheese (340 cal)

Post Workout Snack:
- Protein shake (240 cal)

Lunch:
- leftover Chinese style chicken broccoli
- banana (460 cal)

Snack:
- sliced pear and nectarine (160 cal)

Dinner:
- homeade jamabalaya (chicken breast, Jennie O Lean smoked turkey sausage, green bell peppers, onions, and fresh sliced tomatoes) (300 cal)

Snack:
- Breyer's Light Blueberry Yogurt (110 cal)

Total Calories: 2,030 cal (1990-2340)
Notes: Tomorrow we'll be in NYC, so I'm hoping to drop in to see a few people prior to going to that Asylum Guild club. (Blancita, that includes you, beauty) I'll try taking my camera to take a few pix if I remember. Wishing you all a wonderful day....

-Sheryl

 

[Steve]

Why isn't there like a purring cat emoticon around here..? Hey you, bitee. HA! I have a question: are you looking to gain even more muscle? I'm just curious, because you're a pretty big guy as it is and all the ladies are loving it. Damn lucky wifey of yours.[/COLOR]

Thanks Sheryl!

I will most likely never maintain. I have ADD. I always have to be doing something.... and the same goes with my physique. I'm pretty sure I'll be trying to 'improve' it forever. That said, I am constantly going through periods of bulking up and periods of cutting down.

 

[Steve]

Who's the mean one now, Sheryl? Knocking out old men and whatnot. Geez!

Have fun in the city!