hey hey hey guys!
Ok, Flumes!! Lovely to see you back around. Missed you massively hon!
Anna - thanks for the post - being upbeat about everythign makes weight loss so much easier and fun! Definitely dust off that bike and blow away the cobwebs!! For me, weight loss is about challenging myself to do all the things that are out of my comfort zone - like not wanting to go bike riding because I think my ass would look too big from behind on a bike saddle!! How STUPID!! Just do it!
Cabbie - I mostly sail small dinghies inland - so lasers, omegas, wayfarers but this year did some crewing on a 60 footer (not inland obviously!!) which was OUT OF THIS WORLD!! So going to try and do a bit more of that next season as it was such a thrill. I love kayaking too- posted on your thread about it...but didn't do any for the past 6 years as I was too worried my bum wouldn't fit in the kayak (daft isn't it?! That being fat stops you from doing the stuff you love!).
Cliff notes on Mr X:
- met a couple of years ago in a professional capacity - I was negotiating with him, he's a "state official", got on more and more in the last 9 months, he loves all the same sporty stuff as me, we slowly chatted less about work and more about other stuff, very unusual interaction for someone in his position and someone in my position.
- case finished (I kind of won

even though I'm only 6 years into my career and he's like 25 years in...), begrudging respect with a cheeky smile.
- we carry on talking regularly (long conversations), meet up for coffee (he gets train all the way into city and back, we talk for 2 hours, says he'll do so again any time), he tells me clearly to keep calling him (I think he is restricted to making impromtu calls outward to the likes of me because of his professional position)
- arranges meeting for me with his boss - very very good for me careerwise
- we've arranged another coffee meet up soon
- we now talk probably once or twice a week if there's a reason, once every couple of weeks if there's no reason, me calling him, unless there's a specific work reason for him to call me - he called 5 times in one day when such an issue came up and was obviously pleased to have something to bat back and forth with me.
- I email him, he responds if there's a direct question / or sometimes in a more informal manner - less so lately. Same with text messages. But on the telephone...he's always pleased to hear from me and prolongs our chats - often they are an hour or so long.
So I don't want to appear as "that woman with a crush that keeps on calling me" or make a fool out of myself - treading carefully to remain professional but flirty/cheeky so I'm not in a vulnerable position. Equally, I think so is he. High stakes in that sense.
Eycky, you are right, their emails are monitored and they are expected to be business only. I think I'm going to back off on the emails as he's gone back to quite formal - maybe someone has warned him or as he and I become more regularly in contact, he is more worried about being seen to be unprofessional.
ANYHOWS, I could talk about it all day but I am going to try and focus on weight loss for the next month or two and see some pounds come off.