Journey, Not A Destination

I wouldnt push anything on your wife -when she's r eady to do it she will

Nahhh Ive tried that approach in other ummmmmm. areas. It didnt work there either.

Seriously though. I am not trying to push her. She goes to a different gym than I do. She usually goes with her friend and when I ask her what she does its alway "oh, we did some of the machines and then did the elyptical for a while" She has a nutritional book that she has read and was very exited about that and enjoyed it. I would like to find a lifting book that she would like to. The ones I have offered her all have sweaty muscle men on them that look like they are dying.
 
I'd ask your realtor point blank why she's reluctant to have the septic systems inspected. You can burn a lot of money in a hurry fixing septic problems. You might want to enquire about the age of the systems and if plans were filed with the building dept in town whan they were installed or (hopefully) updated.

How is the roof? By the way.

David
 
Ohhhh. He's that guy huh? I am actually happy with what I am doing. I googled it and seen the womens version though and thought my wife may like it. For some reason she kinda blows off everything I offer to her but I thought she may enjoy something geared towards women. Any suggestions Steve?

This is from another thread but I figured I would move it here so as not to hijack the other one.

Yea, I mean that's what really pisses me off. He packages something for women. Granted, there are subtle differences but do you really need to sell another entire product for it. What's next? Senior citizens? New Rules for People Who Like French Fries?

He is a marketing guru. Which is ashamed since he actually is a smart guy.

But between his incessant and annoying marketing tactics, the way he sells out by circle jerking any product... even if said product sucks... simply b/c he's going to get pimped in return, and now the very obvious fact that he straight up stole from Lyle (not just in his other product but in NROL too) I just can't even consider giving him money.

That said... if it is what your wife would stick too since it says it's 'for women' on the cover... have at it.

I've actually heard some good things about Leigh Peele's new book. She sent me a copy of it and I haven't finished it yet but so far I'm impressed. It's not specifically for women but Leigh certainly caters to that crowd.
 
I wouldn't think that any bank would allow for a mortage to be issued without having a home inspection done first..

Trust your instincts bud...

I talked to my mortgage guy and the only thing they require is water inspection. Beyond that it's fair game. But he did recommend I go through with everything else since the house is so old. Bottom line is I'm not committing myself unless everything is inspected.
 
I'd ask your realtor point blank why she's reluctant to have the septic systems inspected. You can burn a lot of money in a hurry fixing septic problems. You might want to enquire about the age of the systems and if plans were filed with the building dept in town whan they were installed or (hopefully) updated.

I was about to flat out ask, so I definitely feel ya. I asked some preliminary questions first and made some comments about why I feel it needs to be inspected. Based on her response, I will flat out ask her what she has against it.

How is the roof? By the way.

I look around the attic and there doesn't seem to be any leaks. That said, I'd imagine it will need replacing sooner than later. It looks to be cedar and it was installed in 1990. That's old if I'm not mistaken.
 
I look around the attic and there doesn't seem to be any leaks. That said, I'd imagine it will need replacing sooner than later. It looks to be cedar and it was installed in 1990. That's old if I'm not mistaken.

that's old... but unless it's a wives tale -termites don't like cedar much -- so that helps with longevity...

Foundation on a house that old would also be a concern...
 
The foundation appears to be solid as a rock. I'm not sure if that is covered in most standard home inspections? Also from what I hear roofs are not part of a home inspection either. It's everything on the inside?

The original house is relatively small. From it, two additions have been built over the years. 3/4 of the house is relatively new... as in the 80's. New relative to the 1700s with the original.
 
Meh, I suppose I brought it on. Ignorance and stubbornness combined though, really makes for an ugly combination and I find myself having less and less tolerance for it.

Add coddling to the mix and it sets me off.
 
If the roof is cedar and properly installed it should last 50 years or more. But those two conditions make a lot of difference. Old cedar roofs were laid on "skip sheathing" meaning a series of horizontal battens nailed to the rafters having centers approximately the same distance as the length of the shingle exposure this was done to save wood of course but it also helped with air circulation and venting. If cedar shingles are nailed to plywood underlayment with roofing felt, they do not last so long.

Also check to make sure there is only one layer of shingles. This is hard to do at the drip edge (closest edge to the ground) because there always is a starter layer. So it looks like 2 or more layers. It's best to check at the roof edge along the gable (pointed end). If you see 4 layers of shingles at any one spot you have two roofs, one laid over the other. This is not necessarily a bad thing. But most building codes do not allow a third layer (too much weight for the roof structure) so if it goes bad you have to tear-off to the decking which adds to the cost.

Cedar roofs are great, they're different than asphalt or fiberglas shingles though. Personally if I had to put a new roof on (which I did myself 4 years ago) I would put architectural shingles on and I'd get the best I could afford (45 year at least).

But if they're not leaking you might have no trouble. How is the attic vented? Gable vents? Small windows at either gable end up high, near the peak. Venting the attic is important because lots of heat builds up in the summer and can cause the cedar to cup and break down.

As for the inspection being only on the inside of the house, I have never heard of that. The mortage company has an interest in the inspection because they want to be certain the collateral value of the property equals or exceeds the amount of the loan, you have an interest because you want to know any hidden problems before you buy. I'd ask whoever does the inspection to check the roof and gutters and venting.

DC
 
Thank you so much for stopping by my dairy to help! I also loved that you called me a "lean female" and a "long distance runner"! Two things I have never, ever been before! :)

I'm glad you broke it apart and explained it all to me in a very easy to understand way! From my understanding it boils down to this: 1. Stop worrying about the scale, and 2. Make sure I am eating enough protein and doing resistance training to avoid losing muscle mass. Does that sum it up correctly? How much protein is enough protein? I know I could google it, but you are so much smarter than google! :)
 
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