I just got told I'm too fat

saramaria124

saramaria124

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I'm sitting here at the front desk of my work (a fitness club) and some guy comes up takes his card and tells me I should work out more because I'm too fat. If there wasn't the possibility of losing my job I would have slapped him. I work out 4 days a week and I work out with a trainer twice a week and lost 17 lbs and he has the nerve to tell me that. Oh my God...so upset right now.....:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

~ Sara Maria ~
 
Some people take a great pleasure at belittleing somebody else. This is one of this kind of jerks:mad: . I had it once happened to me. One lady from my hubbys work told me with the sweetest smile you could possibly imagine:" My Gosh, I can not belive you turned into a fat ball". Of course, I couldn't keep my mouth shut and told her: "Why don't you take a good look in the mirror, honey". Decided to give her a taste of her own medicine.
The truth is - this kind of remarks do not matter at all. I understand how upsetting it is, but do not let people, not to mention, strangers, destroy you like this. Easy to say, right? I feel sorry for people like this guy - they are so damn insecure that they have to cover it up by being bully.
 
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Girl, screw him, he's a jerk!!! :mad: :mad: He probably has a little penis and has to pick on other people to make himself feel better. Next time you see him just laugh and know that while his body might be slim, his weeny is teeny...and who needs that?!! ;) :D
 
How rude! Don't even waste your energy on worrying about it. Karma will come back and bite him in the butt. (or head, he'll probably go bald from all the meanness!)
 
aww, I know the feeling. It hurts but words are just words and being upset is ok just don't let it get you down. If anything it can give you more will power to show that jerk who you really are.
 
For me visualizing his little bitty pecker every time he walked in the door would have me rolling in the aisles and sooner or later it would start to piss him off, which would make me laugh even harder...but I guess I'm just a pervert. :eek: :D
 
When i was out one day a few years ago a guy said to me "Gawd, aren't u fat?" so i said "yeah, but at least i can diet, ur stuck with that face forever"

And more recently in a pub a guy said i was fat so i acted really surprised and said "Oh my god so i am, when the hell did that happen??" :eek: :D

To be honest people like that aren't worth shit but it sure is funny to wipe the smirk of their faces
 
Good going SK! Good for you for saying something back!

I simply can NOT imagine anyone ever saying that...
...grrrr!
 
Wow.
i'm sorry that happened to you; i have no doubt it's due to lack of self-esteem on his end.
sorry he had to take that out on you.
 
That guy is a total waste of perfectly good air. He's one of those schmucks that gets off making people feel badly about themselves. I'd feel really sorry for people who have to deal with him all the time, like co-workers and family members. I would say girlfriends or wife but I'd be inclined to think he'd be nicer if he were getting laid.

Next time you see Jerky Boy just think...it's takes pretty low self-esteem to have to build yourself up by standing on the backs of others. I think he does have a teeny weenie!

Buck up, lil' camper. You can work and diet but there's no cure for ugly yet. :)
 
If you need something to laugh at, think about how much spit he must eat in restaurants for talking to waitstaff that way..'cause ya know he does. :)
 
Ah yes, the "thinking that belittling you will make you want to lose your weight" comments.

I have never understood why/how people can do this to someone who is overweight but I have had children (out of the mouth's of babes)adults, coworkers, and yes even family say comments to me that really hurt. It got to a point I didn't want to show up at any family events because there was always some relative pointing out the fact that I am overweight.

I remember seeing a T shirt that read, "I know I'm fat, but you're ugly, and I can always lose the weight".

Be strong people and be proud of who you are!
 
Ohappydaye said:
Girl, screw him, he's a jerk!!! :mad: :mad: He probably has a little penis and has to pick on other people to make himself feel better. Next time you see him just laugh and know that while his body might be slim, his weeny is teeny...and who needs that?!! ;) :D
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:D I dated a guy like this, he would put people down (mainly overweight people) to try and make himself feel better....and yes he had a very small worm :eek: and felt very insecure about it....people who are happy with themselves don't need to try and pull someone else down to feel good.
 
Eleanor roosevelt has an awesome quote -- well she's got about 150 or more awesome quotes but this one applies here...

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.
 
Wow that is a great quote!

I'm with everyone else, don't waste your time on that jerk. Next time he comes in go really slow and make him wait!!!!
 
maleficent said:
Eleanor roosevelt has an awesome quote -- well she's got about 150 or more awesome quotes but this one applies here...

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.
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I had a high school teacher that used to quote that all the time. Another great quote of her's that is applicable is..."No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." My dad used to tell me this all the time. Don't give him the power girl...he's an idiot!
 
awwww, he's an a**hole, the world is full of them, he probally does have a little wiener:eek: You've lost 17lbs what the hell does he know, it hurts but in the long run he will be the dumbass who ends up alone, stupid and ugly, inside and out!!!! so think of us instead, and let him go to the wayside!!!!;)
 
Sorry to hear about the fat comment I have been there done that it makes you verrry upset!I have a different problem I notice when my kids draw pictures of me they draw me huge daddy a toothpick(stickman lol) and them these little mini people I take up 1/2 the paper the rest of the family takes the other 1/2!I don't wanna be the embarassing looking mom so I have that pic that helps me stay motivated along with some unattracted real pics of me.My kids even explain thier picture my son is 5 said your the big 1 because your so much bigger than daddy lol!OUCH!
Anyway I hope that man who told you that gains 100lbs!What comes around goes around.

Congrats on working out and finding yourway here!Best of luck 2 ya Tammy
 
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