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Hmmmmm that B&B Investment is looking sweeter by the minute...... Sister, I want you to be HAPPY!!! What can I say today to make you smile. HMMMMMMMMMMMMM let me see....................... OH, how about the fact that my boobs probably have stretch marks on them that form the shape of Michigan on them???? NO, that probably wasn't good enough, Ummmmmmm Oh, Oh, Okay, How about " My H and I both rolled over lastnight looked at each other, with those eyes, and at the EXACT SAME TIME, said "NO, let's just go to sleep, I'm tired" LOL LOL It was so damn funny!! We both really wanted it, but we both had NO ENERGY to put forth in getting it started. LOL LMAO!!!!! How bad is that??? I said BABES, let's just get FRISKY tomorrow night, and well we both laughed again, because we know damn well we are going to be hitting the pillow rather than each other before 10, the week nights are the worst for us, because we both workout late and by the time we get home we are WHIPPED, that's why the weekends are so important.

If that didn't make you laugh, I'm a LOSER!!!!! LOL LOL Well, your always welcome to flip my boob if you want, after all it's LEZZY DAY!! GO FOR IT!!, I'm not tired right now.
LOVE YA TWIN!!
 
Hi Kimberly

I am sorry to hear that. I hope that things improve for you soon - one way or another.

I imagine that you spend quite a bit of time considering your options - brainstorming by yourself. Walking can be very beneficial.

One option would be to get your parents to charge you rent that they secretly put aside into a savings account for your benefit.

That way - there is no longer a major financial incentive to stay with parents - which is never ideal for a marriage in my opinion. If you got out on your own things may improve.

If the marriage is indeed over - eventually that savings account could be put towards a deposit on something that would be in your name.

Just a thought.......

Take care
Love
Margaret
 
Omega said:
Hi Kimberly

I am sorry to hear that. I hope that things improve for you soon - one way or another.

I imagine that you spend quite a bit of time considering your options - brainstorming by yourself. Walking can be very beneficial.

One option would be to get your parents to charge you rent that they secretly put aside into a savings account for your benefit.

That way - there is no longer a major financial incentive to stay with parents - which is never ideal for a marriage in my opinion. If you got out on your own things may improve.

If the marriage is indeed over - eventually that savings account could be put towards a deposit on something that would be in your name.

Just a thought.......

Take care
Love
Margaret
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We barely get by as it is without paying rent. There just isn't any money in the bank to pay it. I've been after H to get a better job, but he appears to be unwilling to do it. I don't know what his problem is. He doesn't like to talk about it and i've given up, quite frankly. i just don't care anymore.
 
awww...Y'all are so sweet to me! :beating::beating:

I, too, loved the boob stretchmark comment. :smilielol5::smilielol5:

Kim, mine are in the shape of Oklahoma..:smilielol5: Well, one is, the other is in the shape of texas for Stacy. :D

If I had a third boob, It'd be in the shape California for Val. :D

Well, I should check out my inner thighs, maybe one's in the shape of Cali, and the other of Hawaii!! :smilielol5::smilielol5:
 
bikinibound said:
We barely get by as it is without paying rent. There just isn't any money in the bank to pay it. I've been after H to get a better job, but he appears to be unwilling to do it. I don't know what his problem is. He doesn't like to talk about it and i've given up, quite frankly. i just don't care anymore.
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that's a rough situation... while it's sad to see any marriage fail - if the communication isn't there at some point it's best for all parties to just cut your losses and get on with your lives separately, sooner rather than later... you deserve a partner who is an equal...
 
Time to go home and face the H...lol. I wish I could stay late at the office, but I have to go home and get on my exercise bike. :D That's one way to avoid him..lmao.

We just seem to be incapable of giving each other what the other wants and needs in a partner.

Ok, I'll stop now. Nobody wants to listen to me whine and moan about my life. It could be a hell of a lot worse. :sifone:
 
it's your life - you can talk about it -- good or bad -- it's your current situation -

better to get it out than to let it eat away at you...

everything could always be worse - doesn't mean that it doesn't suck right now and it's bugging you...
 
bikinibound said:
Time to go home and face the H...lol. I wish I could stay late at the office, but I have to go home and get on my exercise bike. :D That's one way to avoid him..lmao.

We just seem to be incapable of giving each other what the other wants and needs in a partner.

Ok, I'll stop now. Nobody wants to listen to me whine and moan about my life. It could be a hell of a lot worse. :sifone:
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Hey there girl,I am sorry to hear about you and "H" we have alot of simalar problems just today he said "i loveyou,I say I love you then he said are ya sure ummm yeah well you don't show,I get no effction blah blah blah,you know what he comes home and hops on that game ASAP and then about hour before bed he starts noticing I am here because he wants some I swear I feel like that is all he wants anymore.
He threw a comment out a few times that pissed me off like my son is 19 months and gets into everything well he says god you get on my nerves always into stuff,none of the other kids did this LMAO are you kidding me I have video tapes of kids touching radios tv's ect hitting 1 another ok then my dog goes and eats to fast and gets sick so he says I hate you dog and I am like WTF the dog pukes and you hate him I said I guess you just don't like anyone unless it's a video game or friends @ work grrrrr plus he quit the extra money job 2 months ago and we have been struggling a bit so GIRL I know how ya feel but I DO LOVE HIM just hate his shitty outlook and arritude lately.SOrry for venting here:cuss::banghead: feel free to do the same in my diary lol *HUGGS** also duh I stopped by to say keep up the gr8 work!Tammy
 
Well, as sad as not having your marriage work out is, in your case I think you can definately say you gave it every chance you could. Good luck with an incredibly difficult decision.
 
Well last night, I was actually looking forward to him coming home (for once) bc I was horny..lmao. So he came home, and was in a pissy mood from the get go. Not just a pissy mood, but pissy to me, too. Just being an ass. So finally I said to him, "Ya know, I was actually looking forward to you coming home tonight, but now I'm sorry you did." His response, "I wasn't looking forward to coming home tonight, and I wish I hadn't." So I said, "Let's just get divorced. This clearly isn't working out, and I'm sick of this." He said, ok. He went to bed, and I didn't see him again until about 3am when I was going to bed. He got up to pee and asked me if the bedroom was too cold (he opened the window again). I told him no. It was a lot warmer last night (high 40s). Then he said goodnight in a nice way--which he wouldnt have said if he was mad. He was at work by the time I got up, and I didn't see him again until tonight. He tried to talk to me like everything was fine. But I have been cool to him. I changed, got on my bike, took a shower, and he was in bed by the time I was done. So evidently he doesn't think I was serious last night.

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Gosh, I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this!

It doesn't seem like he is taking you seriously at all...

Is he avoiding you, or do you guys rarely see each other normally?
 
daiseeangel said:
Gosh, I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this!

It doesn't seem like he is taking you seriously at all...

Is he avoiding you, or do you guys rarely see each other normally?
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Lately, we see each other, but it's not like we do much together. We haven't gone out in ages. It's not much of a marriage anymore. We have very few things in common. It's like we've grown apart.
 
Oh gosh Star, that is a horrible situation, knowing you want to end it but taking those steps is so hard some people avoid them for decades (that's the case for a friend of mine). I dunno know what to say but I feel for you. That is damn awkward, just to say the least. It gets worse from there. Ohhh boy. And if you're anything like me you're just the slightest relieved that he didnt take it seriously so things dont have to take such a drastic change, even though you wish they would at the same time. Well I've been there many a time (I've lived with 4 different guys starting in college so...).
 
Blancita said:
Oh gosh Star, that is a horrible situation, knowing you want to end it but taking those steps is so hard. And if you're anything like me you're just the slightest relieved that he didnt take it seriously so things dont have to take such a drastic change, even though you wish they would at the same time.
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Yeah, you pretty much nailed that nail on the head. ;)
 
Hi Kimberly

I really feel for your situation. It must be so difficult for you.

Only you can make these decisions.

It is clear that you have a lot of friends here who can support you through any actions that you decide to take. You are certainly not alone.

Venting is often good for you - so if you want to vent I am sure that you have a choice of a vast array of diaries in addition to your own. Alternatively PM folk if you want an individual viewpoint or an element of privacy.

Take care
Love
Margaret
 
Wow, haven't been around much.... sorry I missed all this. Kimberly, IMO, you really need to sit him down and have a serious talk. This is your marriage you are talking about. And either it's salvageable or it's not. You both know if it is or isn't.

If it is, letting the other fall to sleep night after night without discussing where this relationship is heading is insanity.

If it isn't, you are too good of a person to mentally jail yourself into something that should/would never really work. Life's too short to spend it twisting someone's arm simply for a bit of affection and love.
 
Hey beautiful,

you know if you need to vent, I'm just a phone call away. Also... if you want me to call your husband and threaten the pants off of him, I'd be more than willing to do so. ;) Love yas, angel... the holidays are around the corner... isn't it "decision time?" :hug2:

-Sheryl
 
Steve said:
If it isn't, you are too good of a person to mentally jail yourself into something that should/would never really work. Life's too short to spend it twisting someone's arm simply for a bit of affection and love.
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Steve's right. He's such a smart one.






Let's run away and become "Slug Sisters" aka Lezzies. HAHA! I love yas, honey. I hope your day goes well.

-Sugar Snatch
 
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