Diary: Curvie Girlie: A Yo-Yo's Reformation

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Hey CG. Sorry to hear about the relationship woes. I am so thankful that part of my life is over. Being single and dating sucked ass big time. It's like a freaking game where you are constantly trying to figure out what the other wants, means, and is thinking. Too much of a headache! Just have a little "me time" and you'll feel better. Have a great monday!

Amy
 
I'm totally at a loss of what to say about the bf situation... I've never been good with words. :/
But I will say that I wanted to stop by and say hi! Hope you're feeling better about the sit soon dear, I'm sure everything will work itself out :hug2: :hug2:
xoxox
 
Hey VBF! Seems you had a bit of a hectic weekend, frustrations with your feelings towards the BF, hmmmm I just think your relationship is going to be one of those only time will tell situations. It's good in the moment, then he leaves or you have to leave and your upset and frustrated, I just hope soon, it works it's way past the heartache stage, that's no good for you at all sweetness! Stay Strong, and listen to yourself, you will know if it's time to call it quits or keep it going, ONLY YOU KNOW THIS! Good luck girlie. Hey, when is your next race??? I found out that AMY also runs, I think I'm going to give it a shot and try to run a mile tonight at the gym, use that as a warm up before my Body Jam class, unless circuit training gets in the way. hmmmmm, Well good for you listening to your body and taking some time off to rest, you work out so darn hard I'm sure it's loving this break. Have a good day today, and I hope your weather is as pretty as ours is. It's like 72 and sunny, WOW that's pretty good for November.
Lot's of love!
VBF
Oh and the Simpson pic of you two is so cute!! you would make a great animation character. LOL LOL
 
You're even cute Simpsonized Val. Mine unfortunately looked nothing like me. Sorry about the frustrations with the bf. I'm sure you two will figure out something that works for both of you in time.
 
:waving: Hey there mamacita! Sorry to hear about the male species
lol it is contagious around here lol..It will get better for ya,you are smart
beautiful great sence of humor so you will not have problems in that
department!I hope you have a funtastic day Tammy:troll:
 
Hi Valerie. My daughter has BF troubles too, but she had a good talk with him this weekend, and hopefully things will straighten out. Sometimes two people get into relationship trouble just because they have needs that arent' being met, and they're afraid to express them to the other person.

Hope you can work everything out!
 
cinderelly said:
Ha that is cute...Chin up buttercup...I fond that the guys always make it seems easier but really it is just a poker face for us gals...at least in my experience...
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Hey Cerella! Thanks! The BF does well alone, and I am different. It was nothing personal, he just is fine to drive home alone while I am more like, bummed out that I can't have more company more of the time. I got over it though!

bikinibound said:
the more nonchalant you appear to be about it, the more likely he is to want you around more. Men are strange creatures.
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DING DING! You are totally right and I know that! Thanks for reminding me :) I just have to seek consolation sometimes. :rolleyes:


AmyRB said:
Being single and dating sucked ass big time. It's like a freaking game where you are constantly trying to figure out what the other wants, means, and is thinking. Too much of a headache! Just have a little "me time" and you'll feel better. Have a great monday!

Amy
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Thanks Amy! You are also right. Wow there sure are a lot of great women on this forum! :D

ellebelle said:
Hope you're feeling better about the sit soon dear, I'm sure everything will work itself out
xoxox
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I know I'm bad with words sometimes too! Shitty, seeming that I wrote essays all throughout college :p I was just releasing the feelings to feel better anyway! Thanks for the hugs!

Miss Ladybug said:
Stay Strong, and listen to yourself, you will know if it's time to call it quits or keep it going, ONLY YOU KNOW THIS! Good luck girlie. Hey, when is your next race??? I found out that AMY also runs, I think I'm going to give it a shot and try to run a mile tonight at the gym, use that as a warm up before my Body Jam class, unless circuit training gets in the way.
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Thank you, as always, VBF--Oh man I hope you enjoy running!!!!! Thanks for the sweet compliments! And no worries--our relationship is light and breezy and positive, I just get emo, and I need to vent sometimes!

Cannon 2006 said:
You're even cute Simpsonized Val. Mine unfortunately looked nothing like me. Sorry about the frustrations with the bf. I'm sure you two will figure out something that works for both of you in time.
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Hi Joe, thanks! No worries, it is working for us both I am just more of a heavy and probably melodramatic person--and only clingy when it comes to him! LOL! TRUST ME! :willy_nilly:

hickgurltx said:
~Happy Monday Sexy Buns!~ ;)


Sorry that's so hard on ya doll.

I hope you have a Goal Reachin' Monday!

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Thank you Cutthroat Thug Bitch, I appreciate it! LOL! Love ya!

niapage said:
:waving: Hey there mamacita! Sorry to hear about the male species
lol it is contagious around here lol..It will get better for ya,you are smart
beautiful great sence of humor so you will not have problems in that
department!I hope you have a funtastic day Tammy
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Oh thank you Tammy! Trust me, I have no problem with self worth right now, I just was venting about the BF's light, airy personality is all, lol! Have a gret night!

TomO said:
Hi Valerie. My daughter has BF troubles too, but she had a good talk with him this weekend, and hopefully things will straighten out. Sometimes two people get into relationship trouble just because they have needs that arent' being met, and they're afraid to express them to the other person.

Hope you can work everything out!
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Well i hope that the daughter and her BF work it out. My BF is a good guy and is just a bit whimsical and light and airy and not always hot and heavy in the emo department. Well, maybe it's because he IS, then he has sudden and quick flip-flop bouts of change of feelings and goes off, in his own world. It's rather charming, but............Like I said, "someday I will find my Marlene." LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rotflmao:
 
Well look at all the love in here!

I shall vist the diaries tomorrow!

I felt very good today and have chatted with several of my friends on IM today, mostly about silly things.

Today I had no candy or chocolate! I DID eat lower GL foods that are sugary, like agave nectar in my cereal and Acai juice, and I had stewed beet salad, which was pretty sweet and very good for me! Still, I can't seem to eat less than 2000 calories, and my days without exercise are nice, although there is a big two hour gap in my day where I'm like, "What the fuck.....shouldn't I be DOING something other than sitting on my ass???"

LOL! Still, my girl friend Alana is in town this week and she, Emily and I will go to ladies' night at the brewery tomorrow. I'll try to remember to take pictures, we're awfully cute ;) HA!

Oh here I have a pic of us from MARCH of 2007............
 
AHHHH you gals are cute!!! That's a great picture, I swear the camera loves you chicky!! I hope you have a great time at Ladies Night enjoying your girl time and beers. :cheers2: Sounds like fun to me!! :hurray: I ran about 1/2 mile last night, then I did 20 minutes on the step climber, then I did 30 minute circut training, then my 1 hour of body jam. I will post the outcome of my 1/2 mile run in my diary, it wasn't pretty let me just say that. LOL LOL LOL Love ya girl!
VBF
 
Curvie Girlie said:
Hey Cerella! Thanks! The BF does well alone, and I am different. It was nothing personal, he just is fine to drive home alone while I am more like, bummed out that I can't have more company more of the time. I got over it though!

I know that one - however I beleive for me it is just an act with the x...ya know...he feels just as empty as i do...and he has even admitted it before...



DING DING! You are totally right and I know that! Thanks for reminding me :) I just have to seek consolation sometimes. :rolleyes:

Yes - I have found tha tthe more non chalant I am the easier it all gets - I should have tried it years ago but tiem numbs you and makes you immune to it all if it makes sence...you get use to dealign with what you gotta deal with


I'll try to remember to take pictures, we're awfully cute ;) HA!

Yes you are awfully cute gals!!!
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The I shoudl be doing somethign thing I totally get but soemtimes it is nice to do nothing or take a break from exercise...:svengo:
 
CG---

Sorry about the boyfriend woes...boys really are more trouble than they're worth.

Good luck in all your goals! Esp. the 6-minute mile...that's quick! I ran a 7:05 mile once at a cross country meet...and then proceeded to tire myself out halfway through the race and barely finished. I'm sure you can pace yourself better :)
 
Wow what a bunch of lovely ladies!I am taking the 1 on the left is your sis?
She resembles you so I hope I am right lol!Have a fun gals night out I miss those days sometimes!Have a gr8 night Tammy
 
By left you mean right, right? (I'm cornfused...)

David

Edit: Okay-- I am confused-- you meant at left in the pic, not at her left in the pic!

Need more coffee, the brains running like pudding-DC
 
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I started to address all comments and my housemate accidentally closed the window! :rotflmao: Que sera! I'll do it later, I need to run to work, BUT I wanted to say that this is Day 6 of NO EXERCISE, not even yoga, and I haven't even really been walking either, but I certainly have been running around cleaning and doing laundry and all that.....I feel like a damn decapitated chicken.

I am SO FULL of energy and I feel like, I need some kind of more grounding. Being a double fire sign with an air sign moon doesn't help :rolleyes: My housemate (whom I love! :beating) was commenting on my crazy energy and cheery, jovial disposition. I think that I was experiencing severe sugar crashes from eating cookies and candy in the afternoon, and after Halloween and all that birthday cake (OMG I forgot to post pics of the cake! Will later....). I feel GREAT today and yesterday, I had NO refined sugar. I seriously think that eating excessive refined sugar causes BIG TIME depression in some people, and I suspect I am one of them. I also have a sinking suspicion that my sweet tooth has fucked with my insulin production in such a way to have caused it. I am healthy, but my sweet tooth..............I vacillate between doing well and avoiding it, to slipping and stuffing my face with cakes, tarts, candies, milk chocolate, cookies, and the like. Mostly it is the fault of the Office Ladies--there are ALWAYS cookies or candy or SOMETHING in the kitchen and I used to be good at refusing to grab stuff--lately I'd been going at it like gangbusters, especially when I was dry.

Oh gosh I need to get my happy ass to work. Speaking of my ass! I noticed that my body has not changed in composition, visibly, at all since I stopped exercising. My fears were indeed irrational. I'm just as firm as I was last week. LOL! Thursday I'll start with Kickboe and Ab Lab and tell you how I did and how I felt. All right!

I need to get to work but I have more ponderances to pour out....
 
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