being skinny obbsession

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hey i know i have made loads of post saying i want to lose weight and that i am at a weight loss plautea, but i have lost 1 pound more and now i weight exactlly 55kg which is 121 pounds and im 5,9. i really do want to get down more to about 120-119 the thing is that even thought i have lost weight and im underweight i still dont feel thin enough, im looking in the mirror and its not what i want to c, i still c big boobs which i absoultaly hate. i want to be skinny im not saying i want to lose like im going to faint but i want to be skinnier. i might bring my weight loss goal to 115, my friend the only person whos knows about my weight loss goals and my weight obbsession is saying i have developed an eating disorder as im always lowering my weight loss goal, but i wouldnt need to lower my weight loss goal if i lose weight in areas that i want to get smaller. what should i do? plus its really hard for me to lose weight as my parents r keeping a close eye on me and if they c me not eating or exercisng too much they will force me to go to the doctor again. can anyone give me any advice on what to do. my major place that i want to lose weight is my bust but spot reducing is not possible, so should i get down to 115 lb.
 
You have the exact same thing that I have. EXACT.

I am 5'7", and 116lbs. I weigh less than my mother! She's about 120lbs.

Anyway's, I found out 1 thing. At that weight, you are NOT fat. Going any lower will result in you looking even worse. TRUST me, for your own good. I took pictures of myself, and, while it wasn't THAT bad, I saw that I was somewhat skinny, even with my muscle. Therefore, I am currently trying to increase my muscle size.

Anyways, want to get rid of those breasts you have? Bench press. That's the BEST method. Eating, while extremely important, will NOT get you want you want to have.

For instance, I was just talking to this one girl friend that I have, and SOMEHOW we managed to get on the topic of weight.... :rolleyes:

I weigh LESS than her. She's 123. She's also younger than me, and about 4 inches shorter than me. Somehow, when I thought that it wouldn't be, it actually WAS embarrassing, somehow.

Anyways, don't be obsessed with the scale. Scales are garbage. I wouldnt mind if I weighed 700lbs, as long as I had my ideal body. It's just a damaged number.
 
oh plz..that is just being overshallow now.. you're fine..what a stupid and prolly unhealthy obsession :)
how old r u?
 
I am sorry you feel you have to do this to yourself. I highly doubt you are going to find the advice you are looking for here, and that is how to destroy yourself even further. I won't bother telling you to stop what you are doing. You have probably heard it a thousand times already and are tired of people "not understanding".

Can I ask why you are doing this? It's clear that you don't feel you are thin enough, but for who? For guys? Trust me, being a stick is extremely unattractive. For yourself? Most people who say this are lying so they don't sound superficial. We are programed at a genetic level to try and attract the opposite sex.

Being thin (not scrawny) with big boobs is a blessing dear. Accept that there are things in life that you can not change and you will be happy and live a little. You will never be happy on the path you are on.

I know you will probably just ignore this advice, like the advice of your family, friends, and doctor, but hey, worth a shot. I hate to see people throwing thier lives away over something so trivial as a number on a scale.
 
DONT IGNORE THE ADVICES!!!!!!!!!!!!

seriously girl.. if you were starving in Africa you'd prolly get that body! you know what I mean? ... it's just stupid to think that way
 
i am a girl, and the only reason i want to lose my breast well i dont want to lose them just want them smaller cause i dont find big breast that great i hate it when women want big boobs ro resort to implants to have big boobs. i have been skinny when i was a kid and then a matured and well i guess im freaking out in 17 and a female. i never wanted my weight to become an obsession its really hard cause im in college and trying really hard to sotp thinking about my weight and just focusing on my studies but its hard whenever u pass a mirror or c ur reflection in window and c your self as ugly and fat. the thing is im getting thin around my face and my face is kinda starting to look too skiinny but my body isnt getting as thin as i want it.
 
you might need some help to overcome that =/ ..its weird being skinny and seeing urself as fat..and thats a disease
 
its people like you that give society such a weird twist with weight girl. if you consider yourself 'fat' at 121lbs... get some help. im about a healthy 145 lbs (usually 140) with a lot of muscle and and im 5'6 and i dont think im fat. im trying to get more toned up but i dont resort to saying im fat. cuz thats stupid and bad to talk to yourself like that. stop the negative talk and just be healthy and try not to be what you see on americas next top model. enjoy some god damn chocolate and plz stop whining about losing your last 1 lb. Go read the news paper or something. Theres a lot of stuff goin on in the world and i bet you could contribute a hell of a lot if you took your attention off your last few lbs. come on.
 
hey zah, i dont want to worry you here, but ive been studing psychology for two years now, and it sounds like you have a problem. it sounds lke you seem to have a illusion of how "fat" you are. this could be the start of anaorexia nervosa. go to your doctor, tell him about how you "see" yourself in the mirror, im sure he can help.
as i said i dont wat to worry, it could just be nothing and you could simply be a teenage grl going through the normal girl s**t.
 
i wish i had your boob problem. but i don't and i am ok with that . at this point i think there are more important things to worry about like the ppl i scoop up off the street or the old man that is drowning in his own fluids. be strong and love the body you have we never are happy with what we have. i am at 31 finally in love with my body the funny thing is it s the same body i had 10yrs ago but with way more muscle. love your self and watch how other ppl react it is truely amazing.
 
*sigh* Today's society and media doesn't help this person's problem. The most popular and desired women are skinny toothpicks...which is a bad influence on our younger generation. After reading her posts I lean towards eating disorders, in which the person has a distorted image of her body everytime she looks in the mirror. Honey, you are most likely beautiful the way you are and as for the boob problem...be thankful for them, they are what we were intended to have....why do you think so many women have surgery to increase them? Be thankful you are healthy, and at a weight that most desire to have. I do hope you see a doctor though, because you do have a sad view of yourself, which is abnormal. Keep your chin up and try to be happy with your body. And feel free to email me if you need support. I've learned at my age to be thankful for my chest, and I hope you can to :)
 
thank you for all your advice and support, even thou i dont want to go to the doctor as i do not want to gain any weight i however do want to stop this unhealthy obbsession cause its affecting my studies, i however do want to lose weight and i doubt anyone can make me change my mind on that. but im greatfull for all your advice and supprt.
 
i doubt losing the weihgt will make you feel better. honestly i had an eating disorder when i was younger. i almost screwed up my heart big time. then i smartened up thanks to my dad. now i am fit and happy with myself. i'm 5'5" and i weigh around 125 -130. and i'm very "toned" well a little more than toned but you get it. anyway if you want to talk you can pm me and i'll try to help as much as i can if not good luck and remember you can be 'skinny' but skinny and dead wouldn't help you and a bone rack is gross.
 
I may be a day or 2 too early on this, but you are touching on an important subject that I could not avoid.
I'm producing an episode (#11) this week on my podcast that deals directly with eating disorders. It should be up & running on 11/18/05. You can get it at the following site:

I'm sorry if this sounds like a plug for my show, it's not! There are some important information that I want to get across to people like these that are treading dangerous waters.
 
the only reason i am wanting to lose weight is cause i want to lose weight in certain areas that i havnt been. and cause you cant spot reduce ill have to lose weight all over and am willin gto do that if i can get thinner in those places.
 
Eating Disorders

Please check out the latest episode (#11) in our podcast which discuss these types of problems. Here is the link to where you can listen to it:



BTW, the topic about how some forums are giving mis-information about eating disorders is not related to this board, but from another dieting forum ;)
 
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