I just got told I'm too fat

Hey, thanks guys. I have let go of the upset over yesterday and if he comes in this morning I will just let him drop off his card and not even look at him. I am not giving him the satisfaction of reacting to him again. The incident completely threw my day off though, so I had to regroup and just really think over the situation and realize that I can't take what he said personally because there's bound to be others like him. It will make me stronger in the long run when I can let these comments bounce off my back.
 
Do NOT drop your head when he comes in, look as happy as you can. Kill 'em with kindness I always say....well I say some other stuff too, but that'll probably get you in trouble. :p
 
Ohappydaye said:
Do NOT drop your head when he comes in, look as happy as you can. Kill 'em with kindness I always say....well I say some other stuff too, but that'll probably get you in trouble. :p
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I agree, dropping your head just reinforces his idea that he has power over you.
 
maleficent said:
Eleanor Roosevelt has an awesome quote -- well she's got about 150 or more awesome quotes but this one applies here...

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.
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that quote by Eleanor Roosevelt is awesome. have to steal it.

regarding that jerk who spoke to you so rudely, whether or not he has a small p***s, he is still a dick.

there are jerks out there everywhere who judge our appearance - at jobs, at restaurants, at shops. when i was at my heaviest, people just looked right through me like i wasn't a person.

so i can't look at something without digging further. a little ocd? anyway, after reading from mal that Eleanor Roosevelt said so many fine quotes, i had to go look for them. of course i found this one, which seemed appropriate (you are better than that guy!!!!! remember that!):

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." --Eleanor Roosevelt

link to some quotes:
 
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She was a very smart and great lady, Mrs. Roosevelt. I have a lot of respect for her. Thank you guys for all the support. I will take your advice and look him straight in the face and smile. :)

~ Sara Maria ~
 
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