Well, I'm putting the heart stuff into a back region of my mind for the moment. I assume they will post me out an appointment, & there must not be any rush.
My husband & I had a nice day yesterday. We met his sister & had lunch with her & I visited my Mum. The home had a singing session happening & I was sweet-talked into donning my Cruella wig, red gloves & cigarette holder, that had just arrived in the post. I sat with Mum & joined in the singing. I made lots of them laugh, which was good! I am SOOO not a dress-up person. I had a plan of attack that if the outfit did not turn up, we wouldn't go to the party, but really, neither of us is into dressing up in fancy dress. I think I would end up going on my own if I really did want to go, but I don't. I'll save my outfit for the grand-kids. I might "crash" a kiddies party, or wear it to the aged care home again one day. We would both much rather stay at home.
We went down to our older son's home last night & stayed with the grand-kids, while their Dad & GF went out to a volleyball presentation dinner. I like the balance that being with his GF has brought him. He is a great dad & his kids are lovely, but I also like how he is now able to do really healthy things, like play sport. He plays table tennis with our older GS one night a week & volleyball with his GF. I like her. She's very good for him.
The littlies played happily together & we let them stay up a bit later than normal & asked them to sleep in this morning. I'll text our son soon to see if that happened! We spent time with our older GS who is almost 15. He has had a fantastic school report, We used to have him stay one night a week, mainly to give him some time to himself away from the littlies & have not really interacted with him much for quite some time. It was lovely to have the time to actually talk to him, without distraction. He helped me tidy up my laptop (which he had asked me to take there) & also my phone. He is a wizard with computers & is excelling at school. It was a lovely evening. Our son & his GF also had a lovely night.
I have decided to stay home today, rather than go to our monthly market. I love my days at home. My LH has his Saturday golf. He's the captain so always goes. If I took him in I would have to spend all day in there & drive him home as we only have the one car & it's not worth driving an extra 30km return home, to then go back & pick him up at 3pm. I like my days at home anyway.
Our GS was amazed that I still type in this forum. He told me he has a website & showed it to me. I asked if it was ok to post in chat on it & he said ok. I said not to tell him who I was. I typed in "A is sweet" & then he worried that his GF would be jealous, so I said he could let her know. He really is very sweet. I'm a very proud & lucky grandmother!
I'm not really focussing on losing weight at the moment, although I do still want to lose 7kg. I'm logging every day & weighing once a week & maintaining. While I say I'm not going to worry about my heart I don't feel inclined to really put it to the test until I have seen the Cardio again.
Lots of love to anyone reading my diary, xo Cate