Complicated Thread

Hey, i have been thinking and worrying about this a fair bit over some time now and i still cant think of why it is, hence the name 'complicated thread'.

I cant understand that us ppl on the forum look at each others pregress pics and all, tell each other how were going and all that but y do we look at other guys stomachs? isint it abit gay...thats what ive always thought (no offence to any gays on the forum, im really sorry).

But yeh, y do we post pics of our self up on the net to show off our abs to other ppl, but like other guys look at it and...lol i cant put it to words, abit complicated.

But of u get what i mean..do :confused: lol.

Anyway yeh, to clear my mind up about things, i mean if i had a friend over and i was looking at ppls progress pics the'd go 'r u gay?' , u know they just wouldnt understand.

Thanx for the help.
 
This is a forum for people who want to get fit and /or lose weight. People need support for this, and thats what we do here.

No offense meant, but your response sounds like a typical teen response. Is it gay to look at other men's abdomens? Not if your secure in your own sexuality. If you can't handle it, nobody is forcing you to come here.
 
I think Aevans hit it spot on...if you're feeling gay by looking at pics of others, then perhaps you should stop. I know that I'm not gay but I admit there are times when I find a bodybuilders physique pretty awesome,just as I do a gymnasts static strength ability, a power lifters absolute strength, and all those women on the Mrs. something pageants. ;)
 
Im gonna close this thread right now before it gets ugly.


EDIT -

For the sake of arguement, I reopened this thread. Discuss it as you will, I will be watching it though, keep it civil.
 
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it depends on how you look at it Tim_14...

you can look at it from a gay man's prespective and go.. omfg! i want that guy he's so hot coz *drool* look at those abs!

-definition of gay -> when a person is attracted to the same sex.. and morso, wants to proceed in these kind of relationships etc.

now.. if you look at it from my.. or i bet every other guy's perspective on here.. we look at how people develope themselves, yes even admire the physique that that person achieved.. which helps yourself to get motivated to do the same. there's nothing wrong or gay about this. i guess too many people go.. omg if you where pink you're gay! pff sure yea ok whatever. stick to the definition! not the steriotype!
 
Me, myself, being a teenager, and apparently "rebeling" with every little thing that I say, and getting it blamed on "puberty", know how everyone is replying to you. I completely agree with them.

Wow. Hey, if I look at someones abs, I'm gay now? Come on. You HAVE to know the answer to that, DEEP DOWN. COME ON. Don't embarrass yourself bud. :p
 
not gay at all... the purposes of those pics are specific and have nothing to do with gay ****. It's not stupid at all to think about this question..I'm sure your not older than 20 lol.
Ppl posting pics here look more than secure about their sexual orientation. Don't worry :)
 
Way to gang up on a kid, yall. lol.

I don't really see it as motivation, I see it more as "Hey, this guy must have worked hard to get those. Good for him." or, "This guy must love his protein." It would be pretty gay if you looked at the pictures and said "I wish there was more to this picture mmmm...yeah...."

Plus your buddy that came over and was talkin smack was probably expressing a combonation of:

a.) humor
and/or
b.) jealousy

Don't take things so seriously.
 
Hey guys, ok ok i was just askin a question i was concerned about about, but now that uve cleared u my mind about it thats cool.

No offence taken by any of ya..maybe evolution....na joking :p but i didnt even know u put a pic of ur leg up.

And no offence taken by Aevans, yeh im a teenager, age 14, i guess it is what u would expect from a guy my age.

Il stick to the definition and if ppl say anything liek that again ill just tell em they dont understand.

But lol stop calling me a kid...im very mature u know ;)
 
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