lacking motivation, please HELP

Tawsif

Tawsif

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i have been suffering from depression for over the last ten months or so, and its solely due to massive weight gain.. :(

around this time last year I was at a healthy 66 k.g. (for my height of 5 feet 9 inches).. but then i had a cyst surgery in the abdomen and was kept away from working out for months.. i put on a lot of weight, but shed it all of in a month ( rather foolishly) by doing crash diet..

then i started binging.. and with part time jobs and university, working-out also became less frequent.. soon the weight came back.. and as my friends started pointing out how chubby i have became i got frustrated and ate more.. whatever work-out i did disappeared..

i wasn't that every thing was always this lousy in terms of motivation.. my girl friend have been really supportive all this time and encouraged me to work-out and eat healthy.. and there have been weeks when i have been really motivated by her and stayed healthy.. but then i wud go to my university and my friends would call me 'a fat bastard' (boy i hate that phrase).. and soon i'll start binging again...

right now i am 17 k.g. over-weight

but starting from today, i am getting back on track.. i have started working out every morning.. and i am eating properly.. my girl-friend and i have our fourth year anniversary in a few months, and i want to lose some weight before that and surprise her..

but i really need motivation from peers who understand what exactly i am going thru :).. i have been going thru different posts and diaries of the members at wlf and its helping me out a lot.. i plan to start my own diary from tomorrow..

thanks and best of luck with ur weight-loss:)
 
hi, glad to see you onboard! Just keep your chin up and you'll get there! Don't forget, the weight didnt' come on overnight, its not gonna leave overnight either. But you will get there!

good luck and let us know if you have any questions!
 
Keep the Faith

Keep the faith. You can do it.

Here's a little affirmation that might help...

I am able to do this.
I am really able to do this.
I am doing this now.
I AM, I AM, I AM.

Above is found on the Publishers Message on LINK DELETED

Blessings to you.
 
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Welcome
It is so true the weight did not happen overnight so don't expect it to come off that way. It is really helpful to have goals like one or so a week. Keep track of your goals and you will find yourself enjoying the process. Especially when you see results. No better feeling in the world than that.
They also say that the slower you take it off the healthier it is and it stays off longer. Hang in there you can do this. So good luck.
Tina:party:
 
WELCOME!!!!!!You can do it, is RIGHT!!! Taking these first steps is what matters! I can tell you that my journey, and my accountability to myself has been so much easier since joining this forum! The support :grouphug: that is received here is so much better sometimes than what is really going on in our real lives! :nopity: The fact that you have realized that the people you are surrounding yourself with are having a negative affect on you and your habits is an AMAZING discovery. I believe that through DISCOVERY, we can acknowledge the weakness, and turn it into a STRENGTH!!!

I have faith that you WILL reach your goal!!! And your "honey" will love :beating: the surprise!!!! Good LUCK!!!!
 
You have totally come to the right place. The fact that you have someone that loves and supports you in this battle is a huge step. I look forward to seeing your progress, Michelle
 
thank you so much for all ur support.. it really means a lot :D.. i completed day one.. it was great.. i did cardio in the morning and did a weight training in the evening.. i plan to do cardio at least five days a week and do weight training at least 3 times.. i ate three proper meals and had fruits when i felt like snacking.. i feel good.. i plan to eat the same today and repeat yesterday's performance, taking it from one day at a time...

once again, thank u guys so much :D
 
See you can do it. I always get pumped after having a great day. It shows you how easy it can be. But there will be days that you will need to pick yourself up with the help of others. Have a good day Tina:hurray:
 
ttnichols said:
See you can do it. I always get pumped after having a great day. It shows you how easy it can be. But there will be days that you will need to pick yourself up with the help of others. Have a good day Tina:hurray:
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Day Two completed successfully.. into day three... :hurray::hurray:
 
So nice to meet you. You can definitely make progress and with 17 kg or 37.4 pounds to lose, you can lose it in a relatively short period of time. Just keep having good days and REFUSE depression. Make sure you rest up adequately between weight lifting sessions. You'll know if you over do it. I'm just starting myself at the gym. (I'm so stiff!)
 
things almost went wrong

things almost went wrong today.. had an exam in the morning, so i was up all night.. as a result it was kinda difficult to work-out in the morning.. but waking up i decided to put some effort and go for it.. felt good after the half an hour session of cardio...

after the exam, i had to have some pictures taken for the newspapers (recently my team from the university had won a global marketing award.. so an article on us along with pictures was going on the news)... now i had been dreading this day for months.. i haven't taken much picture after putting on weight, and i was really scared of having my pictures on the paper like this.. as expected after taking the pics the "u take up the whole frame' jokes started.. i was a little down, and hungry and even considered binging :(..my team-mates were going to a buffet lunch to celebrate.. and i was tempted to binge...

but i checked myself in the last minute.. and instead i walked around the campus and had a little steamed rice with chicken, followed by lots of fruits..

i went to my office and on my way back home i had lentils, soup, fruits and vegetables.. although the initial plan was to keep the dinner lighter i am glad that it was mostly fruits and vegetables.. i plan to walk for half an hour before going to bed...

so all in all my third way is successfully completed.. it could have been one of those depressing days where i get frustrated and lose control.. but what kept me going is prolly the fact that when i come back home i'll write in WLF and i wouldn't want to write about giving up...

so thanks every one :D :hurray:
 
Like I said already, good work! When you first start it's all about overcoming those temptations and things that will lead you away from what you really want.

Now I'm craving lentils though.. don't have any so I guess I'll get some cottage cheese, ha
 
:cheers2: There you GO!!!! Congratulations....sometimes, I think it's past the 3 days that things get easier. The beginning of a habit! Good JOB!!!:gnorsi:
 
Way to go you made great choices and that is the start. You will find that when you start seeing results those choices are going to be real easy. No I don't want to jeopardize my goal. Good for you! Tina:party:
 
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