Curvie Girlie The Diary: Mind Playin' Tricks on Me
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cinderelly
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Holy shit Val, where the hell have you been ? None of these posts are from you....lol
Hope you are keeping well.
Hope you are keeping well.
Val, I'm trying to hold the fort down, but dammit, there's no substitute for a smokin' hot gal from Santa Cruz!!!!
I can't even perv properly without ya! But I will say that having two men is quite satisfying ...
Hope you're keeping well and that things are ab-fab for you!
I can't even perv properly without ya! But I will say that having two men is quite satisfying ...
Hope you're keeping well and that things are ab-fab for you!
Curvie Girlie
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Quick aside about relationships
Hey friends!
First off, I didn't get on the internet yesterday but it was Sam's birthday!!!
Second, busy today, and also got caught up in a terrible email correspondence with the ex boyfriend. To sum it up, his life sucks and he's hella broke, and my emails to him where I sort of floss about how much fun I'm having, bother him. It took a long string of very rude emails from him, and very sassy, clever, and clowning retorts from me, to get to that point (I used banter to avoid resorting to name calling, when he started calling me names). I'm glad to know what's really going on with him, but sad to know it ain't pretty. He's absolutely doing the right thing by refusing to make contact with me, except to maybe respond to a few things via email, based on the fact that he's definitely not over it all. He seems to blame me for a lot of sour things in his life. I just found out. I also only email him to say whaddup with me because he made the mistake of saying that he'll "always care about me" and "ultimately wants me to be happy" a few times a while back. SO I was showin' him: I'm doing GREAT and I'm happier than ever! But as lots of you Old Schoolers know, he's inherently selfish and self-centered, caring little about other people, and so my real happiness and well being only make him feel crappy for being on the opposite end of the spectrum.
I care about all my friends, and even strangers, because I was blessed/cursed with loads of compassion. So now I just feel sorry I reminded him of his whole shitty situation and argued with him about the past. I probably ruined his day. If I try to find good out of the situation, I now know not to correspond with him anymore. DUH, right?!?! I also realized that he's very boring and sad, and would most likely drag me down like he did when we were together, although back then he wasn't sad, just boring, heh. This is true because halfway into it I was like "damn I feel shitty again--I should have left him alone!" And putting energy into maintaining or improving a false friendship, when it obviously is unwanted, is a waste of my time. I was pushing the idea of being friends with my exes onto them, but fact of the matter is: they are exes for a reason. Finally, I discovered that for BOTH him and my ex, Justin, my presence and our breakup was devastating for them enough to be screwed up emotionally, IN A MAJOR WAY. For fucks sake it pays to be resilient!
However, since I DO care about them, I wish they came out of it positively, like I did. However, Karma is a bitch (or a lady, depending), and I'm powerless to keep either of them from not manifesting their own happiness and joy in their lives.
My new fear is "what is going to happen if things don't work out between PZ and I?" You know me, I don't like the idea of worrying. And you also know that I'll just truck ahead, treating him well and appreciating him and all he does for me, and pleasing him in whatever ways I can. Still, the depth of emotion he has shown me in the past month worries me if we don't end up married and living happily ever after. Heh, I'm skeptical of that EVER happening for me at this point--but I don't see it constructive to duck out of this relationship out of a wack-ass fear of intimacy. So I won't!
Hey friends!
First off, I didn't get on the internet yesterday but it was Sam's birthday!!!
Second, busy today, and also got caught up in a terrible email correspondence with the ex boyfriend. To sum it up, his life sucks and he's hella broke, and my emails to him where I sort of floss about how much fun I'm having, bother him. It took a long string of very rude emails from him, and very sassy, clever, and clowning retorts from me, to get to that point (I used banter to avoid resorting to name calling, when he started calling me names). I'm glad to know what's really going on with him, but sad to know it ain't pretty. He's absolutely doing the right thing by refusing to make contact with me, except to maybe respond to a few things via email, based on the fact that he's definitely not over it all. He seems to blame me for a lot of sour things in his life. I just found out. I also only email him to say whaddup with me because he made the mistake of saying that he'll "always care about me" and "ultimately wants me to be happy" a few times a while back. SO I was showin' him: I'm doing GREAT and I'm happier than ever! But as lots of you Old Schoolers know, he's inherently selfish and self-centered, caring little about other people, and so my real happiness and well being only make him feel crappy for being on the opposite end of the spectrum
.I care about all my friends, and even strangers, because I was blessed/cursed with loads of compassion. So now I just feel sorry I reminded him of his whole shitty situation and argued with him about the past. I probably ruined his day. If I try to find good out of the situation, I now know not to correspond with him anymore. DUH, right?!?! I also realized that he's very boring and sad, and would most likely drag me down like he did when we were together, although back then he wasn't sad, just boring, heh. This is true because halfway into it I was like "damn I feel shitty again--I should have left him alone!" And putting energy into maintaining or improving a false friendship, when it obviously is unwanted, is a waste of my time. I was pushing the idea of being friends with my exes onto them, but fact of the matter is: they are exes for a reason. Finally, I discovered that for BOTH him and my ex, Justin, my presence and our breakup was devastating for them enough to be screwed up emotionally, IN A MAJOR WAY. For fucks sake it pays to be resilient!
However, since I DO care about them, I wish they came out of it positively, like I did. However, Karma is a bitch (or a lady, depending), and I'm powerless to keep either of them from not manifesting their own happiness and joy in their lives.My new fear is "what is going to happen if things don't work out between PZ and I?" You know me, I don't like the idea of worrying. And you also know that I'll just truck ahead, treating him well and appreciating him and all he does for me, and pleasing him in whatever ways I can. Still, the depth of emotion he has shown me in the past month worries me if we don't end up married and living happily ever after. Heh, I'm skeptical of that EVER happening for me at this point--but I don't see it constructive to duck out of this relationship out of a wack-ass fear of intimacy. So I won't!
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MissJellyBelly
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Hey Curvie!
Dropping by to say hi to my new teammates!
We are on the same team for the 6 week weight loss challenge starting tomorrow!
Go Team 1!!!
Can't wait to see how we all do!!
Dropping by to say hi to my new teammates!
We are on the same team for the 6 week weight loss challenge starting tomorrow!
Go Team 1!!!
Can't wait to see how we all do!!
Trops
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Curvie Girlie
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Weight/diet/exercise
My scale broke! Well, it said "Lo" when I stepped on it, which means the battery must be low. I looked on the bottom for the battery and it was in a plastic encasing, and unidentifiable--and then I had to rush out of the house. So I'll get a new battery eventually. There's also my gym's scale I could use.
I wanted to run at lunch today, and it rained. I cleaned my house for HOURS on Friday afternoon because I had the day off, and Saturday I just had a slow day at the winery. Sunday I made it to Yoga class--my studio finally opened! Saturday afternoon I belly danced with my new awesome friend Liquid Chicken AKA Jason--so not much exercise, does sex with PZ count?
Acroyoga today at 7:30. A chore is preventing me from the 5:30pm Yoga 2-3 with Delana otherwise I'd be taking TWO yoga classes today.
Last I weighed myself, my weight was up to 147.5 lbs!!! I HAVE been eating and drinking a lot lately. Time to knock it off! At least my body looks OK--my girl friend told me yesterday that I "have a perfect body." WOW!
My scale broke!
Well, it said "Lo" when I stepped on it, which means the battery must be low. I looked on the bottom for the battery and it was in a plastic encasing, and unidentifiable--and then I had to rush out of the house. So I'll get a new battery eventually. There's also my gym's scale I could use.I wanted to run at lunch today, and it rained. I cleaned my house for HOURS on Friday afternoon because I had the day off, and Saturday I just had a slow day at the winery. Sunday I made it to Yoga class--my studio finally opened! Saturday afternoon I belly danced with my new awesome friend Liquid Chicken AKA Jason--so not much exercise, does sex with PZ count?
Acroyoga today at 7:30. A chore is preventing me from the 5:30pm Yoga 2-3 with Delana
otherwise I'd be taking TWO yoga classes today.Last I weighed myself, my weight was up to 147.5 lbs!!! I HAVE been eating and drinking a lot lately. Time to knock it off! At least my body looks OK--my girl friend told me yesterday that I "have a perfect body." WOW!
Curvie Girlie
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Weekend madness!
This weekend was, again, off the heezey--Friday was Matty G and the Subwize kids' set at the Cypress Lounge. I spent 2 hours curling my hair for the event, and making a Subwize T-shirt with an iron on transfer. When I first showed up early, the place was empty except for the Subwize kids and their close friends, most of whom I saw and/or danced with at the New Year's party for the 9 hours I was there, LOL! When they saw me in that shirt, EVERYONE FLIPPED OUT!!! They were so thrilled to see me, representing like a Mofo, their name, that they gave me hugs and mad Big Ups Attached is a picture with DJ Rastatronics, who pretty much is at the forefront for starting the whole Dubstep scene in Santa Cruz, almost a year ago. He's a really, really nice person as are ALL the kids--his set at the NYE party was 9-10 and PZ and I showed up just as he was finishing, which sucked, but oh well--there'll be plenty more shows! Tee hee my belly looks cute Time to tone it up, more! 
The place was packed! Most successful First Friday Dubstep night at the Cypress to date! It warms my heart to see the scene poppin' off! I spent all night running around and hugging all the Burners that I've seen at parties recently, and chatting with the DJs--and being introduced to the friends and family by the DJs, which is really sweet. I felt very special and very well known. Lawrd knows I've put a lot of energy into getting to know these kids! They seriously are the MOST FUN people to dance and party with! I absolutely adore dancing with people, and seeing how trippy everyone is in their own particular idiom.
At the end of the night, Lauren introduced me to the great Matty G, himself, and I became suddenly bashful and struck dumb. He gave me a hug and thanked me for coming out. I don't think I could even tell him how cool he is, or how hard I worked at handing out fliers with his face on them, for that very event! I just blushed. Warm hearted shit!
Saturday was so slow at the winery, I spent hours wiping counters and sitting on my ass, reading. I told my boss I was running out of ideas, and he said, "You got something to read? Just pretend you're wiping something if my wife comes in" (my other boss). LOL! Saturday night Chris and I went with his mom and dad (RARE--first time ever!) to a Mexican restaurant. I actually enjoyed myself and so did everyone else! I then went to Cyndi's house and watched Clueless and laughed about how nineties that movie is--hahahaha--"I left my Cranberries CD in the quad"--LOL!!! Then I went to PZ's and spent the night
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Sunday like I said, I made it to Yoga. Then I went over to Jason's house. He is a TRIP. He was at Cypress, dancing on Friday, too, and also at the NYE party--he played his new drum and I danced. I thought he was gay, but he's bisexual. Heh. Well, hopefully he's not attracted to me like that, but we hit it off MAJOR in a friendly way. He's going to UCSC (he's 22) and majoring in history (YAY!), he loves sushi, he's an MC (his rap is pretty good), he loves tea, he can dance all night but he doesn't do drugs because he's on probation (for drugs, LOL), and he's also interested in making a Dubstep documentary with me, a harebrained idea I just got on Sunday
Oh yes, and he loves Ethiopian food! 
We have A LOT in common. Tomorrow night I'm hanging at the pizza/wine bar with him and all the Subwize kids, and also Cyndi, to listen to more music, dance, and have pizza and wine. Maybe I should just have red wine and skip the pizza....
This weekend was, again, off the heezey--Friday was Matty G and the Subwize kids' set at the Cypress Lounge. I spent 2 hours curling my hair for the event, and making a Subwize T-shirt with an iron on transfer. When I first showed up early, the place was empty except for the Subwize kids and their close friends, most of whom I saw and/or danced with at the New Year's party for the 9 hours I was there, LOL! When they saw me in that shirt, EVERYONE FLIPPED OUT!!! They were so thrilled to see me, representing like a Mofo, their name, that they gave me hugs and mad Big Ups
Attached is a picture with DJ Rastatronics, who pretty much is at the forefront for starting the whole Dubstep scene in Santa Cruz, almost a year ago. He's a really, really nice person as are ALL the kids--his set at the NYE party was 9-10 and PZ and I showed up just as he was finishing, which sucked, but oh well--there'll be plenty more shows! Tee hee my belly looks cute Time to tone it up, more! The place was packed! Most successful First Friday Dubstep night at the Cypress to date! It warms my heart to see the scene poppin' off!
I spent all night running around and hugging all the Burners that I've seen at parties recently, and chatting with the DJs--and being introduced to the friends and family by the DJs, which is really sweet. I felt very special and very well known. Lawrd knows I've put a lot of energy into getting to know these kids! They seriously are the MOST FUN people to dance and party with! I absolutely adore dancing with people, and seeing how trippy everyone is in their own particular idiom.At the end of the night, Lauren introduced me to the great Matty G, himself, and I became suddenly bashful and struck dumb. He gave me a hug and thanked me for coming out. I don't think I could even tell him how cool he is, or how hard I worked at handing out fliers with his face on them, for that very event! I just blushed. Warm hearted shit!
Saturday was so slow at the winery, I spent hours wiping counters and sitting on my ass, reading. I told my boss I was running out of ideas, and he said, "You got something to read? Just pretend you're wiping something if my wife comes in" (my other boss). LOL! Saturday night Chris and I went with his mom and dad (RARE--first time ever!) to a Mexican restaurant. I actually enjoyed myself and so did everyone else! I then went to Cyndi's house and watched Clueless and laughed about how nineties that movie is--hahahaha--"I left my Cranberries CD in the quad"--LOL!!! Then I went to PZ's and spent the night
.Sunday like I said, I made it to Yoga. Then I went over to Jason's house. He is a TRIP. He was at Cypress, dancing on Friday, too, and also at the NYE party--he played his new drum and I danced. I thought he was gay, but he's bisexual. Heh. Well, hopefully he's not attracted to me like that, but we hit it off MAJOR in a friendly way. He's going to UCSC (he's 22) and majoring in history (YAY!), he loves sushi, he's an MC (his rap is pretty good), he loves tea, he can dance all night but he doesn't do drugs because he's on probation (for drugs, LOL), and he's also interested in making a Dubstep documentary with me, a harebrained idea I just got on Sunday
Oh yes, and he loves Ethiopian food! We have A LOT in common. Tomorrow night I'm hanging at the pizza/wine bar with him and all the Subwize kids, and also Cyndi, to listen to more music, dance, and have pizza and wine. Maybe I should just have red wine and skip the pizza....Curvie Girlie
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Good lawrd! I didn't mention that Peezey was there on Friday! LOL! I ran around, but everytime I started to miss him, I came back and hugged it up with him. He doesn't like to be in the front, or the center of attention, but rather prefers to dance in the back. Still, he has a great time and is THE most down ass beezey I've ever dated! In the picture here, you can vaugely see us--my curly head and white shirt to the left, and his head, short hair, a head taller then me, on my left (your right). And one more picture from NY! 
Curvie Girlie
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wow you look great in those cords.
Its stinking hot over here so when my absolutely fav jeans like yours gave up the ghost i lopped them off with the scissors
I love coloured cords though, comfy and look good!
Thanks, Liz! And me too, cords are fantastic--yes it MUST be hot as hell over there!
Thanks Steve, I know you've always been rooting for my body sculpting over the past years, LOL!
That looked like a CRAZY time!! Definitely an interesting sound!!
Thanks, J! It was psycedelic MADNESS in that room, I have more videos to upload in the future!
We stepped out of the club, where we had been for 9 hours...from dark, weird lights, and booming music, to a quiet, foggy, San Francisco morning in broad daylight! We laughed and joked about how we were DEAF and stunned, and how Dubstep was still stuck in our heads. We went to the hotel and slept from 8:30-11:30 because check out was at noon, had coffee (for him) and tea (for me), then he drove us home.
I'm not sure what level he'd take it to for after it being only 4 weeks, but yeah I sense that he might have wanted me to be more....something! But this past weekend I have been demonstrative, supportive, and loving, and he seems really happy about that. I also text him every night before bed
Yeah, I can relate. Depending on what I wear, I still get groped. For crying out loud, in some cases, I'm old enough to be their mom! WTF are these dudes thinking? Apparently, even that doesn't matter to some guys
Whenever I go to circuit parties I always get groped by the gay guys. ....."Wake up girl!!!! When your body is cut and you're all glammed up, after a gay guy has a couple of drinks, you pretty much look like a dude dressed up as a woman."
LOL! Yes, they might be drunk and/or on Ecstasy, but you're HOT with a great bod, so give yourself credit, woman!
LOL!!! I mentioned my friend Jason. I thought that it was no problemo to go to his house, alone, wearing a belly-bearing outfit and dancing sexily to his drum because I thought he was gay....then he mentions it's a recent development and he used to date only girls. LOL! He didn't act shady, he knows I have a boyfriend, but in all honesty I would NOT put myself in that situation with a straight man to begin with, because I find it inappropriate and I wouldn't want to tell PZ, which means there would be something non-Kosher about it (I absolutely told PZ what I was up to on Sunday and he didn't show any sign of being bothered by it). Still, I'm sure all will be all right. LOL, another cool thing about Jason is he's a Libra and wants to be a lawyer someday, despite his legal troubles, because he likes to argue and use evidence to prove his point.
Curvie Girlie
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with girls? SHAME! LOL Hey baby! Happy birthday, yesterday!
Thanks baby, expect more of that at Burning Man, but WORSE and more tripped out, just in the middle of the fucking desert!
Awwwwww!
Remind me not to get hosed with Jason, lol!
Hey Claudia, I totally am joining your challenge, it seems more cutthroat than anything I could come up with!
I never went clubbing, ever, until recently. I think that 1015 Folsom party is the biggest venue/club I'd ever witnessed, and the first club I've ever been to, ever--before that, it was restaurants, bars, hay mazes, and Prohibition caves, LOL! So YES I am going to party it up until I settle down with a man worth giving up The Life, for--or until I get too old to feel comfortable in the Scene--shit, some people are well into their 30s and 40s, and I think that's totally FINE--but I'm not sure if I, personally, would enjoy that whole scene at those ages. Well, maybe once in a great while--not every damn weekend! Right?! And yes, if i had a beautiful little girl to keep me at home....well unless I had a great babysitter, I probably would feel guilty dancing it up with glowsticks until 4am or later (earlier?), LOL!
~*Happy New Year Sweetheart!*~
I'm sure you'll have a goal reachin' kinda year!
Oh thank you darlin', I sure hope so! Looking forward to hearing about Jackson again....I should bookmark that blog.....
PAUL!!!
My fellow recovering alcoholic, LOL! I was SO good for many months but I got really hammered this weekend and totally hung over--it SUCKED! I was like, oh yeah now I remember why I was trying so hard not to get so drunk! At least I can still remember everything! I actually have been having beer and wine fairly regularly since NYE, so I should tone it down, for sure--no problem, I'm looking forward to Claudia's challenge, anyway!Dee, Paula, Karl, Cerella, Korrie-- HI!! :waving" Thanks for popping in! And yes Korrie, I was hung over yesterday but that's IT for me!
I can't even perv properly without ya! But I will say that having two men is quite satisfying ...
I bet!
Thanks for all the sweetness!Curvie Girlie
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I want to visit everyone and see how the new year is treating you but that'll have to come later. Hugs, thanks for the love, everyone!!!!
Curvie Girlie
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More Dubstep from that night--pretty CRAZY in there!
T2 Trucker
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More Dubstep from that night--pretty CRAZY in there!
Your generation has taken it to a level beyond my comfort zone, however, I got a big grin (*flashback* maybe ??) watching that.
Man, trippin' and trancin' - nice life
Happychubette
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Happy New Year Val.
Curvie Girlie
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Yes, Dubstep is to the 2000s as Pink Floyd was to the 60s.
I never listened to electronic music other than Dub and rap and all that, but I loved Dubstep and I noticed almost everyone who has never been into electronica seems to enjoy it.
Kelly: Happy New Year!
Curvie Girlie
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My scale takes one of those round, flat batteries and I can't see myself getting a new one anytime soon, heh--eventually
Yesterday the email with the ex ruined my appetite and I couldn't finish my humble lunch of butternut squash soup and toast--I ate about half. I let my hungry stomach gnaw at me until after Acroyoga class, when I had a giant Thai stir-fry-basil plate with brown rice for dinner. Today, I think, is the start of Claudia's challenge. I need to check it out!
I plan on running at lunch, belly dancing after work, doing Yoga after that, and then heading to the Pizza/Wine Bar to hang out with all my trippy friends and Cyndi to dance to more Dubstep, and hang out with Liquid Chicken especially. WHEW! Good thing I got decent sleep last night! PZ is still out of town, but maybe he'll be back tonight in time to buy me dinner
I have no idea what my weight is, but I think I look the same as my pictures I posted several pages back--so I LOOK ok, but my weight is definitely above 145! I'll change my ticker to question marks, but partying has definitely come to a minor close for THIS bunny. Today is going to be a GOAL REACHIN' one
Yesterday the email with the ex ruined my appetite and I couldn't finish my humble lunch of butternut squash soup and toast--I ate about half. I let my hungry stomach gnaw at me until after Acroyoga class, when I had a giant Thai stir-fry-basil plate with brown rice for dinner. Today, I think, is the start of Claudia's challenge. I need to check it out!
I plan on running at lunch, belly dancing after work, doing Yoga after that, and then heading to the Pizza/Wine Bar to hang out with all my trippy friends and Cyndi to dance to more Dubstep, and hang out with Liquid Chicken especially. WHEW!
Good thing I got decent sleep last night! PZ is still out of town, but maybe he'll be back tonight in time to buy me dinner I have no idea what my weight is, but I think I look the same as my pictures I posted several pages back--so I LOOK ok, but my weight is definitely above 145! I'll change my ticker to question marks, but partying has definitely come to a minor close for THIS bunny. Today is going to be a GOAL REACHIN' one
Curvie Girlie
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Hmm, well T, I'm still fightin' a slight cold, which hasn't really dragged me down much, but it would have been all the way gone if I hadn't been out partying 12-26, 12/31-1/1, and 1/2. I'm still fatigued from all the festivities and thankful I can't weigh myself and be bummed out! Heh. I'm emotionally drained from the mean emails from the ex, and I think I spent too much money again.
But today I have a full day planned out, and yesterday Chris and I went to the climibing gym where I do my Acroyoga, and he loaned me the money for a 6 month membership! So I'l be climbing soon
But today I have a full day planned out, and yesterday Chris and I went to the climibing gym where I do my Acroyoga, and he loaned me the money for a 6 month membership! So I'l be climbing soon
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