All good advice and insight. Thank you. I haven't yet broken the race down into realistic goals for each leg-and I'm not sure I want to..but I know I will, because thats the nature of...ME. Most people probably just want to survive it the first time they do it...no expectations. I won't be one of those people-but I won't be unrealistic either.
I need to get my nutrition down. Its my number 1 concern. More specifically, hydration. On that run I got thirsty but struggled with the fact that I was thirsty but couldn't down a whole bottle of water at each pitstop! lol. I drank probably about 6-8 oz each time I stopped and I had only 1 accelgel the whole time. That means I drank around 20-24 oz for the whole 17 miles, half of that was electrolyte liquid-not enough I'm sure. However, even on that little amount I still felt like i was going to barf it up. I just hate anything in my stomach when I run. It doesn't settle, its always threatening to come up.
I do better hydrating on the bike but I do horrible overall about eating anything. I've still not found the magic bullet. I know what you mean about the "full" feeling off the bike even though you hardly eat anything. I've had that before. The article you sent me FF was really really good. It helped to realize that even though we burn a lot of calories in those events, its not necessary to replace them all as you are losing them. Its all about hydration, and electrolyte balance really.
I can manage long things on Saturdays for now but in a few weeks they'll be filled with all day swim meets

. I will need to start being creative. Your suggestion to go from bike to run everytime I'm on my bike is a good one. I just feel I need an outline of a system so I don't miss anything important.
For now I'm running heavier due to that May 3 race but after that I'll just maintain my long runs and not care as much about the speed of my running.
ANYWAY. I'm dog-dead tired today. I was yawning in spin class during hard stuff. haha. I only did an hour of spin before I had to coach and I planned to go swim tonight (I'm seriously slacking on my pool time lately) but I'm not sure thats going to happen. I hear rumors of a date night

SO thats okay, there is plenty of time to work hard this week.
Official swim team starts tomorrow for my kids and they are READY. They've made tremendous progress this month with me. So this also means I'll be coaching 3 hrs each night and still 3 mornings a week with no wiggle room for double workouts.