Eyes on the prize

I_love_muscle said:
Yeah ... it's when the other person makes you cry too much.

Not just because I'm sensitive, because sometimes when I cry, it's because I really do love the guy, not because the guy has actually hurt me.

It's when the things they do just keep hurting you ... and it leaves me wondering "Was that really love? WTF was that? Love shouldn't feel like that, should it?
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:iagree: Looks like we been through a similar situation! :nopity: Hey we're in a great place now :D :party:

Muggywuff, you'll get there :) Work on yourself from the inside, out. When you truly love yourself, amazing things start to happen!
 
Curvie Girlie said:
:iagree: Looks like we been through a similar situation! :nopity: Hey we're in a great place now :D :party:

Muggywuff, you'll get there :) Work on yourself from the inside, out. When you truly love yourself, amazing things start to happen!
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Yeah, I hope I can stay in that place for awhile ;) It feels pretty good. Took long enough ...

Muggs, you have to realize you're the only Muggs in the world and that you have something to offer the world :)

Like we said before, LOVE YOURSELF. Be proud of who and what you are and what you have accomplished in the past, and what you can accomplish in the future!!!

Really what you have to do is "take your passion and make it happen". If you don't love yourself, you won't be able to do that ;)
 
hiya ladies:)

thank you for explaining what you ment by love in love or love in like too me in abit more detail, i can totaly understand what you mean now, love in like would seem too have all the nice things still but without the heartache when things arnt going so well, iv never had that kind of relationship, i wonder could it ever be as forfilling as being madly in love though? different i guess:)

i will deffinatly take on your advice and work on loving myself as who i am as much as working on myself pysicaly, i really appreciate your kind words and advice:)

thank you for the compliments on the before and after picture with gaining muscle:D but i must say now that was a while ago, i look very different now as you will see tommorow, id love too get back too the second picture again and putting that picture there will add as a reminder that i can do it:D

today has been fine, again plenty of water and healthy foods , have 1 meal left and then im done for the day-i did some cardio today, my fitness levels are quite frankly shockingly bad-i can cycle on the stationary bike at a moderate/high intensity for 13 mins, yep 13!:S and by the end of this i am a mess! crazy, today i got 2 sessions in 13 mins and 12. for cardio work id like too get that upto 1 session of 45 mins solid at moderate intensity and then attempt HIIT cardio on off days from weight lifting.
 
deffinatly:D that just seems like so far away from where i am right now it would be nice too be back there, but it would be better too be more toned and abit bigger too;)

a 6 pack with reasnable size would be awesome!:)

acctualy i was watching something on TV last night, it was about cosmetic sergery, and some guys in LA having abs cosmeticly "etched" onto them:S:S iv also seen guys getting bicep and tricep implants like breast implants, personaly i think thats quite crazy, whats your opinions on that?

the abs being etched on was the most shocking, the guy was already in brilliant shape! just goes too show some levels people goto in the quest for a perfect body.
 
Muggwuffin said:
deffinatly:D that just seems like so far away from where i am right now it would be nice too be back there, but it would be better too be more toned and abit bigger too;)

a 6 pack with reasnable size would be awesome!:)

acctualy i was watching something on TV last night, it was about cosmetic sergery, and some guys in LA having abs cosmeticly "etched" onto them:S:S iv also seen guys getting bicep and tricep implants like breast implants, personaly i think thats quite crazy, whats your opinions on that?

the abs being etched on was the most shocking, the guy was already in brilliant shape! just goes too show some levels people goto in the quest for a perfect body.
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Yeah, I've seen that as well. Personally, I think it's insanity.

I don't have anything against a person getting a nose job, tweaking their face a bit, or trying to look a little better facially, because there is really nothing a person can do to improve their face. We're stuck with what we've got going on

I'm not even against liposuction if it's done for the right reasons and performed by a skilled surgeon.

But when people start putting muscle implants in their body, that's just ridiculous because we do have control over our muscularity. We're not all shaped the same way, but we can all attain a nice physique.

I think the problem is we live in an "instant gratification" society, and if it takes too long to get what a person wants, it's easy enough to just "buy" it.
 
i totaly agree with the way you feel about it too, i used breast implants as a comparison because they use the same stuff too put inside, but you cant make work on your breasts like a muscle! well unless there man boobs lol:)
 
todays been pretty good, not much too report really, again i ate clean and had plenty of water, no excersize today.

im craving fatty foods quite alot today i notice! must be the smell of sasuages :)
 
just a quick stop in today, eatings been good but my sleep pattern is totaly in the air, its really annoying me! im trying too change it but atm having problems sleeping, is completly messing with my diet really because its hard too know where im at!.
 
hiya ILM:) im really stressed atm with my personal life, and having trouble sleeping atm but things should get better with time hopefully:)
 
Muggwuffin said:
love in like would seem too have all the nice things still but without the heartache when things aren't going so well, iv never had that kind of relationship, i wonder could it ever be as fulfilling as being madly in love though? different i guess:)
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I'm discovering that RIGHT NOW. I much prefer liking my boyfriend more than being obsessively, madly in love with him. Life is better, I'm emotionally balanced, I'm free from suffering, and I actually have FUN with him--unlike the ex....

HEY Muggs, you are doing GREAT and I stole something from Anke's diary:

"Don't believe what they say about motivation, it's a trap. Just do it. Lose weight, study, change careers. Perform the actionn, and the motivation to continue doing them will come."

You're suffering, but it's one of those cases where going about mindlessly might be more beneficial--if you try to avoid thinking about all your troubles, and instead just exercise, eat right, and start on a bulking plan, everything else might fall into place. Wait, that sounds hollow for some reason; I think I mean that it's YOUR choice how you want things to go. Dwell on heart ache and continue to suffer, and your life isn't going to improve. Feel the pain honestly, but trek on and make the right choices in nutrition, exercise, and spare time (spent having fun I hope) and your life will improve, you'll begin to heal, and your body and self esteem will blossom :) Tee hee! ;)

Just do it.
 
Muggwuffin said:
hiya ILM:) im really stressed atm with my personal life, and having trouble sleeping atm but things should get better with time hopefully:)
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Maybe if you try to relax yourself before going to bed would help ... and trying to clear your mind, too.

If you don't get enough sleep, your perception gets a little wonky :D

Muggs, close your eyes. Let your mind wander to nice places ... think about all the things you want to do sometime in your life, the things you want to do now, and the things you want to do in the near future.

Really imagine them happening. And feel good about yourself and your surroundings while you're imagining all this really positive stuff :)

And believe. Believe in yourself, believe good things will happen.
 
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