I have never joined a forum or anything in my life, but I feel the need for social networking. I am probably considerably older than most of you, 51 years old. I have never had a weight problem, I have always been thin and never had to worry about what I ate. When I turned 50 I gained 20 pounds in a matter of 6 months. I went from a fairly active job to starting my own business as a Virtual Assistant where I sit in front of my computer all the time, but I work from home. I don't know if it is the age thing or the sitting around all the time probably a bit of both that caused the weight gain. So never dieting before or exercising I am at a lose of what to do, I need some advice maybe someone who has gone through this or knows someone who has experienced this. Although anyone who has any advice will help.