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Well sweetie, that sounds crazy with him having random sex like that with people. You've got to watch out for your health and turn off to him for absolute good. You are absolutely no doormat and you shouldn't be spending time around someone like that. You will run into someone that you're just as hot for at some point but a cheat definitely needs to be left alone. You deserve far better Relly so I hope you're not upset with me being blunt :).
 
MoonGoddess said:
Good for in not putting up with it. Its not like the two of you had any agreements to be open, so his opening that door, certainly should mean its time to SLAM yours right in his face. Atleast now you know & wonder forever wonder what would have happen had you tried again. Also you have some lil gals who need to see that they are worth more than letting some guy treat you badly... I'm going out on a limb saying this isn't the only way he disrespected you. Most guys like that aren't just slipping sexually it seems.

So now you know. & here you grow.....

Awesome job on the work out too! Hope today is a FANTASTIC day for you.
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Blancita said:
Well sweetie, that sounds crazy with him having random sex like that with people. You've got to watch out for your health and turn off to him for absolute good. You are absolutely no doormat and you shouldn't be spending time around someone like that. You will run into someone that you're just as hot for at some point but a cheat definitely needs to be left alone. You deserve far better Relly so I hope you're not upset with me being blunt :).
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I completely agree with both of them!!!

You are SO MUCH better than this!!!!
 
All I want to say is I LUB YA GIRL!! Your to good to be treated this way, and if you need me to come out there and bust a boot in his ass just let me know. And if you really want to know, I wrote two huge paragraphs on why I'm so mad at your ex, but my H came up and read it and told me I shouldn't get so hateful and should post something postive instead, so this is all I could come up with for now. YOU DESERVE BETTER, because you are BETTER than him and someday a wonderful man is going to stumble your way and treat you like the queen you are!! And it's okay to be single I was for many,many years. I'm so sorry about the whole mess. Hope it gets better soon for you!!
VERY BIG HUGS!!:waving:
Kim
 
I'm sorry he hurt you again cerella. I know you want some love but he is obviously not the one who will give it to you the way you want and need...the way everybody wants, needs and above all deserve. and you deserve so much. you are worthy of a man who will feel like he's blessed to have you, who is there for you and who will feel like you're the best thing in the world. and you WILL find someone like that.
Kim is right,its ok to be single. its even better than being with someone who doesn't deserve you. and he definitely doesn't.

i'm here for you sweety
a big hug
Lena
 
Thanx Beauties,

It isnt abt beign single I have no issues with that at all - I was single forever before I started dating again and hooked up with the x...for the first time...I just need to stay away from him which I will...

*SIGH* I couldn't sleep last night and I am at work - working all weekend the day shift - 7am - 5pm - *UGH*!!!

Im really sorry I allowed him to do this to me agian - never can I trust him ever...
 
Miss Ladybug said:
And if you really want to know, I wrote two huge paragraphs on why I'm so mad at your ex, but my H came up and read it and told me I shouldn't get so hateful and should post something postive instead, so this is all I could come up with for now.
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Kim angel, go over there and give that darling husband of yours a hug from me and thank him, because when you get into Bitch Mode it scares the hell out of me and I can't poop for days. HA! jk

Relly doll,

Hmmm.... how do I put this nicely. Fuck it. I can't. I'm Sheryl. A filthy dick needs to remain a lonely dick. I'm with the girls: You deserve a GOOD man.

Also, I can tell you you're beautiful until I'm blue in the face, but until you truly believe that, it'll just be 'words from a friend', KWIM? Don't settle... up your standards and go for them. Bitches as beautiful as us, won't settle for anything less, ma ma and you remember that.

-Sheryl
 
MsGhettoBooty said:


Also, I can tell you you're beautiful until I'm blue in the face, but until you truly believe that, it'll just be 'words from a friend', KWIM? Don't settle... up your standards and go for them. Bitches as beautiful as us, won't settle for anything less, ma ma and you remember that.

-Sheryl
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Thanx Sheryl - Ive never believed Im beautiful...Ive always figured Im pretty damn average - I know Im not ugly...but that is abt the extent of it...LOL:willy_nilly:

Mind you I have either been alone and single or tied down by a man that has always made me feel worthless...that might have alot to do with it...

Ive really felt like life is just kinda unfair - ya know...I guess someone decent is out there somewhere...but why cant I mean someting to someone i love...:rant:anyway...

No exercise yesturday - i wasw like crying all night the night before slept for maybe 3 hrs...worked the day shift 7am - 5pm came home and went out for a few hrs running errands and was absolutly exhausted...will prob elliptical today after work - I work 7am - 5pm agian today...Monday - noon - 1opm and Tues 7am - 5pm and Thurs noon - 10pm - I have a bit of a hectic work schedule this week...

Todays weight - 228.6


 
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Not stress on taking a night off to cry. Just purging the mess from your system & opening yourself up for the goodness to fill in the gaps left open when you let it all go.

Hope today is wonderful for you.
 
hey girl sorry we haven't got to chat much lately. i know the ex is a major ass and if i could i would go up there and kick some sense into him. maybe then he wouldn't have ever hurt your and lord knows if he ever hurts taneesha that will be the end of him for good. I would really come up there and kick his ass. i won't stand for him hurting you let alone him hurting the girls thats just wrong.

anyways.. enough about that hope things at work were to hard on you today. i'll talk to you soon. text me if you wanna chat if i am not on messenger tomorrow is going to be kinda crazy in the morning. lol

heather
 
Today's weight 228.6 - WOW - I ate and ate and ate yesturday - and I am taking I had like 3 cream jelly roll kinda things and pizza and garlic bread for dinner and so on and so on...lol...I also havent exercised since my run on Friday evening - Ive just beene xhausted...last night I was off work at 5:00 - I didnt leave till abt 5:30...I stoped at the store bought some fruit ad veggies and stuff and came home. Taneesha and I made pizza's for dinner and salad.It was fun and she really enjoted it.By the time we ate and got settled it was abt 8:45 and I was exhausted - we went to bed and to sleep and I slept till 7:15 lol...10 hrs - WOW!!!I must of needed it...

I wont be exercising today as I need to go and write my learners agian for my class 4 licence...and work begins at noon...and I am there till 10pm - lol oh fun stuff and then I get to return to work for 7am the next morning...then thankfully I get Wednesday off!!!10 hr shifts are killers and day wasters.

My x - after I told him I was done wiht him and wanted no more contact at all...or as little as possible...I emailed him and told him contact through email only - not to call or anythign...no more msn...just no more nothing...when he wants to see Taneesha he can email me...so then he is still sending me email - I know it is dumb but I want no contact with him - only way I can deal with things...so he sends me a forwarded email and it is a quiz all abt these stupid questions you answer for him...and abt him...like - do you find me loveable...do you ever think I will marry if so who and so on...I responded and told him I was sure he didnt want me answering that and told him i wanted no more email...no more contact...so he responded to it by telling me how mean and horrible I am and how I lie and all this shit and i blah blah blah...it really is sad...and then he tells me he is avoiding me - no shit - i told him before I wanted nothign more to do with him...looooser.It is all abt power and control...
 
Well, guess what!?! In this situation, YOU have the power and control! You are so strong to have ever even put up with him in the first place, and he has NO control over you now. He keeps coming back around you so obviously he knows your worth. He is just too stupid to cherish that and protect the love you would have given him. Solace yourself in this: YOU know how to love. Someday you will have a real man and a real relationship that will throw you over then moon. He, on the other hand, will most likely always be the guy he is and move from one meaningless casual experience to another. Everyone is right- You are SO MUCH better than that....even if you don't know it. HUGS
 
Good morning babe! how are ya? Sorry about the X thing, I really dont' know what to tell ya as far as thats concerned. All I can say is that I know you will do the right thing!

Don't worry about the number Cerella! Todays a new day! Its a fresh start! Lets just forget about the past, where we 'should be by now" and such, just look to the future! I can see its gonna be a sexy one!!
 
:waving: Howdy Cerella,
Sorry about the X you did your part gave him
chance after chance and thats all you do and he obviously blew
it and doesn't deserve such a kind hearted beautiful GAL like yourself
Don't think for a 2nd that your not beautiful cuz you are!
I hope things look up for ya,HUGGS have a nice day,Tammy:waving:
 
Cinder, I hope you have a better week! I think it will get better from here, since you kicked him to the curb so to speak the other day. He might try to contact you and annoy you for awhile, but hey I'm sure your used to that from the prior break up. Keep strong, and you'll make it through this one. Just think, you have your beautiful girls to keep you going. Don't worry about the weight, just worry about taking care you of and your family. We lub ya!!!

Try and get some peace the next few days, and maybe a little elliptical time. I hope your getting away for Thanksgiving, I think that would be good for you and the girls. HUGS TO YOU!!:waving:
Kim
 
Hey cerella.. i hope you know that no matter how things work out for you and the x that your friends here on wlf and I myself certainly think that you are beautiful and one day when the time is right and you are ready you will find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve so much and that the girls will adore all too.

Anyways.. i know the 10 hour shifts are day-killers so when you want just text me and i'll respond if i'm not too busy cleaning since phillip is coming home either tomorrow or wednesday for sure.. woohoo lol anyways talk to you tomorrow girl.

heather
 
Thanx everyone for the support...it is muchly appreciated and appearantly needed lol!!!

Weight 229.8 or something:ack2::drool5::piggy:I will get it together again here shortly - LOL

I only drank a little over a liter of water yesturday so that is part of the problem...and i need to start postin my food agian...

thankfully I have a day off tomorrow...

I will get around to diaries soon ladies...thanx so much for you support and Heather Im sorry Ive been so crazy busy with work and such...I will text you later on today, no boss today...LOL
 
You'll get it together Cerella, I know you will!!

YAY for not having a boss today!! Those days are always good!
 
cinderelly said:
...so then he tells me he had oral sex with soemone else and not only that but he caught somethign from him her or it...
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:eek2: OMG Cerella!!!! :( Ugh!! Are you ok???

cinderelly said:

Mind you I have either been alone and single or tied down by a man that has always made me feel worthless...that might have alot to do with it...
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Awwww Cerella. Sometimes self-worth is a lifelong Holy-Grail-esque search. It's worth it, though. There's a man out there for you!

cinderelly said:
i told him before I wanted nothign more to do with him...looooser.It is all abt power and control...
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Don't give in to him!!!

cinderelly said:

I will get around to diaries soon ladies...thanx so much for you support and Heather Im sorry Ive been so crazy busy with work and such...I will text you later on today, no boss today...LOL
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Hope you are having a good day. Take care of yourself, Chicky! :D
 
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