Epi said:
I think that obsessing about calories is bad, but until you fully understand and realise the number of calories you are consuming from the minute you get out of bed to the minute you go back to bed after the midnight snack - I don't think you can be successful with your diet or lifestyle change. For those who have read my extremely long newbie intro lol - you have a glimpse as to what plan I'm on. I have to keep a journal that details the food, the calories, the protein, the carbs, the fiber and the fat from everything i eat each day. Until I did this, I HAD NO IDEA TRULY what I was consuming. It's amazing. So while obsessing is bad, having a reality check is good.
Obsessing over weighing is also not good, but it also depends on your personality type. I see my doctor every Monday or Wednesday. During the middle of the week, I start to feel the 'this is pointless, must binge'. So I get on the scale and say WOW I lost 2lbs or 3lbs or whatever - and I'm re-focused. It gives me that bit of boost that I need.
I agree. Most of this advice is awesome, but I think #3 needs work or should be elaborated on. It's very important to reduce your intake of calories--in fact, it's the one thing all successful diets share in common. According to studies it's the only thing that will make you lose fat if you are a woman (guys can lose a little through exercise for some reason but most women have a harder time and need to reduce cals).
What I think #3 should say is when you first start working on calories and diet, not to be obsessed with getting down to the max amount from day 1. It takes a little time for body and mind to adjust to new eating habits, and you have to do things gradually or you will feel hungry and end up over-eating to compensate.
For me, tracking my calories has been a big contributor to weight loss. Years ago I used it to lose and keep off 60 pounds for over 5 years. When I gained back 40 pounds this year due to health problems, I have been using calorie counting again and lost over 10 pounds so far without feeling hungry.
As far as weighing goes, I don't think it's terrible to weigh yourself a couple times a week, but when you first start on weight reduction--or if you hit a plateau--it helps to hide the scale and keep the weighing down to once every couple weeks (or even once a month). Sometimes the body needs a little time to kick into weightloss mode and if you don't see the pounds coming off right away it can be very discouraging.
It is very important to keep the balance right, though. The problems with becoming too obsessive when losing weight isn't just because you can become frusterated and go off your diet. It is also bad because you can stay obsessed and become suseptible to a dangerous eating disorder after you hit your goal weight.
This isn't uncommon for those of us who have eating disorders to begin with (like emotional over-eating and binging). The first time I lost, I surpassed my goal weight and became border ana. I was 103--just under a healthy weight for my height, but my skeletal system is built broad and it was a very BAD look on me. I also was not healthy at all. I got sick all the time, felt weak and had troubles sleeping.
Luckily, my husband had a talk with me, and forced me to look in the mirror and see that my face was starting to look skeletal. I stopped counting calories and got into distance running instead. I gained some weight back in muscle and ended up looking (and FEELING) better than I ever did when I was dieting alone.
One of my relatives went through something like that--but even more extreme. He went from from being obese during his childhood and young adulthood to becoming dangerously anorexic. He ended up in a hospital and had to be retaught how to view food so he didn't die.
He then refocused his obsession into making his body HEALTHY--instead of just skinny. He started weight-training and now competes as a body builder instead (but his wife keeps on him to prevent him from over-exercising--which can be another unhealthy obsession).
I apologize for rambling... Most of us here are still working on getting to our goal weights and may not have to worry about this when we get there, but I had to share this... It's really important to remember these things once we get to our GWs so we all stay healthy (and HAPPY) afterwords.