being skinny obbsession
- Thread starter zah_zah
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ok everyone being at this point myself many moons ago i can assure you that it is not about looking perfect for any man or boy. its about the person you are and how you feel, its really not about how anyone else sees you but how you see yourself inside. the body is just a shell somewhere comfortable to hide. and so much more to it than looks and men, its about oneself.
yeah its horrible.. well, I think ive felt fat before and had some problems with anemia but never crossed a certain line specially because I love sweets..otherwise Id probably be a skinny ass little thing w no energy basically I overcame that phase (just like jenn as it seems).. and this girl needs to wake up as wellwork in progress maf i'm doing my best to help her out. it starts with caring about someone. so we'll see if we can help. and yes i have come thru a whole lot my life and now i am confident in myself and best of all i love me for all my flaws and who i have become, what i have to offer. it will happen for zah zah too, sooner than later though i hope. i will support her in any way i can and hope it helps some. i actually worry less about the whole weight thing. i'm more worried about the feeling thing.
well looks like you got some great advice here zah zah, especially from jenn
It sounds like a really tough phase to get through but if jenn managed it I'm sure you'll be able to think about it less and less. It is important not to get too thin to the point of being at a loss of energy and unhleathy. My 10 year old cousin was overweight but she took a trampolining course and now she has a six pack..so it can be done. But if its your breasts you want to lose weight on, I doubt I can help you there. If diet doesn't work I hope you'll come to realise that you're fine the way you are and don't need to lose more weight.
It sounds like a really tough phase to get through but if jenn managed it I'm sure you'll be able to think about it less and less. It is important not to get too thin to the point of being at a loss of energy and unhleathy. My 10 year old cousin was overweight but she took a trampolining course and now she has a six pack..so it can be done. But if its your breasts you want to lose weight on, I doubt I can help you there. If diet doesn't work I hope you'll come to realise that you're fine the way you are and don't need to lose more weight.
zah_zah said:
I think the thing you need to realise is that at your current weight/height and with your self proclaimed obsession is that it is impossible for you to loose weight healthily - your Body Mass Index is already considered underweight, so you are putting your health at risk by trying to loose more weight. You seriously need to speak to a counsellor - the behaviours you are describing are classic symptoms of anorexia nervosa, and if left untreated it may very well kill you. Please seek help