It is, I just wish it were bigger. Not enough veggies to keep us fed, but enough to get at least something fresh every day.Your garden sounds so delicious Rob!
I agree, we often eat them within 20 minutes of picking, it really is different. Green fries, I like that, never heard it before.Fresh green beans are pretty much unbeatable. I called them green fries as a kid and loved them about as much as the yellow deep-fried things, And the ones you can get in the store or at the farmers´ market just aren´t the same. Too big and been off the vine too long.
I have a hard time thinking of it as passing people, I tend to still think of myself as the fat guy newcomer here. I know that's not true, but sometimes feelings change slower than bodies. And while I very much appreciate your saying it, Petal, I don't see myself as amazing. And I could not have done this without you and my other amazing forum friends!Hey Rob I think you have by passed loads of us not only Jack . You are totally amazing .


In that case I'm going to repeat it: you're bloody amazing! Conquering your cravings, conquering your fears, AND being endlessly supportive is a truly amazing combination.And while I very much appreciate your saying it, Petal, I don't see myself as amazing.
And while I very much appreciate your saying it, Petal, I don't see myself as amazing. And I could not have done this without you and my other amazing forum friends!
Yes I had an increase in size in my garden this year but still I think--oh maybe next year i could make it bigger...but actually I need to improve the soil quality in my present one before i expand as I know I could make the space i have more productive...anyways yes so nice to get fresh foodIt is, I just wish it were bigger. Not enough veggies to keep us fed, but enough to get at least something fresh every day.


You are still in a a deficit of calories every day I reckon. You’ll be able to maintain Rob. Adding in more ‘proper’ food gradually should satisfy that hunger. I made the mistake of adding in too many unhealthy sweet ‘treats’. I got away with it for a long time & got complacent. It won’t happen again.I will keep on with my new calorie goal for a few more weeks to see what happens, if I keep losing at this rate I will have to up them again.
165 is not bad, so I guess I am happy.

I agree!Being called part of an amazing group makes me feel less defensive than being called amazing. Baby steps![]()
Thanks for the kind words Petal. And I remember the days when I was somewhere between 800 and 1,000 calories a day. I can tell I am eating a lot more now, I can feel it. I may still be in a calorie deficit, but it should be smaller. We'll see how it goes for a couple of weeks. I think a "work in progress" is the best any of us can hope for. Certainly true for me.Half the man in size only Rob ... I was thinking about your weight loss today and remembering back to when you would eat about 900 Cals a day . It’s been a real work in progress to use your words on LaMa diary
Hey Emily, I didn't mean that I am not happy to have lost so much weight, I am. However short term I am just trying to maintain and losing 2 lbs in a week doesn't feel like maintenance. I suspect it will be less in the next couple of weeks.You guess you're happy? 165 not bad?
Rob, it would take a lot to impress you I think. Lol.
Thanks for that, I have heard you say similar things before and appreciate the warning. I have been thinking about your words, I have been down that rebound path before, don't want to do it again.I made the mistake of adding in too many unhealthy sweet ‘treats’. I got away with it for a long time & got complacent.


Thanks for your vote of confidence Petal, and I am sure going to try and make this time different. So far so good.Rob I think this time is different. You are very focused but you have learned to eat healthily this time and you know it’s a lifestyle change . I think you will be ok .
Thanks Emily, and I appreciate your vote as well. I guess many of us have had similar rebound experiences.I totally understand the fear of eating one thing and the whole thing going out of control again.
I had a really bad starvation/reward diet going on when I was 17, and one day I was at the cinema and broke it by buying a bag of pick and mix, and that was it, diet out the window.
I think you are coping very well.
That is probably a good idea, and talking to my trainer is a good first step. She is a trained nutritionist, or was, but she prefers the physical work of training so doesn't practice it a lot.Hi, Rob. You would probably do well with a maintenance eating plan & maintaining control, maybe seeing a Nutritionist for some guidance.

