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I'm sorry hun, I didn't realize the X was being such an ass! ((hugs)) I wish you could cut him out forever, but I know its hard to do that having kids. Ugh, I wish I knew what to say that you dont' already know...you know your too good to put up w/ his shit!

Just remember, i'm here for you if you wanna drop a pm ok??
 
In a way it was a blessing...I will never forget this and never ever wanna sleep with him agian so really it is all good!!! Ive dealt with it and I am OK...
 
Girl you know how i feel about the whole situation with the x and i am sorry i ever convinced you to give that bastard another chance at all.. I can't believe he could be so stupid to hurt you like that.. oh wait yeah i can its called them thinking with the other head not the one on their shoulders.. haha sorry just trying to make you feel better.. anyways.. don't worry about the weight we will kick the weight in the ass and look hot this time next year.. all we gotta do is stick together.. hope to hear from you soon. Oh yeah just cause hubby's home now doesn't mean you go run off and not text or email or im me either ok.. i will still have time for my friends.

ok hugs.. heather
 
It seems like asshole exes are like opinions, everybody's got one. I'm sorry that you had to be reminded why he was an ex in the first place. The less contact the better. Good for you on not putting up with it. You are beautiful inside and out and I hope you know that.
 
Hope today you woke up & life is good. Just enjoy it the way YOU want to & don't even think about the losers who try to mess up your good times!
 
HI Cerella,
I am sorry I have not been here for you till now.. but I am here now and I will stay.
Will catch up on your diary today.
Thank you for all your encouraging and support in my diary.
Have a great day!
Hajni
 
So, what did you do on your day off? I am a stay at home mom and sometimes I really need a day off, too! I have a huge list of things I would want to do if I got a day off, but I would probably stay in and sleep till my brains drained out my ears!
 
*tiffany* said:
So, what did you do on your day off? I am a stay at home mom and sometimes I really need a day off, too! I have a huge list of things I would want to do if I got a day off, but I would probably stay in and sleep till my brains drained out my ears!
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Ha a day off here is just as busy if not busier than a work day...

I met the x for lunch big mistake...he invited me to lunch and then he was being an ass...so i told him i wasnt dealign with it and if he was gonna contine on he coudl move to a diff table and he did...right behind me...lol I lost my appetite and left - for the first time ever I walked away from him...and damn it felt good.

Ya know whatever the hell this is sucks it really does...but whatever...Im done...just done...this whole experience with the x leaves me and always does with no self esteem...how can someone so worthless makes someone so good feel like nothing...and then the biggest question is why am i nothing to him...

I better stop im gonna cry...

*SIGH*

and I failed my fuckin learners for class 4 again...but she said it is very rare for ppl to pass first try and usually the 3rd and 4th are the ones...LOL
 
cinderelly said:
I met the x for lunch big mistake...he invited me to lunch and then he was being an ass...so i told him i wasnt dealign with it and if he was gonna contine on he coudl move to a diff table and he did...right behind me...lol I lost my appetite and left - for the first time ever I walked away from him...and damn it felt good.

Ya know whatever the hell this is sucks it really does...but whatever...Im done...just done...this whole experience with the x leaves me and always does with no self esteem...how can someone so worthless makes someone so good feel like nothing...and then the biggest question is why am i nothing to him...
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Hey babygirl,
this is Taneesha's daddy, right? If so, I understand you want him to be a part of her life. However, that doesn't give him the right to treat you like shit and it sure as hell shouldn't leave you feeling "worthless." Just put it straight to him and say, "Hey, if you want to see your daughter, then cool. As for wanting to get back with me... there's no chance in hell." Don't allow him to get the best of you. Most individuals who pull this power trip bullshit on their significant others strive on seeing the other feel miserable. Once he realizes you don't hold a flame for him, then his 'power' over you is non-existent. Point blank: fuck him. Love you, relly...

-Sheryl
 
MsGhettoBooty said:

Hey babygirl,
this is Taneesha's daddy, right? If so, I understand you want him to be a part of her life. However, that doesn't give him the right to treat you like shit and it sure as hell shouldn't leave you feeling "worthless." Just put it straight to him and say, "Hey, if you want to see your daughter, then cool. As for wanting to get back with me... there's no chance in hell." Don't allow him to get the best of you. Most individuals who pull this power trip bullshit on their significant others strive on seeing the other feel miserable. Once he realizes you don't hold a flame for him, then his 'power' over you is non-existent. Point blank: fuck him. Love you, relly...

-Sheryl
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Ha Ya that is why he freaks out...cuz he looses his control over me...he is a litlte baby...

He threatened me with court action...went on and on and on - disrespecting me and calling me names and so on ...I shared the msn chat with Heather...she knows it is pretty bad - i would never share it as I really dont think anyone knows just exactly how bad he is...

Anyway...So I got to thinkin - I really dont care if he takes me to court it wont change anythign I am the one with sole custody and full guardianship and everythign I need to keep her safe. The only down fall is, I have a damn good court order and with a new court date comes a new court order...but I got my wits abt me and banged heads with a friend and this is what we came up with and what I told him...

:lurk5:That before running to court he might wanna consider going to jail - :smilielol5: - For fraud - You see he is on compo and working...full time physio to recorrect his back and shoulder, not allowed to return back to work - orders from the doc but he works every evening and weekends...go figure huh...

ILLEGAL!!!

So he called me a rat and told me he has no respect for me - I told him I have even less for him...a man who can treat me and my kids the way he has for years and even his own is no man at all...So he will go through my granny to visit Taneesha and see her upstairs in Grannies space...and I will make sure I am not home so I dont have to see him...

Anyway loooser - he freaked out and lost it when I told him I dont trust him anymore...especially with Taneesha - for those of you who don't know Taneesha is my 3 yr old.He wants to take her and such and I said no it is agianst our court order and I dont trust him...It has been abt 2 weeks since she has seen him...last time it was a week between visits before that it was a month - give me a break she knows him not enough to be left with him...

Plus I tried gettin him more invovled and such and to watch her here and there he said it was too much work - funny isnt it.

Im sure there is good out there waiting for me...Im deserving and waiting for my karma...(Not bad I must add_ Ive had enough bad karma - LOL - Ive paid for my past thank you very much...
 
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I second that!! Life is hard Cerella, but your one strong woman, you'll get through this!!

Heres to a great weekend :D
 
Thanx Ladies

My food has been bad bad bad...

Yesturday morning I went to water aerobics and a 20 min walk with the dog

Thursday a 20 min walk wiht the dog...

That is it for the exercise lately and food im not even gonna discuss...

Tonight is my Xmas party for work - they provide the food and I will drink and then tomorrow Im back in control - Im tired of this...
 
Hey there,
One thing I know is you are a tough cookie
and a gr8 mommy and thats all your daughter needs right now!
I hope you have fun @ your Xmas party,I have a party to tonight
so make sure no top's go flying lol inside j/k.Have a gr8 day Tammy
 
Elliptical 3 miles...Water Areobics - 1 hr

Food today - some pringles and sushi...a piece of cheese

Dinner is a buffet of food at the xmas party...

Im gettin drunk tonight!!! Im never irresponsible or let loose tonight im drinkin and drinkin as much as I want I dont need to worry abt getitn home that is covered!!!
 
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