Dallen's right, you just gotta find what works for you and what you enjoy....it's the only way to get long-term results.
I can say without reservation and hesitation, I do not like cardio. However, Last year at Christmas I remember my wife asked me what I wanted. I told her an upright recumbant bike with a back rest that has a gauge to enter personal information, and has a heart rate monitor, calories burned (though there not all that accurate), etc.
I knew at the time this was going to be a psychological battle with this new ($300) bike. I was willing to face it. I was willing to win it.
This was going to be a battle between my personal dislike v benefits to my goal quest, and
I have proven to myself that I was tougher then my dislike for different forms of cardio. There is a lesson here to learn, my friends.
I remember looking at it, saying (laughing):
Dang thing has no brain, time to train, to see if it will enhance my goal compaign.
Damn this thing looks stupid sitting there. I will probably look stupid riding the dang thing, BUT, I wont look stupid when off of it....
I battled this bike for many months, and even put two pics in my garage (one of myself and one of the person I wanted to be like). I usually put the person I wanted to be like right in front of the bike, and pedalled my @ss off trying to go get it. If the session on the bike (and being honest) was good, I would move my pic closer to the goal pic, if it wasnt, I moved it back.
I remember taking the goal pic down, and replacing it with my own. Think of the WORST feeling during training. NOTHING replaced the feelings I had at that moment.
The feelings surmounted during your quest, are NOTHING compared to the feelings you get when you reach your goal (s).
I won the pschological battle with something I do but do not like, and so can you.
Best wishes to all of you,
Chillen